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5 Strategies to Understand the Behavior of Teenage Students The emotional roller coaster that accompanies adolescence can be a wild ride. To parents, your teen's over-the-top reactions may seem blown out of proportion. And of course, some teens seem to love drama. Whether they're spreading gossip or starting trouble on social media, they thrive on the excitement. Whether your teen is having a meltdown over the latest social media conversation, a daily crisis of some sort may seem inevitable. Below are 5 keys to successfully handle teenagers. Not all of the tips below may apply to your particular situation. Simply utilize what works and leave the rest. 1.Set Clear Boundaries: The most effective boundaries (they can also be called ground rules, house rules, team rules, or codes of conduct) are those which are fair, reasonable, and can be applied consistently. If you’ve been dealing with a difficult teen for some time without communicating clear boundaries, state that from this point forward things will be different, and back up your statement with actions. There may also be a list of interpersonal, family, classroom, team, or employment ground rules. The list of boundaries should be relatively short but clear, and indicated in writing whenever appropriate. 2.Maintain Effective Communication: When you face a difficult young person, strengthen your position by maintaining effective communication skills. We need to understand how to decrease teenager resistance and increase cooperation. 3.Maintain Humor and Show Empathy: The first and foremost boundary in almost any situation is that you will be treated with respect. This means if the teen(s) is respectful towards you, then you will also accord her or him certain respect and privileges. In addition to respect, and depending on the situation, there may also be a list of interpersonal, family, classroom, team, or employment ground rules. The list of boundaries should be relatively short but clear, and indicated in writing whenever appropriate.
4.Brainstorm and Identify the Problem: Find out what’s important for your child and explain what’s important from your perspective. For example, you might ask, ‘Why don’t you want to agree on a specific time to be home?’ Then listen to your child’s point of view. Be creative and aim for at least four solutions each. For example, you might suggest picking your child up, but he can suggest what time it will happen. Or your child might say, ‘How about I share a taxi home with two friends who live nearby?’ 5.Boost your teen’s skill: A teen that isn’t sure how to deal with loneliness may create drama to get attention. Take notice of your teen’s skill deficits and be willing to teach new communication skills, conflict resolution skills, and anger management skills. As your teen’s self-confidence grows, his desire to get caught up in the drama will also likely decrease. Get him involved in lots of different activities as well. A busy teen will have less time to create drama. Although some teenagers are not pleasant to deal with, there are many effective skills and strategies you can employ to minimize their defiance and increase their cooperation. It’s one important aspect of leadership success. School Information Initiative by Shakuntala Vidyalaya For latest Updates, visit our Social Media. #Schoolwithhostelinbhilaichhattisgarh, #hostelschoolinbhilai, #CbseSchoolsinBhilai, #Bestschoolinbhilai, #CbseschoolwithhostelfacilityinBhilai, #Cbseschoolsinchhattisgarh #BoardingSchoolsinBhilai, #ResidentialSchoolsinBhilai, #BestBoardingSchools, #teenagerbehavior, #behavioralissues