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Internet Safety Officer Joseph R. Hale. Topics. Rutgers Suicide 18 years old vs. 17 years old Online Relationships Warning Signs Facebook Real Life Stories Who is looking at you online? Think before you post pictures. Rutgers Freshman Tyler Clementi. Not LOL?
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Internet Safety Officer Joseph R. Hale
Topics • Rutgers Suicide • 18 years old vs. 17 years old • Online Relationships • Warning Signs • Facebook • Real Life Stories • Who is looking at you online? • Think before you post pictures
Rutgers FreshmanTyler Clementi • Not LOL? • Asks roommates to have the room in private. • Roommates Web cast gay tryst • Post Message on Facebook: “JUMPING OFF THE GW BRIDGE, SORRY.” • Invasion of Privacy 5 yrs
Slap on the Wrist Mommy & Daddy Realizing Potential & Changing Futures Rehabilitate Young people the opportunity to become independent, productive and law abiding citizens. Morris County Jail PTI Punishment Loss of Job and $$$$ Should know better by 18 plus. 17 years old vs. 18 years old
Possession of CDS in a Motor Vehicle • State of NJ has Zero Tolerance • Everyone goes • Driver loses NJ License for 2 years • Heavy Fines $$$$$$!!!!
How do Online Predators Work? • Find kids through social networking, blogs, chat rooms, instant messaging, e-mail, discussion boards, and other Web sites. • Seduce their targets through attention, affection, kindness, and even gifts. • Know the latest music and hobbies likely to interest kids. • Listen to and sympathize with kids' problems. • Try to ease young people's inhibitions by gradually introducing sexual content into their conversations or by showing them sexually explicit material. • Might also evaluate the kids they meet online for future face-to-face contact.
How can you reduce the risk of being a VICTIM? • Never downloading images from an unknown source-they could be sexually explicit. • Telling an adult immediately if anything that happens online makes you feel uncomfortable or frightened. • Choosing a gender-neutral screen name that doesn't contain sexually suggestive words or reveal personal information. • Never revealing personal information about yourself (including age and gender) or information about your family to anyone online and not filling out online personal profiles. • Stopping any e-mail communication, instant messaging conversations, or chats if anyone starts to ask you questions that are too personal or sexually suggestive.
Online Relationships • Listen to your gut. • Never give out personal information too soon. • Usually a person trying to take advantage of you is one who communicates first with you. • Set up an anonymous email account. • When going on a first date, make sure you meet in a public place. • If you have enough information on the person you are dating, then consider running a background check. • Learn self defense. • Drive yourself to the date destination.
First Confirmed Murder back in 2003 from the Internet • 13 years old • 6th Grader from Connecticut • Missed her whole life • Had good grades • Led the cheerleading squad • An altar girl • But on the Internet, she used provocative screen names and routinely had sex with partners she met in chat rooms.
Judy Cajuste 14, 2006Roselle, N.J • She frequented teen web sites • Myspace.com and friendster.com • Chatting with strangers online can be dangerous and meeting with one of those strangers in person could be deadly. • Strangled body was found in a dumpster in Weequahic Park in Newark.
Kara Borden 14-year-old girl from PA • Met 18 year-old David Ludwig on myspace • Night before murder stayed out all night. • Day of murder David was confronted by father of Kara. • Kara stood by as David shot and killed her mother and father.
Parents Teachers Colleges Friends Employers Online Predators Who is Looking at you on-line?
Things Not to Post on Facebook • Inappropriate pictures • Pictures of your ex • Constant status updates of your daily activities • Mean comments about other people • Crude jokes • Drunken thoughts • Negative comments about your employer
Your Photo Your Journal Your Schedule Gossip/ Cyberbullying Party Details Your School Your Address Your Phone Number Your Passwords Where you are right now Online Safety: Top 10 Things NOT to Post Online