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Kink and Beyond. Atypical Sexual Behavior. Perspectives on “Deviance”. What is sex? What is natural? Change of both social and scientific perspective over time. Sex and the DSM. Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders. Definitions.
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Kink and Beyond Atypical Sexual Behavior
Perspectives on “Deviance” • What is sex? • What is natural? • Change of both social and scientific perspective over time
Sex and the DSM • Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders
Definitions • Deviance: socially unacceptable, usually used in a judgmental way • Paraphilia: “beyond usual or typical love,” behaviors/desires that exist regardless of emotional connection • Fetishism: arousal by inanimate object or focus on one body part • Atypical behavior: uncommon sexual behaviors (or behaviors perceived as uncommon)
Deviant vs. Atypical • Not all behaviors viewed as “deviant” are actually atypical • Porn consumption • Sexual assault
Fetish vs. Kink • What’s the difference? • Examples • Objectum-Sexuality • Erotic Wrestling
Erotic play & Fetishism • Though paraphilias are “erotic,” they are not always explicitly sexual and they often don’t include genital sex • Grapple Den - http://grappleden.com
The most common paraphilias • Exhibitionism • Voyeurism • Obscene communication • Masochism and sadism • Transvestism • Fetishism
Non-coercive vs. Coercive • Non-coercive: solo activities and activities done with a consenting partner • Coercive: involving people who do not consent in one’s sexual rituals
Fetishism and Queer Culture • Fetish and BDSM activities are very integrated with some LGBT cultures • International Ms Leather competition and other conferences/retreats • http://www.imsl.org/ • Video of 22nd annual IMsL from BehindKink.com
BDSM • Bondage • Discipline • Sadism • Masochism • Safe, sane, consensual - BDSM is not abuse • http://www.erinpalmquist.com/BDSMdocumentary/
Treatment • When is treatment needed? • Problematic views of paraphilias • Paraphilias and “harm”
Treatment options • Psychotherapy - talk therapy • Behavior therapy • Systematic desensitization • Aversion therapy • Social training • Orgasmic reconditioning • Drug therapy - antiandrogen drugs
Sex addiction and compulsivity • Is sex addiction real? • Religious, legal, and cultural issues • 12-step programs