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… Likewise, ye husbands, … giving honour unto the wife, 1 Peter 3:7

Week 15. Husbands A Husband’s Role in Marriage. … Likewise, ye husbands, … giving honour unto the wife, 1 Peter 3:7. Faith Baptist Church of Palm Bay. Biblical Counseling Basics 2012 - 2013. Biblical Counseling Basics Set #2 NOVEMBER / JANUARY 2013 (allowing for holidays).

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… Likewise, ye husbands, … giving honour unto the wife, 1 Peter 3:7

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  1. Week 15 Husbands A Husband’s Role in Marriage … Likewise, ye husbands, … giving honour unto the wife, 1 Peter 3:7

  2. Faith Baptist Church of Palm Bay Biblical Counseling Basics2012 - 2013

  3. Biblical Counseling Basics Set #2 NOVEMBER / JANUARY 2013 (allowing for holidays) • 11/14/2012 – Idols of the Heart • 11/28/2012 – Video Example of Counseling • 12/05/2012 – Counseling Video Discussion • 12/12/2012 – Video Example of Counseling 2 • 12/19/2012 – Counseling Video Discussion 2 • 01/09/2012 – The Purpose for Marriage • 01/16/2012 - The Role of the Husband • 01/30/2012 – The Role of the Wife

  4. Week 15 A Husband’s Role in Marriage Who makes the Coffee?

  5. Week 15 Husbands “Only a Christian can fulfill the role of a husband.” – Evangelist Oliver B. Greene

  6. Week 15 A Husband’s Role in Marriage Two Reasons Why This is Very Important • We do more marriage counseling than anything else • (90% couples or couples w/ children) • Good place to apply the principles personally “God has given you the privilege of letting your lips say the words that your ears need to hear” Husbands

  7. Week 15 A Husband's Role in Marriage Three Words that Describe The Husband’s Role Learner Lover Leader Husbands

  8. 1 Peter 3:7 Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered. Husbands

  9. Week 15 A Husband's Role in Marriage I. Learner Dave Bond and Patti’s Strawberry Shortcake Husbands

  10. Week 15 A Husband's Role in Marriage I. Learner • A Command • World Says: “You can’t Understand a Woman” • A command that takestime • A command that takesstudy Husbands

  11. Week 15 A Husband's Role in Marriage Fifty Questions to Ask Your Wife (samples) What are your 5 favorite foods, with the most favorite first? What are your 5 favorite hobbies, with the most favorite first? What is your favorite verse(s) of the Bible? Why? What things (personal, home, car, etc.) need repairing? What concerns do you have that I do not seem interested in? What personal habits do I have that you would like changed? What ways demonstrate to you that you are a very important person who is as important or more important than I am? Husbands

  12. Week 15 A Husband's Role in Marriage I. Learner A Command to TreatHerasFragile …as unto the weaker vessel … (1 Peter 3:7) • Marathon • Rangers Husbands

  13. Week 15 A Husband's Role in Marriage I. Learner Learning Affect Your SpiritualLife … that your prayers be not hindered … (1 Peter 3:7) • Hamlet Husbands

  14. Week 15 A Husband's Role in Marriage II. Lover • What is Love? • American Culture doesn’t help • Feeling, Sex, Falling in/out, Infatuation, Lust, Getting another mother • Biblical View: • John 3:16 • Galatians 2:20 Husbands

  15. John 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. Husbands

  16. Galatians 2:20 I am crucified with Christ: neverthless I live; yet not I, but Christ liveth in me: and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by the faith of the Son of God, who loved me, and gave himself for me. Husbands

  17. Week 15 A Husband's Role in Marriage II. Lover • What is Love? • Biblical Love is a test of God-like masculinity Ephesians 5:25 • (not weak / effeminate as Christ is sometimes portrayed) Husbands

  18. Ephesians 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; Husbands

  19. Week 15 A Husband's Role in Marriage II. Lover • What Degrees of Love are we to show? • First1 John 4:19 (not other female friends or co-workers) Husbands

  20. 1 John 4:19 We love him, because he first loved us. Husbands

  21. Week 15 A Husband's Role in Marriage II. Lover • What Degrees of Love are we to show? • First1 John 4:19 • MostEphesians 5:25 Husbands

  22. Ephesians 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; Husbands

  23. Week 15 A Husband's Role in Marriage II. Lover • What Degrees of Love are we to show? • First1 John 4:19 • MostEphesians 5:25 • SacrificialEphesians 5:25 Husbands

  24. Ephesians 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; Husbands

  25. Week 15 A Husband's Role in Marriage II. Lover • What Degrees of Love are we to show? • First1 John 4:19 • MostEphesians 5:25 • SacrificialEphesians 5:25 • Howard Hendricks Golf SacrificeFamily Man Husbands

  26. Week 15 A Husband's Role in Marriage II. Lover • What Degrees of Love are we to show? • First1 John 4:19 • MostEphesians 5:25 • SacrificialEphesians 5:25 • Unmistakable 1 John 3:18100 Daily Loving Deeds ListTaking Trash out; Reagan Letters Husbands

  27. 1 John 3:18 My little children, let us not love in word, neither in tongue; but in deed and in truth. Husbands

  28. Week 15 A Husband's Role in Marriage II. Lover • What Degrees of Love are we to show? • In Spite of Faults Romans 5:8 Husbands

  29. Romans 5:8 But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. Husbands

  30. Week 15 A Husband's Role in Marriage II. Lover • What Degrees of Love are we to show? • In Spite of Faults Romans 5:8 • Without Bitterness Colossians 3:19 Husbands

  31. Colossians 3:19 Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them. Husbands

  32. Week 15 A Husband's Role in Marriage II. Lover • What Degrees of Love are we to show? • In Spite of Faults Romans 5:8 • Without Bitterness Colossians 3:19Year-old Stories50 Year-old problem • Love as our own Bodies Ephesians 5:28 (Food, Exercise, grooming) Husbands

  33. Ephesians 5:28 So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. Husbands

  34. Week 15 A Husband's Role in Marriage III. Leader – Matt 20 • What Leadership is not • A Dictator • Parable of laborers v. 1-16 Husbands

  35. Matthew 20:1-16 1 For the kingdom of heaven is like unto a man that is an householder, which went out early in the morning to hire labourers into his vineyard. 2 And when he had agreed with the labourers for a penny a day, he sent them into his vineyard. 3 And he went out about the third hour, and saw others standing idle in the marketplace, 4 And said unto them; Go ye also into the vineyard, and whatsoever is right I will give you. And they went their way. 5 Again he went out about the sixth and ninth hour, and did likewise. 6 And about the eleventh hour he went out, and found others standing idle, and saith unto them, Why stand ye here all the day idle? Husbands

  36. Matthew 20:1-16 7 They say unto him, Because no man hath hired us. He saith unto them, Go ye also into the vineyard; and whatsoever is right, that shall ye receive. 8 So when even was come, the lord of the vineyard saith unto his steward, Call the labourers, and give them their hire, beginning from the last unto the first. 9 And when they came that were hired about the eleventh hour, they received every man a penny. 10 But when the first came, they supposed that they should have received more; and they likewise received every man a penny. 11 And when they had received it, they murmured against the goodman of the house, Husbands

  37. Matthew 20:1-16 12 Saying, These last have wrought but one hour, and thou hast made them equal unto us, which have borne the burden and heat of the day. 13 But he answered one of them, and said, Friend, I do thee no wrong: didst not thou agree with me for a penny? 14 Take that thine is, and go thy way: I will give unto this last, even as unto thee. 15 Is it not lawful for me to do what I will with mine own? Is thine eye evil, because I am good? 16 So the last shall be first, and the first last: for many be called, but few chosen. Husbands

  38. Week 15 A Husband's Role in Marriage III. Leader – Matt 20 • What Leadership is not • A Dictator • Parable of laborers v. 1-16 • Example: Unselfish Service v. 17-19 • Christ describes his death Husbands

  39. Matthew 20:17-19 17 And Jesus going up to Jerusalem took the twelve disciples apart in the way, and said unto them, 18 Behold, we go up to Jerusalem; and the Son of man shall be betrayed unto the chief priests and unto the scribes, and they shall condemn him to death, 19 And shall deliver him to the Gentiles to mock, and to scourge, and to crucify him: and the third day he shall rise again. Husbands

  40. Week 15 A Husband's Role in Marriage III. Leader – Matt 20 • What Leadership is not • A Dictator • Parable of laborers v. 1-16 • Example: Unselfish Service v. 17-19 • Example of selfish service v. 20-24 Husbands

  41. Matthew 20:20-24 20 Then came to him the mother of Zebedees children with her sons, worshipping him, and desiring a certain thing of him. 21 And he said unto her, What wilt thou? She saith unto him, Grant that these my two sons may sit, the one on thy right hand, and the other on the left, in thy kingdom. 22 But Jesus answered and said, Ye know not what ye ask. Are ye able to drink of the cup that I shall drink of, and to be baptized with the baptism that I am baptized with? They say unto him, We are able. 23 And he saith unto them, Ye shall drink indeed of my cup, and be baptized with the baptism that I am baptized with: but to sit on my right hand, and on my left, is not mine to give, but it shall be given to them for whom it is prepared of my Father. 24 And when the ten heard it, they were moved with indignation against the two brethren. Husbands

  42. Week 15 A Husband's Role in Marriage III. Leader – Matt 20 • What Leadership is not • A Dictator • Theme of servanthood applied leadership“The test of your servanthood is how you respond when you are treated like one.” Husbands

  43. Week 15 A Husband's Role in Marriage III. Leader – Matt 20 • What Leadership is not • All the Decision-Making Husbands

  44. Week 15 A Husband's Role in Marriage III. Leader – Matt 20 Positive Pace Setter Christ Trained 12 guys well and then left Turn off TV and take kids What’s For Dinner Include Wife in decision Pick-up Truck Admonish Encourage in private Public Correction Husbands

  45. Week 15 A Husband's Role in Marriage III. Leader – Matt 20 • Positive Pace Setter • Focus On Wife’s NeedsPhilippians 2:20-21Ephesians 6:4 Husbands

  46. Philippians 2:20-21 20 - For I have no man likeminded, who will naturally care for your state. 21 - For all seek their own, not the things which are Jesus Christ's. Husbands

  47. Ephesians 6:4 And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord. Husbands

  48. Week 15 A Husband's Role in Marriage III. Leader – Matt 20 • Positive Pace Setter • Focus On Wife’s Needs Phil 2:20-21; Eph. 6:4 • Goal Oriented Ephesians 5:26-28 Husbands

  49. Ephesians 5:26-28 26 - That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, 27 - That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. 28 - So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. Husbands

  50. Week 15 A Husband's Role in Marriage III. Leader – Matt 20 • Positive Pace Setter • Focus On Wife’s Needs Phil 2:20-21; Eph. 6:4 • Goal Oriented Eph. 5:26-28 • Set Example of Self ControlPhilippians 4:9Jeremiah 35:5-6 Husbands

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