Unresolved Overt Conflict Evolution of a Team Killer

2. Figure 1 Unresolved Overt Conflict Evolution of a Team Killer Stage 1 Opposing Ideas Stage 2Escalating Conflict Path 3A: Take Sides Path 3B:Be Reasonable Path 3C:Use a Mirror Path 4A:Reaching the Limit Path 4B:Giving Up Path 4C:Team PerformanceGrowing

4. Figure 2 Unresolved Overt Conflict Stage 1 – A and B each think they have the right idea, and both genuinely want to do the ‘right’ thing s A’s level of obviousness in stating ‘X’ A’s desire to make ‘X’ happen s R1 s B’s level of obviousness in stating ‘Y’ B’s desire to make ‘Y’ happen s R1: A’s desire to make ‘X’ happen causes him to increase the level of obviousness of his statement. This fuels B’s desire to make ‘Y’ happen, leading to an increase in her level of obviousness, which further increases A’s desire.

6. B B Figure 3 Unresolved Overt Conflict Stage 1 – This stage can also be represented as anarchetypical escalation B’s level of obviousness in stating ‘Y’ A’s level of obviousness in stating ‘X’ s o s s Strength of A’s statements relative to B’s A’s desire to make ‘X’ happen B’s desire to make ‘Y’ happen s o

8. R2A R1 R2B Figure 4 Unresolved Overt Conflict Stage 2 – A and B begin to feel threatened which raises the stakes in the argument for X and Y A’s desire to be heard and acknowledged s s s A’s level of obviousness in stating ‘X’ A’s desire to make‘X’ happen s s B’s level of obviousness in stating ‘Y’ B’s desire to make ‘Y’ happen s s s B’s desire to be heard and acknowledged R2A and 2B: As A’s level of obviousness in stating ‘X’ increases, B’s desire to be heard and acknowledged also increases. This additional emotion also results in an increased level of obviousness in the statement of B’s position. This loops exists from both A and B’s perspective.

10. R3A R3B Figure 5 Unresolved Overt Conflict Path A – Supporters contribute to an exponentiallyincreasing level of group conflict A’s desire to be heard and acknowledged s s Others’ support for ‘Y’ A’s level of obviousness in stating ‘X’ A’s desire to make‘X’ happen s Level of conflict in group s B’s level of obviousness in stating ‘Y’ B’s desire to make ‘Y’ happen Others’ support for ‘X’ s s B’s desire to be heard and acknowledged R3A and 3B: If team members take sides, their increasing support for ‘X’ or ‘Y’ will raise A’s or B’ confidence, further increasing their level of obviousness in stating their positions.

12. R1,2,3 B1 Figure 6 Unresolved Overt Conflict Path A’s Conclusion – The growth in conflict is limited by the maximum allowable conflict in the organizational culture –usually stemming from some understanding of professionalism Maximum tolerable conflict o s s Aggressiveness of attack and defense Level of conflict in group Margin of acceptability s s B1: The escalating level of group conflict does not continue indefinitely. As it approaches a maximum tolerable level, the margin of acceptability with respect to group norms decreases causing pressure to reduce or curtail increased escalation.

14. R4B R5B Figure 7 Unresolved Overt Conflict Path B – Group may respond to conflict by making appeal to A and B, which unintentionally increases their defensiveness A’s desire to be heard and acknowledged A’s level of obviousness in stating ‘X’ A’s desire to make‘X’ happen R4B: If the group becomes intolerant of B’s position and makes appeals for B to be reasonable, the perception of challenge and resulting defensiveness will increase. This will in turn increase B’s desire to be heard and further reinforce the resulting level of obviousness. B’s level of obviousness in stating ‘Y’ B’s desire to make ‘Y’ happen o B’s desire to be heard and acknowledged Team performance B’s perception of challenge s s R5B: Appeals to B to be reasonable may also increase if the group is eventually persuaded by A’s level of obviousness. Group’s appeals to be reasonable s s

16. B2 R6 Figure 8 Unresolved Overt Conflict Path B’s Conclusion – A dysfunctional variation on an Eroding Goals structure leads to giving up or dropping out Pressure for group to adjust goals o s Goal for team’s performance Group’s feelingof helplessness R6: The efforts to improve team performance (through appeals to be reasonable) actually cause a decrease in team performance, increasing the gap with respect to the goals for team performance. As this gap in team performance grows, efforts to improve the condition are further increased, but the actual performance continues to be reduced. B2: As the gap in team performance grows, the group’s feeling of helplessness increases and the pressure to adjust the goals builds. The increasing pressure to adjust the goals results in the goals being reduced over time as team members give up or drop out. s s Gap in team’s performance o Teamperformance s o Efforts to improve team performance(Appeals)

20. Figure 9 Unresolved Overt Conflict Path C – Introduction of the Mirror provides process focus, enables effective group participation, and leads to opportunities to be heard s s Group’s ability to dialogue Effective group participation (NGT) A’s opportunity to be heard A’s desire to be heard and acknowledged o s A’s level of obviousness in stating ‘X’ A’s desire to make‘X’ happen Focus on process s B’s level of obviousness in stating ‘Y’ B’s desire to make ‘Y’ happen Mirror Role B’s desire to be heard and acknowledged Introduction of the Mirror Role causes the group to focus on the group process. This focus, when coupled with the group’s ability to dialogue, can lead to effective group participation. Real group participation increases the opportunity for A (and B) to be heard, i.e., to really be listened to. This leads to a reduction in A’s level of obviousness in stating ‘X’ and begins to break the conflict escalation.

22. Unresolved Overt Conflict Path C – The opportunity to be heard also promotes the willingness to listen Figure 10 Group’s ability to dialogue s s Effective group participation (NGT) A’s opportunity to be heard A’s desire to be heard and acknowledged o s s A’s willingnessto listen A’s level of obviousness in stating ‘X’ A’s desire to make‘X’ happen Focus on process s A’s ability to embrace multiple realities s B’s level of obviousness in stating ‘Y’ B’s desire to make ‘Y’ happen Mirror Role B’s desire to be heard and acknowledged o As A’s opportunity to be really heard increases, his willingness to listen also increases. This increase in willingness to listen leads to an increase in the ability to embrace multiple realities, which in turn increases the opportunity for B to be heard. As is the case for A, this reduces B’s level of obviousness, further curtailing the spiral of conflict. B’s opportunityto be heard s

24. Unresolved Overt ConflictPath C – Introduction of Mirror defuses conflict & promotes dialogue Figure 11 Group’s ability to dialogue s s Effective group participation (NGT) s A’s opportunity to be heard A’s desire to be heard and acknowledged o s s A’s willingnessto listen A’s level of obviousness in stating ‘X’ A’s desire to make‘X’ happen B’s ability to embrace multiple realities Focus on process s R7 s A’s ability to embrace multiple realities s B’s level of obviousness in stating ‘Y’ B’s desire to make ‘Y’ happen Mirror Role B’s desire to be heard and acknowledged o B’s willingness to listen R7: Having provided opportunities for A and B to be really heard increases their mutual willingness to listen and abilities to embrace multiple realities, further increasing opportunities to be heard - and creating a desirable reinforcing loop. s B’s opportunityto be heard s

26. R9 R8 B3 Figure 12 Unresolved Overt Conflict Path C’s Conclusion – Team Performance growsuntil team objective is achieved R8: Effective group participation increases opportunities for both parties to be heard, increasing their willingness to listen,and improving their ability to embrace multiple realities. Increasing this ability improves team performance which providespositive feedback effective group participation. Teamobjective Ability to embrace multiple realities s s Willingness to listen o s s Idea generation Teamperformance Proximity toobjective s s s Opportunities to be heard s o s Pressureto increaseperformance Effective group participation (NGT) R9: Effective group participation also spawns idea generation, further increasing team performance. B3: Continually improving team performance is eventually limited as the objectives for the team are approached and the pressure to increase performance is reduced.