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C. …legacy for a safe, sound and healthy posterity. . Chaste Ideal. Chaste Ideal. arm of Jasons Foundation Incorporated. University College Hospital, Ibadan, Oyo State. 08055283571, 08059621569. THE GUN FOCUS. Chaste Ideal Africa For FRESH STUDENTS UNIVERSITY OF IBADAN, IBADAN
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C …legacy for a safe, sound and healthy posterity Chaste Ideal Chaste Ideal arm of Jasons Foundation Incorporated University College Hospital, Ibadan, Oyo State. 08055283571, 08059621569
THE GUN FOCUS Chaste Ideal Africa For FRESH STUDENTS UNIVERSITY OF IBADAN, IBADAN 4TH JANUARY, 2011
AVOID GUNSHOT INJURY Do not have a gun No bullets Do not cock a gun Do not pull the trigger Do not mind the Target Protect the Target
STOP THE SHOTS • OR PUT ON THE ARMOUR • ?BULLET PROOF
THE BIG TARGET HEALTHY, LASTING RELATIONSHIP ALL AMUNITION ALLOWED BY CHOICE MARRIAGE BETWEEN A MAN AND WOMAN
WHY ARE WE HERE? SEX
NO NEWS • Teenage sexual activity is a major problem confronting the nation and has led to a rising incidence of sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) • emotional and psychological injuries, and out-of-wedlock childbearing
PRE-MARITAL • Emotional and Psychological Injury • Guilt • Depression • Fear • Distractions • Self-esteem/self confidence issues • Future risk of instability and irresponsibility in relationship • Infertility issues and quality of life
Sexual relationships among teenagers are fleeting and unstable, and broken intimate relationships can have serious long-term developmental effects. A series of broken intimate relationships can undermine an individual's capacity to enter into a committed, loving marital relationship. In general, individuals who engage in premarital sexual activity are 50 percent more likely to divorce later in life than those who do not Divorce, in turn, leads to sharp reductions in adult happiness and child well-being.
SEX IMPLICATIONS SEX EITHER ENGENDERS produce, cause ; beget, bring into being (i.e. children) OR ENDANGERS Physical, psychological, risks, infections, consequences, complications,
THROUGH THE ABUSE OF THE SEX FORCE, MAN IS MORE DISEASED THAN ANY ANIMAL—Nietzsche
SEXUAL LICENCE SEEMS TO BE THE UNWRITTEN CODE OF THE MODERN SOCIETY-Nietzsche
FIRST, IT IS A MAN’S DUTY TO RAISE HIMSELF OUT OF HIS ANIMAL NATURE—Kent
TO CONTROL THE SEXUAL IMPULSE EFFICIENTLY HAS ALWAYS BEEN AND EVER WILL BE REGARDED AS THE HIGHEST TEST OF HUMAN WISDOM-Auguste Conte
HEAR THIS! He ends up a CASUALTY, he who takes important issues CASUALLY T: TORTURE, TEMPTATION, TRIALS, TORMENT, TURBURLENCE, L: LACK OF FOCUS, LACKADAISICAL, LAXITY, LAZINESS,
When you live your life to chance, then you don’t have any chance
SEX IMPLICATIONS Joining Bonding Bondage Identity/identification Bringing a life to being Even if you abort, IT IS RECORDABLE Marriage Parenting
SEX COMPLICATIONS Unwanted pregnancy Ectopic pregnancy Forced marriage Abortions Sudden death Cardiovascular risks Sex enhancing drugs Sexually Transmitted Infections Infertility
CAN SEX BE SAFE? • A QUESTION OF • Content • Context • Contest • Conquest
EXTREMIST’S VIEW The wisdom behind the use of condom is whoredom
‘SAFE’ SEX • "You just can’t tell people it’s all right to do whatever you want as long as you wear a condom. It (AIDS) is just too dangerous a disease to say that.” • Dr. Harold Jaffee, Chief of Epidemiology, National Centers for Disease Control, US
"Relying on condoms for ‘protection’ can mean lifelong disease, suffering, and even death for you or for someone you love.“ • Dr. Andre Lafrance, Canadian Physician and Researcher
"Saying that the use of condoms is ‘safe sex’ is in fact playing Russian roulette. A lot of people will die in this dangerous game.” • Dr. Teresa Crenshaw, member of the U.S. Presidential AIDS Commission and past president of the American Association of Sex Educators
THINK AND THINK AGAIN • FAILURE RATES • ?HOLES (“VOIDS”) IN THE CONDOM • ?INTRINSIC DEFECTS • Dr. C. M. Roland, editor of Rubber Chemistry and Technology
"Simply put, condoms fail. And condoms fail at a rate unacceptable for me as a physician to endorse them as a strategy to be promoted as meaningful AIDS protection." • Dr. Robert Renfield, Chief of Retro-viral Research, Walter Reed Army Institute
particles as minute as virusescan be detected going through the wall of condoms.1:50 • showed that The AIDS virus is 50 times smaller than these tiny holes which makes it easy for the virus to pass through them, (1) about as easy as a dime passing through a basketball hoop. • The Physical Division of Human Sciences, Maryland, USA, 1992)
Telling somebody to put a mere balloon between their health and a deadly disease is irresponsible. It’s like telling someone it’s okay to drink and drive as long as they wear a seat belt • —Pro-Life America
REAL WORLD HUNGER Instinct—must be satisfied? THIRST Instinct—must be satisfied? SEX Instinct—must be satisfied? Fleeting and transient? Is it controllable? SEXUAL PRESSURE Not instinctive Has sources—avoidable or stoppable sources Wrong information—let us amplify
ERRORNEOUS INFORMATION • STIMULATES PUBERTY & DEVELOPMENT • SEX IS A PROOF OF REPRODUCTIVE WELL-BEING • MENSTRUAL PAIN • VIRGINITY &DIFFICULTY IN COITUS • VIRGINITY&DIFFICULTY IN CHILD BIRTH • AGE ABOVE 18 INIMICAL TO REP HEALTH • SEMEN ACCUMULATION • HOMOSEXUAL TENDENCIES • SHOW OF LOVE
COMPLETE SEX EDUCATION REPLETE OF VALUES? DEPLETE VALUES? COMPLEMENTARY? COMPLIMENTARY? ISSUE OF EMPHASIS, INCENTIVE, COMMERCIALISATION ‘REALIST’ SYNDROME—SYMPATHETIC
TEENS AND YOUTH CHANGE EITHER THEIR POSITION DISPOSITION and/or PREDISPOSITION REFUSAL SKILLS
EVERY ONE NEEDS TO BE EMPOWERED OR BACK UP EXCUSES REASONS JUSTIFICATION GENETICS
EMPOWER THEIR MINDS NO WEAKLING’S OPTION IF YOU CANNOT HOLD THE HUNGER IT ANYTHING—WHY NOT HOW TO PREVENT GETTING HUNGRY TO THE POINT OF EATING ANYTHING SEXUAL PRESSURE NOT INSTINCTIVE HAS SOURCES Stop the source: media, books, magazines, internet, movies, other porn lets, peers
FOR ANOTHER DAY • The Effectiveness of Abstinence Education Programs in Reducing Sexual Activity Among Youth
Abstinence education programs for youth have been proven to be effective in reducing early sexual activity. Abstinence programs also can provide the foundation for personal responsibility and enduring marital commitment. Therefore, they are vitally important to efforts aimed at reducing out-of-wedlock childbearing among young adult women, improving child well-being, and increasing adult happiness over the long term.
Should we defend the target or prevent the source(s) of the scourge?
The Silent Scandal: Promoting Teen Sex Sexuality Information and Education Council of the United States (SEICUS), Planned Parenthood, and the National Abortion and Reproductive Rights Action League (NARAL)
RIVALS? Virginity Pledge Movement. Teen Aid and Sex Respect. Operation Keepsake. Abstinence by Choice. Not Me, Not Now.
SEX IS NOT not love Not used to ratify love Not a pre-marital tool to authenticate reproductive well-being Not a game Not a manipulative tool Not a means to get to an end
SEX IS NOT FREE YOU PAY EITHER BEFORE, DURING OR AFTER
SEX IS NOT FREE Pay in prostitution Pay dowry in marriage If you are not a PROSTITUTE then wait for DOWRY payment
SEX IS NOT FREE ‘FREE’ Pre- (extra-) marital sex is for fools PAYMENT IN HARDER CURRENCIES: spiritual, psychological, physical and health currencies