380 likes | 681 Views
Your Child’s First Reconciliation. Parent Formation St. Veronica Parish October 2013. Rembrandt’s Prodigal Son. Concepts being learned in the classroom. The Story of Adam and Eve Decision Making Good & Bad Choices Consequences Accepting responsibility for actions Definition of Sin
E N D
Your Child’s First Reconciliation Parent Formation St. Veronica Parish October 2013
Concepts being learned in the classroom • The Story of Adam and Eve • Decision Making • Good & Bad Choices • Consequences • Accepting responsibility for actions • Definition of Sin • Reviewing the Ten Commandments • How to treat others • Relationship with God and others
Concepts being learned in the classroom • Story of the Prodigal Son (Luke 15:11-32) • How to forgive • How to seek forgiveness • Going to the Sacrament of Reconciliation • How to: • Examination of Conscience • Confessing • Act of Contrition Prayer
Concepts being learned in the classroom • My Road to Jesus activity • Classroom role play • Visit by Fr. Del • First Penance Activity Papers We Believe - Unit 2 – Jesus Calls Us to Penance and Reconciliation Chapter 11 and 12
“FIRST PENANCE” 8 lesson resource • God and Me – God Loves Me • How I Love God • Love as Jesus Loves • God’s Rules – It’s All About Love • Forgiveness • Coming Home • Families Work Together - Sin Affects Others • Celebrate Forgiveness – The 7 Steps of Celebrating the Sacrament of Reconciliation
How parents can help their child prepare for First Reconciliation.
Parents matter: • “God’s love is communicated to infants and young children through parents.” – National Directory of Catechesis (NDC)
Parents matter: • “Parents are catechists precisely because they are parents.” – (NDC)
Think outside the classroom The Church’s catechetical vision does not endorse a single model. There are multiple ways to deliver the Church’s vision. Methods for teaching that happen in the home: • Games • Songs • Stories • Rituals • Parties • Hugs • Tears • Laughter • Long walks • SHOW AND TELL • mostly SHOW
TOP PARENTING COMPETENCIES • Love and Affection • Stress Management • Relationship Skills
TOP PARENTING COMPETENCIES • Autonomy and Independence • Education and Learning • Life Skills • Behavior Management • Healthy Lifestyle • Religion & Spirituality • Safety
At Home – apply competencies • Talk to them about your First Reconciliation • Help allay fears or confusion • Read the “Parent Know How” resource in your packet • See the “Suggestions for Preparing…” handout • Understand your child’s readiness and development • Help your child prepare for tests or review material • Read and discuss the take home lessons • Help them learn the steps and prayers • See the Family Activities and Resources at: www.sadlierreligion.com/webelieve
At Home – apply competencies • Talk to your child about their day • Problems • Concerns • How to handle situations
At home and everywhere • Watch television together – values clarification • Communicate your values to your children • Help children verbalize why they do things • Assist your child to re-establish relationships • Talk about feelings • Be aware of their development of conscience • Share your experience of God as a loving “Parent” • Reflect with your child how to grow more like Jesus • Uncover deeper reasons for the wrongness of actions • Create an attitude of trust and confidence in God’s love
At home and everywhere • Be a role model • How do you handle relationships (spouse, other adults) • How do you make decisions – reflect on actions • How do you show forgiveness • Attend Mass with your child • Attend the Sacrament of Reconciliation before their First Reconciliation and have them come along. • APPLY COMPETENCIES
Details for First Reconciliation • Thursday, Dec. 12 at 7:00 p.m. combined with Parish Reconciliation Service • Prayer Service – Want to make it a prayerful and solemn (but not somber) celebration • Plenty of Confessors for individual confession • In different areas of the church for privacy • Parents strongly encouraged to go to Confession – model it • Should take about 60 minutes • Bring some religious material for them to read after they go to Confession.
First Reconciliation/First Eucharist Registration • Complete Both Sides • Four Options for First Eucharist • Will begin accepting forms on Wednesday, Oct. 16.
Your Child’s First Reconciliation Parent Formation St. Veronica Parish October 2013