The River Rushes On

3. The River Rushes On

4. The Power of the RiverMaking Connections and ChangeTom Cody, Willow Sweeney and Paul Bernabei Top 20 Training’s Mission: To enable people to discover their inner power to reach their potential and make a positive difference in their lives and the lives of others.

5. Why Are We Here? • To enhance the lives of children by our unique power to make connections and see new possibilities. • To provide a practical tool that can be applied in situations where change is necessary.

6. A Drop in the BucketMitch Barrett and Carla Gover It’s a crazy world we live in, bad news all around. Brothers and sisters, if we’re gonna make a difference We’re gonna have to stand our ground. It’s a drop in the bucket, and a bucket in the pond, And the pond fills the river, and the river rushes on. Every river swells a river, until the power can’t be stopped And what becomes a mighty ocean, started as a drop.

7. The Frame What We See Is What We Get

8. The Frame See Feel Get Do

9. Making Connections

10. WHAT’S BEHIND THE FRAME? See Feel Get Do

11. BELIEFS See Feel Get Do

12. MESSAGES • BELIEFS See Feel Get Do

14. Core Messages Identity Worth Purpose

15. Potential: a power within us

16. Potential: a power within us…that waits…waits…waits

17. Potential: a power within us…that waits…waits…waits…to get activated

18. Potential: a power within us…that waits…waits…waits…to get activated so it can come through us to make a positive difference

19. Potential: a power within us…that waits…waits…waits…to get activated so it can come through us to make a positive difference in the quality of our lives, relationships and experiences

20. Potential: a power within us…that waits…waits…waits…to get activated so it can come through us to make a positive difference in the quality of our lives, relationships and experiences and, in doing so, make a difference in the livesof others.

21. Top 20’s Bottom 80’s Potential T L C = Think = Learn = Communicate POTENTIAL TIME

22. Circumference Messages in the Land of OP Core Messages

23. Circumference Messages in the Land of OP OPOs (Opinions) OPEs (Expectations) Core Messages OPAs (Agendas)

24. Circumference Messages in the Land of OP OPOs (Opinions) OPEs (Expectations) Core Messages OPAs (Agendas) POP (Please Other People)

25. Our Life Tree I Matter I am Good Enough I don’t Matter I am Not Good Enough GE Messages NGE Messages

26. Making Change

27. The Frame See Feel Lanesboro Family Reunion Get Do

28. The Frame See Feel Black Hills Family Reunion Get Do

29. 80 When not getting what’s important • Change Nothing

30. 80 When not getting what’s important • 1. Change Nothing • Change ‘Do’

31. 80 When not getting what’s important • 1. Change Nothing • 2. Change ‘Do’ • 3. Blame • -Give away power • -Become a victim • -Stuck in yuck

32. 80 20 • Change See: Get Curious • -Ask: How can I see this differently? When not getting what’s important • 1. Change Nothing • 2. Change ‘Do’ • 3. Blame • -Give away power • -Become a victim • -Stuck in yuck

33. RIGHT VS. CURIOUS

34. FINISHED FILES ARE THE RE- SULT OF YEARS OF SCIENTIF- IC STUDY COMBINED WITH THE EXPERIENCE OF MANY YEARS.

36. FINISHED FILES ARE THE RE- SULT OF YEARS OF SCIENTIF- IC STUDY COMBINED WITH THE EXPERIENCE OF MANY YEARS.

37. Are you sure you are seeing what you think you are seeing?

38. 80 Right = Wrong 20 Three kinds of Right Right = Right Right = Right + (Correct but incomplete)

39. Practice the Lesson of the Crack: Say “Maybe” How can we see more? • Create a crisis • Ask someone else • Change roles

41. We are blind We don’t know it We think we’re right We blame We lose power We stay stuck in yuck We are blind We know it We stay curious We take responsibility We maintain power We make a difference 80 20

42. The River Rushes On