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WA State 2011 Traumatic Brain Injury Conference Growing Through Grief Coming to terms with your Role as a Caregiver Dr.

WA State 2011 Traumatic Brain Injury Conference Growing Through Grief Coming to terms with your Role as a Caregiver Dr. Nancy Reeves. Prevent burnout and compassion fatigue. Burnout - doing too much Compassion Fatigue - giving too much

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WA State 2011 Traumatic Brain Injury Conference Growing Through Grief Coming to terms with your Role as a Caregiver Dr.

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  1. WA State 2011Traumatic Brain Injury ConferenceGrowing Through GriefComing to terms with your Role as a CaregiverDr. Nancy Reeves

  2. Prevent burnout and compassion fatigue • Burnout - doing too much • Compassion Fatigue - giving too much compassion “feeling of deep sympathy and sorrow for another who is stricken by suffering or misfortune, accompanied by a strong desire to alleviate the pain or remove its cause.” Webster

  3. Pain ResearchDr. J. Osborn and Dr. S. Derbyshire U. of BirminghamJournal of the International Association for the Study of Pain • Both groups showed increased activity in the area of the brain areas associated with emotion • Felt-pain group showed more activity in the area of the brain that processes sensations from the body

  4. You are what you “eat” • So, don’t “eat” it • Learn to “digest” effectively

  5. Grieving Process • Holistic, impacting emotions, mind, body, spirit 2 styles of grieving from Ken Doka • Instrumental style - doesn’t need to talk much, does something productive and thinks about change and loss • Intuitive style - helped by talking, showing emotion

  6. Name and grieve the losses • We grieve for meanings and implications of our change such as: intrapersonal - way of viewing self interpersonal - relationships with others financial change in role status change change in dreams and expectations impact on time

  7. Healing vs Cure • Cure - brain injury totally gone. Life the same as it was • Healing - the focus is not completely on the brain injury life feels worth living you are able to access support you use inner resources you like yourself

  8. Love Research • Dopamine creates intense energy, exhilaration, focused attention, and motivation to win rewards.Dr. Helen Fisher • Long term romantic love promotes overall well-being, increased self-esteem, happiness, and satisfaction with the relationship. Drs.Acevedo & Aron, 2009 and others • Lowers blood-pressure, promotes calmness, strengthens cognitive functioning. Dr. Scott Haltzman

  9. Gratitude research • Those who kept gratitude journals tended to exercise more regularly, focused less on physical symptoms, and felt more optimistic about the future • More likely to progress towards goals • Less interest in materialism • Young adults had higher levels of alertness, enthusiasm, and attentiveness • Children have more positive attitudes towards school and family. reported by Drs. Emmons & McCullough

  10. Expensive Emotions • Anger – bitterness resentment hate vengeance • Guilt – healthy to unhealthy • Longing for healing – envy/jealousy • Sadness – depression/despair

  11. Energy Management Model

  12. What qualities/gifts are within me that are not being used enough or at all? • What personal dreams have not come to fruition? • What expensive emotions are weighing me down? • What attracts or interests me? • What part of my life is particularly arid right now?

  13. Develop Holistic Self-Care Strategies • Emotional • Physical • Mental • Spiritual • Daily, periodic, times of great stress

  14. Setting Limits • Self-talk • Rehearse • Thought-stopping technique • Gentle refusal 1. Paraphrase 2. Say ‘no’ 3. Give invitation

  15. Other Self-Care Strategies • Symbols - for comfort, support, guidance, strength etc • Journalling - to clarify, to remember, to support

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