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The Dating Company ’ s Guide to Getting the Woman You Want to Want You . April 26, 2001 Game Theory. What Do Females Want?. Our female customers want to find a single, desirable, long term boyfriend Our female customers reveal that they consider a man to be desirable if he is:
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The Dating Company’s Guide to Getting the Woman You Want to Want You April 26, 2001 Game Theory
What Do Females Want? • Our female customers want to find a single, desirable, long term boyfriend • Our female customers reveal that they consider a man to be desirable if he is: • Financially secure • Well mannered • Educated
How Long Will It Take Her to Decide if She’s Interested in You? • It takes a woman five hours to decide if she is interested in pursuing deeper romantic involvement with a man • This is based upon the first few minutes of interaction, but it takes much more exposure for her to reach a final decision • A typical woman’s decision is based initially on two criteria: • First determining if you are single or married • Then ascertaining your financial status and level of education
How Much Will it Cost You? • The men who do not meet the criteria will focus their efforts on hiding these characteristics from their date • Trying to conceal information that would cause a woman to reject the prospect of having a romantic relationship with you is costly in terms of your time • It takes a married man twice as long to prepare for a date than a single man • Removing himself from his familial duties & hiding traces of married life • Undesirable men take two hours longer to prepare for a date • Tendency to try to impress date
How Much Will it Cost You? • A man views his investment of time as worthwhile as long as it’s matched by an equal amount of time that his date considers further romantic involvement with him
How to Increase Your Chance of Success • If you’re single & desirable – don’t worry, you will impress your love interest by dating her several times while attempting to ascertain her feelings about you • If you are NOT single & desirable, you should ascertain her feelings about a relationship within the first two dates • A woman will most likely wait for you to broach the subject of a long term relationship because it’s the most reliable way for her to determine your desirability
Conclusions • While you are busy demonstrating your desirability to your date, she is conveying her desirability to you • As long as you both desire a long term relationship and are revealing information that supports that end, your chances of a successful match are good. Following this advice will increase the likelihood of a successful long term relationship with your love interest