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Relationship Bank Account. Freshmen Advisory March, 2013 ** This material is created based on the 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens. Similar to Personal Bank Account. We make deposits We make withdrawals. Deposits vs. Withdrawals. Deposits Keep promises Do small acts of kindness
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Relationship Bank Account Freshmen Advisory March, 2013 ** This material is created based on the 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens.
Similar to Personal Bank Account • We make deposits • We make withdrawals
Deposits vs. Withdrawals • Deposits • Keep promises • Do small acts of kindness • Be loyal • Listen • Say you’re sorry • Set clear expectations • Withdrawals • Break promises • Keep to yourself • Gossip and break confidences • Don’t listen • Be arrogant • Set false expectations
Your Relationships • Take some time to reflect and fill out the worksheet. • It will not be graded on content. This is for you! • When finished, please place in your advisory folder.
Personal Challenge • Pick one important relationship in your life that is damaged and you want to repair. It may be with a sibling or a parent or a friend. Now commit yourself to rebuilding that relationship one deposit at a time. • The other person may be suspicious at first and wonder what you’re up to. But be patient and stick with it.
Personal Challenge, Cont. • Remember, it may take months to build up what took months to tear down. But little by little, deposit by deposit, they’ll begin to see that you are genuine and that you really want to mend the relationship. • Think about if the shoe were on the other foot. How would you feel if you knew a friend was making the effort to repair the relationship with you? • No one said it would be easy…….. • But you can be sure it will be worth it.