Make a Girl Like You

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2. Lots of guys want to know how to make a girl like them over text. If you're one of them, you've come to the right place. Getting a girl interested in you just by texting will be easy if you follow these tips on how to text girls. The Most Important Thing When Texting Girls Whether you're texting a girl you just met or texting a girl you've known a while, the most important piece of advice for texting girls is to have fun. Always keep your texts with women playful and lighthearted. Making a girl smile and light up when she sees your message is the key to how to make a girl like you over text. How to Make a Girl Smile over Text As for how to make a girl smile over text, here are some tips and examples of what to text girls that are sure to get the girl to like you.  Tease her. Don't be afraid to poke fun at the girl you're texting in a playful, good-natured way. Not only does teasing a girl make her laugh, it shows that you're not a just a suck- up. Teasing alone can show that you have confidence with women and therefore will help build attraction with women. Here's an example of a fun text to send to a girl that reflects that confident, playful teasing: "you're a closet dork aren't you…except without the closet.  Make fun of yourself. A surefire way to get a girl to smile over text is to make fun of yourself (in a tongue-in-cheek kind of way, not through self-deprecation). By making fun of yourself, you get her laughing and show that it's okay for her to let her guard down. She'll feel more comfortable with you, which will allow the woman to become more attracted to you.Example: If you're agreeing with something the girls says, you could respond to her text with something like "Okey dokey little pokey (ya I'm a dork like that.  Guess her answers. Another way to have fun and keep your texts to girls interesting is to guess her answers. This is a great way to spice up your texts to girls, separate yourself 2 Readmore… http://getgirlsdating.blogspot.com/

3. from other guys, and ultimately get the girl interested in you.For example, your text to a girl could read: "What r u up to this weekend? Let me guess…taking a speed knitting class so you can make me a scarf! You are sooo sweet.  Role play. The same banter techniques that work in meeting and attracting women also work great over text. Whether it's pretending to be a husband and wife headed toward divorce, a rock star and his groupie – or anything else you can think of – bantering with girls through made-up role play is great. It provides a fun way to create a shared experience that will make the girl smile and get her feeling more connected to you.One example of how to banter with women through text is to pretend she's a stalker and you're her victim. Using this banter example you might text a girl something like: "Did I just catch you spying on me as I was changing into my gym clothes my little stalker?!" Make Her Chase You Women want a man who provides a challenge and are turned off by men who make things too easy. So when you're texting a girl, get her chasing you by giving her a bit of a challenge. You can do that by following the two texting tips below: Disqualify yourself. To look more confident with women and avoid coming across as needy, playfully disqualify yourself from her dating pool. That is, joke about how the two of you would never be right for each other. You could, for instance, text her something like: "Woah woah! You like {thing she likes}? I didn't know you were that "type" of girl! I might have to get my mom's permission just to kick it with you… lol :)". By playfully pushing away like this, you create that space for the girl to chase you. Do not overtext. This is a big one as too much texting can destroy attraction with women. As a general rule, whoever is putting the most effort into the communication is the one doing the chasing. So if you want to have any shot of getting a girl to chase you, then you must not over-text. Instead, look to keep the text ratio close to 1:1 and text the girl about as frequently as she texts you. 3 Readmore… http://getgirlsdating.blogspot.com/

4. Make a Girl Feel Special over Text Another trick for how to make a girl like you over text is to stroke her ego. Let her know that she's made a positive impact on you and that she's still on your mind. An example of this would be, "I just saw the cutest little squirrel in the park gathering nuts and it made me think of you :)" A text like that is going to make a girl feel special – and making a girl feel good like that is a surefire way to get the girl to like you. Every girl is different, and there are as many different ways to attract a girl as there are girls. That being said, there are some basic principles of attraction you can apply to most situations. To get a girl to like you, you'll need to get noticed by being her friend while simultaneously flirting and testing the waters of romance to avoid the friend zone. When the time is right and you think your feelings might be mutual, you can ask her out to seal the deal. Get Noticed Have your own life. If you tend to fall into the "friend zone," this will be especially important. Real girls (girls with a strong sense of purpose and self-worth) don't like guys who have no lives or who cling to them like plastic wrap . Some girls do like that, but for all the wrong reasons—either they're insecure and needy for attention, or they're control freaks who have a need for dominating guys. Unless you want to sign up for one of those scenarios, focus filling your time with your own friendships, interests, hobbies, and goals. This also gives her a chance to do something with you without it becoming a date. 1. Have your own life. If you tend to fall into the "friend zone," this will be especially important. Real girls (girls with a strong sense of purpose and self-worth) don't like guys who have no lives or who cling to them like plastic wrap . Some girls do like that, but for all the wrong reasons—either they're insecure and needy for attention, or they're control freaks who have a need for dominating guys. Unless you want to sign up for one of those scenarios, focus filling your time with your own friendships, interests, hobbies, and goals. This also gives her a chance to do something with you without it becoming a date. 2. Look neat. Keep yourself well groomed and in shape. If you want to get a girl to like you, basic cleanliness and appearance are extremely important. Girls notice things like bad 4 Readmore… http://getgirlsdating.blogspot.com/

5. breath, flab, body odor and greasy hair before they notice that winning personality. Give them a chance to see your good qualities by making a good first impression with your appearance.  Stay in shape. Work out regularly: run a mile or two, do some sit ups, get a six pack, etc. Note that while fitness is important, you shouldn't overdo it; having too many muscles can make it look like you care more about going to the gym than fostering meaningful relationships. Also, some girls dislike having the Incredible Hulk as a boyfriend, and it makes you look slightly stupid - thanks to the dumb jock cut-out. So make it clear you're fit, but not thick. In other words, stay fit without being obsessive or a pair of walking biceps.  Have good personal hygiene. Brush your teeth, shave etc. If you can't have access to a toothbrush, carry breath mints. When you take care of yourself, it makes you more appealing to others and it will thus have a positive impact on your level of confidence. Always be sure to smell and look nice, so shower regularly and nothing is worse than the post-gym stink out, so use deodorant. 3. Speak to her. It's unlikely a girl will be at all interested in you if she doesn't know you exist. Make an effort to talk to her, even if approaching her seems scary at first. Highlight your compatibility as friends and more by talking about hobbies and interests that you have in common. Become her friend; she can't get close to you unless you're friends. Find a hobby you both like. It doesn't matter if it is anything from sports to school. If you both like hockey, invite her to a game. If you both like video games, play one together, or she could cheer you on if she doesn't usually play. Girls are all different in likes and dislikes. 4. Make her laugh. Telling jokes or funny stories is a classic way to make a person laugh, but not the only way. Be bold and think of some antics that will make her laugh, like clowning around. Find out which are her favourite comedians, funny movies, or sitcoms. Watch them with her. Tell her to dare you to do something, then do it (as long as it's not illegal, of course). Laughter will come by itself if both of you are relaxed and enjoying each others company. The more she laughs, the more she wants - and she will want 5 Readmore… http://getgirlsdating.blogspot.com/

6. more. 5. Be her friend. Girls don't just fall for random strangers. (Well, some do, but the relationship never goes very far!) Start being friendly to her in a non-invasive way. Get to know her and begin hanging out as friends. a. If you're in the same lecture or tutorial as her, find out her name. Every time she walks into the room, smile and wave at her. Sometimes this is all it takes for a young woman to notice you. At the same time though, don't do this too often; It will just end up looking like you're obsessed with her. If you're worried, greet some of your girl friends as they enter, too. If she doesn't seem to see you, when she walks by, just say "Hi _______," in a friendly way, but don't interrupt the class or any conversation she's holding. b. If she's shy, she might just smile back, so don't take this as a sign that she doesn't like you. c. If you want your relationship to move ahead faster, don't get stuck in the quicksand - that is, the 'Friend Zone'. Sometimes, a girl won't go out with you because she's afraid if the relationship will end badly, but that she'll lose your friendship! To start moving things along, be a little flirty; a woman will only be intimate with a man she knows, trusts and cares about, and this can only be achieved with taking the time to get to know her through friendly chat. However, don't come on too quickly - part of the fun of the relationship is the chase - and have patience. Girls HATE being forced into something, especially on the relationship front. 6 Readmore… http://getgirlsdating.blogspot.com/

7. Stay out of the Friend Zone 1. Flirt. Being flirty will help keep you out of the friend zone because it will remind the girl that you're attractive as well as a good friend. When you see or meet a girl you like, make brief eye contact and smile. Strike up a casual, flirty conversation and see how she reacts. If you avoid her eyes and act nervous, she's going to go into overdrive working out what on earth you mean. Girls react mainly on body language and emotions. If you make them feel happy, they'll see you as fun and caring. If you creep them out, they will get nervous - in the options between fight or flight, flight is the most preferable. a. Relax. Chill. Don't put pressure on yourself or her by thinking of her as the girl of your dreams. Try not to stress about what will happen if you make a bad joke or say the wrong thing. She may be just as nervous, and small mistakes will likely go unnoticed or will simply be ignored. Don't worry if flirting seems difficult at first. The more you talk to girls, the more relaxed you'll become. Girls often are the most jumpy because of the thousands of different responses their brain puts together at every word. They stress over picking the right one, and that sets them so flustered that they'll barely notice the bad joke from trying to relieve your awkwardness. b. Enjoy interacting with this attractive, friendly girl whose path crossed yours. While you don't want to stress yourself out, remember that the final goal is to get her to like you. Don't say things that will seem too forward or offensive. Mostly, the same girl is getting to like YOU. 2. Compliment her. If you really like someone, you probably appreciate a lot of things about her. Why not let her know? If anything is different or new (her hairstyle, nail polish colour, shirt, etc.), make note of it. The more unique the compliment, the better received it will be. a. Most girls like being complimented on something that makes them distinct, not something that plenty of other girls have. If you compliment her appearance, try to be original, perhaps by specifying a particular feature. Better yet, compliment her personality or skills. If you're not sure what's good or bad complimenting, 7 Readmore… http://getgirlsdating.blogspot.com/

8. read How to Compliment Girls. b. Don't tell her she's beautiful too often. If she's very pretty, it's likely that several other guys have already mentioned it to her; it may sound trite after a while. If you're going to compliment her, stand out by making comments about her personality, how good she is at something, how she does things, etc. Complimenting her appearance too much may make her think you're shallow and maybe that you just want to have sex with her, and you don't want to give that impression. 3. Impress her. There's no one-size-fits-all solution here. What impresses one girl might make another roll her eyes. Your best bet is to be yourself. Demonstrate a unique skill, talent or something difficult to do that you're proud of, something that sets you apart from the crowd. Not only will this make her feel good about you, but it can boost your confidence, too. a. Be careful not to be cocky. Impress her, but do not boast too much about your great achievements and plans. While self confidence is an attractive quality, extreme cockiness is a huge turnoff for most girls. 4. Break the touch barrier. There are several ways to touch a girl without being sleazy. Hold her coat while she puts it on. Offer her your hand when she's stepping on an uneven surface. Hold out your hand so you can lead her through a crowd, catch her if she stumbles, and hug and high-five her when she's euphoric. If she's worried, put your hand lightly on her shoulder to comfort her. These are all polite ways to get a little closer to someone without being creepy. a. Girls feel touch more sensitively than most men, even if they put up a tough front, so make sure the touching is light; for example, don't slap her on the back, but pat her on the shoulder. If you see any signs of discomfort, stop! 5. Test the water. After there's a bit of mutual attraction, start throwing out low-level "bait"— little jokes that hint at interest—to see if she bites. A good baiting statement should be light and playful, and usually ambiguous. "Baiting" is how women flirt too, so be on the 8 Readmore… http://getgirlsdating.blogspot.com/

9. lookout for things she might be "joking" about or things that could have a double meaning. a. There's a certain look a woman will give you if you get that right (and if she's the right girl to begin with). It's like you gave her the secret handshake. She'll look back at you for a couple of seconds, wondering if you "get it" or if you just accidentally stumbled on the right words. When she does this, hold eye contact, half-smile, and don't react otherwise. This is like being one point of the world's high score: it's probably the most fragile moment in the history of both of you. Wait for her to say the next thing, and cross your fingers it'll be yes. 6. Take your time. Don't be pushy or needy. Nice girls normally need longer time than boys to develop deep feelings. Continue courting her by following the steps above, but don't rush things. If you end up in a relationship with this girl, she'll always remember how you made her feel when you were just getting to know each other. a. Make her feel appreciated, not invisible or smothered. Do the chase slowly and gently (but steadily) to reduce fear of sexual advances (if any), avoid looking desperate, and to allow her to get accustomed to a new man in her life. Do not force the relationship; carefully look for clues on where and when you can see her again. 9 Readmore… http://getgirlsdating.blogspot.com/

10. Ask Her Out 1. Ask her out. Once you feel comfortable, invite her to go somewhere or to do something with you. Make sure it's something that you're both interested in. If you want, show her your world. Bring her somewhere that you feel comfortable and preferably, where you have or do something you're proud of. a. Alternatively, you can express interest in seeing her world. Is she a musician? Ask if you can see her perform. Is she a mathematician? Ask to read her report or thesis. b. If you aren't yet ready or comfortable with the idea of sharing your personal lives to that extent, just go out for lunch or do something simple together where you can get to know her better. 2. Make her feel important. Chivalry is not dead. Keep it up by opening doors, holding an umbrella over her, carrying stuff when she has her hands full, lending her your jumper, and basically caring for her. The mark of a true gentleman is to a lady feel like a lady. Girls want to feel important and valued. When communicating with her, make an effort to say more rather than less and to keep things personal rather than generic. When you want to ask her out or to do something with you, ask in person, preferably at her home. She needs to know that you're prepared to go the extra mile and not wuss out on her. 3. Be romantic. The stereotypical icons of romance (roses, candles, chocolate and teddy bears) can only go so far. Think about what really gets that special someone excited. Recognize what makes her unique; find and do things that only she would appreciate. Being romantic means acknowledging how special a person is, and that means demonstrating that you know––better than anyone else in the world—–what makes her unique. a. Pay attention when she's talking! Keep a mental list of things that she loves and that make her unique. What are her quirky (perhaps secret) interests, obsessions and fantasies? What makes her eyes light up? Girls are quick to notice if you 10 Readmore… http://getgirlsdating.blogspot.com/

11. remember things they told you a long while ago. 4. Confide in each other. Tell her what you really enjoy in life, what gets you excited and find out what gets her excited. Be positive. If you had a bad day, still greet her pleasantly with a big smile. Most importantly, listen to everything she says. Whether she talks about herself, her family, or her hobbies, pay attention. Some things could be useful or important to know later in the relationship. Nod to show that you're listening, and also respond to what she says so she knows that you really are listening. Women are very appreciative of guys who demonstrate sincere interest in what they say. 5. Be yourself. You are unique. Be the authentic you. Bring out your best. Let her know you as who you truly are. Use your talents, gifts, and strengths and let yourself be known. If you have great sense of humor, share that with her. If you love science, music, poetry, politics, or sports, let her know what you love. The right woman will fall for you and love you just the way you are. 11 Readmore… http://getgirlsdating.blogspot.com/

12. Make a Girl Like You Without Asking Her Out You like a girl. And you want her to like you back. All you need to do is follow ten little steps. Find out how to make a girl like you without even asking her out. When a regular guy likes a girl, he wears his heart on his sleeves and asks her out. But he really doesn't know if she's going to accept his proposal or walk all over him. Being straight forward is a nice way to ask a girl out, but it's not perfect. If you want to know how to make a girl like you, you need to know how to do just that without really ever telling her that you like her in the first place. By asking a girl out, you're putting her in a spot, probably because she's never looked at you as a dating potential or because she likes someone else. But by warming her up and making her want you first, you'd be able to make her like you without ever telling her that you want to go out with her. How to make a girl like you? When a girl feels comfortable around you, you're a nice guy. When she has a great time with you, you're definitely a great guy. 12 Readmore… http://getgirlsdating.blogspot.com/

13. If she has a great time with you and feels a flutter in her heart when she's around you, well, you're definitely on the right track to making her like you. Most guys try to be nice guys, and there's really nothing wrong in that. If you want to get a girl to like you, you definitely have to play nice. But as the friendship progresses, you have to learn to subtly move away from the friend zone and let her notice you as a dating potential. [Read: How to charm a girl] Many guys get this part wrong. They want to go out with a girl, but they never really make any move towards letting the girl know what's on their mind. And eventually, all that happens is that she gets swept away by some other guy, while they whine about how unfair life is to them. Don't be that loser of a guy. Attractive friends and dating potentials If you have an attractive friend, never let her see you as just a friend, unless you have no intentions of ever dating her or making out with her. But can any guy ever not fall for an attractive cutie, friend or otherwise? I think not. Girls may find it easier to stay friends with an attractive guy, but guys just can't. It's in a man's competitive nature to woo anyone he finds attractive. But there are exceptions here, like when the girl is already dating another guy, or if she's so way out of your league that you can't even think of asking her out. If you really do like a girl and want to make her like you, you can always overcome the exceptions if you want to. If she's dating another guy, learn how to steal a girlfriend. And if you think she's way out of your league, let me tell you something, no girl is ever way out of league for any guy. If you believe in yourself and truly realize that you're worthy of her, you'll find a way to leave a lasting impression on her. Don't smooth talk all girls you meet If you want to know how to make a girl like you, you need to stop trying to be a serial flirter. Do you have a friend who flirts with every single girl he meets, even if there are two or more girls at the same time? 13 Readmore… http://getgirlsdating.blogspot.com/

14. Now his flirting abilities may be a gift to die for, but when you publicly flirt with every single friend or girl you meet, you're not treating one girl any different from the other. All the girls may end up assuming you're just a serial flirter who just flirts with all his friends. Making a girl like you the sneaky way If you want to make a girl like you, she has to believe that you're treating her differently. By treating her in a special manner, you'll make her wonder if you've got something more than friends on your mind. Really, why else would you treat one friend differently from the others? And once you get her thinking, you've already set the ball in motion. Both of you may be friends, but the doubt of whether both of you are more than friends would create a tingle of sexual excitement and curiosity that can score you big points while pursuing her sneakily. Don't flirt and tell A bit of casual flirting is fun, even among friends. You can flirt and tease all your girl friends, but don't overdo it. Let all your women friends see you as a cheerful guy who's a lot of fun to spend time with. But save your wooing and flirting when you're alone with a girl. Flirt with her using the sneaky flirting steps I've mentioned below and get touchy feely when it's just the both of you. By keeping it discreet, you get to make an impression on the girl, and no one else even knows about it. The secret flirting can excite the girl you like, and you're not really asking her out anyways, are you? You're just indulging in a bit of "friendly flirting"• . If this girl speaks about your flirting with another girl friend, everyone knows you as a cheerful guy who flirts now and then, so no one's going to believe she's getting any special treatment from you, and this would only make her get drawn to you even if it's just to confirm her doubts! [Read: 10 signs of a good boyfriend] On the other hand, if she keeps the flirting a secret too, it'll make her feel all the more excited to share a special connection with you. Either ways, you win! 14 Readmore… http://getgirlsdating.blogspot.com/

15. What's the next move? If you want to understand the real secret behind knowing how to make a girl like you, you always need to remember to keep your real intentions of wanting to go out with her a secret until you know she really likes you back. Asking a girl out straight is easy, but once you do that, you have no control on her decision. And if you do like a girl and want to go out with her, why would you want to leave your hopes to chance? As chauvinistic as I may sound, girls like a bit of drama and confusion in their life. Create a friend-or-more-than-a-friend drama and watch the pretty picture unfold while having the ball in your court the whole way. And if you play your cards right and take it slow, you'll know how to make a girl like you back without even expressing your feelings to her! 15 Readmore… http://getgirlsdating.blogspot.com/

16. How to Be a Much Better Man Using the Right Role Model Do you dream of becoming a chick magnet who can get any woman he wants no matter where he goes? Find out how to be a better man using a role model. By Kevin Smith Knowing how to be a better man can be the difference between a chick magnet and a guy who's always overlooked. But becoming a better man, especially when it comes to wooing women isn't easy. You try hard, work your social skills and women still seem to pick someone else over you. Ever been there? Join the club. Poets and writers through the ages have tried understanding women, so have people like you and me, but to no avail. And coming to think of it, perhaps that's why we love women so much. Add complicated to the list, along with a pretty face, good assets, a cheerful voice, a flirty laugh and a bit more and you get the idea of the perfect woman. How to be a better man Here's the confusion that most men face. You may think you have a great personality and a lot of humor and pizzazz, but yet there's obviously something lacking there. Or why wouldn't you be swarmed by women all the time? Thomas Jefferson had mentioned something along the lines of "…all men are created equal…"• along with other intellectually accentuated over-the-top lines, which are great and all that, but is that really the case? Are we all ever equal, at least when it comes to dating women? We may have come a long way since the declaration of independence, but these days all men are not equal. They are merely a part of a food chain, minus the chomping. Men at every level want to be one up, in everything they do. But how do we know where's the top? The biggie, the Alpha dawg! 16 Readmore… http://getgirlsdating.blogspot.com/

17. The alpha male of relationships All men want to be the alpha male who gets all the women, but to get there without having to experiment is hard. So the next best thing most men do is trying to fit into the mould of the idea of the perfect man. A guy with a sense of humor, pretty decent looks for an average looking guy, sex god looks for the good looking ones, a good job, a flashy car and all the works. But then, there are so many of them in this league that women just want more! So, for you to get straight to the top of the food chain of men, you need to become someone else who's even better than you. For starters, women don't necessarily like one stereotype when it comes to men. Women like different types of men, who stand out of the crowd like a shiny penny. Becoming a better man with a role model What's a role model? Well, blatantly put, he's that guy who can do things that you can't ever dream of doing in all your nine lives! I remember one time years ago when I was at a movie theater watching Jerry Maguire. And then there came this part that I would never forget for the rest of my life. The part where Tom Cruise walks up to Renée Zellweger, and tells her with his big watery eyes that she… completes…. him! Aah! In one instant, the hall was engulfed by a watery salty sea breeze and all I could hear around me was sniffs and snorts. Tissue wipes were pulled out of dainty lady bags all around me and mascara stained faces were being rubbed pink. And there I was in the midst of an emotional crisis. And that's when I imagined myself running to the movie screen with my pants unzipped, yelling "what's he got that I ain't got?!"• But I didn't. Let's face it, any guy who can get women all around the world welling up and creating new salt lakes has got to be some super dude. I wanted to be him. At that moment, I just knew. Jerry Maguire was a freakin' role model! Jerry Maguire may have had his flaws, but he was a man who knew how to charm women and every else around him. If I could pick a few pointers from him, I could become someone like him. 17 Readmore… http://getgirlsdating.blogspot.com/

18. Picking your role model Picking a role model isn't easy business. It isn't like watching a pretty girl and falling for her. Your role model has to lead your life, or at least something along the same lines. You can't really be a corporate geek and have Kurt Cobain as your role model. Then you'd just be creepy. If you want to know how to be a better man by using a role model, pick someone who you can look up to, and make sure they live the life you aspire to have, at least in some way or the other. Donald Trump, Richard Branson, and the late Steve Jobs are really cool guys in the corporate world. When it comes to wooing women and looking smooth at the same time, we have great guys like George Clooney, Hugh Jackman, Will Smith and a lot more. See anyone you like? You'd know someone is your role model when you watch a movie or an interview and instantly, without actually realizing it, find yourself saying "I wish I was this guy!" The more the role models, the better you can become Now you really don't have to be picky. Get greedy and hoard up as many role models as you want. To each his own. I have several role models too. Each character in the world or in the movies has something that's nice and something that may be not-so-nice. Make that perfect character that you'd want to be, and try and be that person. Want to be a cool player like Daniel Ocean in the Ocean series, a hard ball like Edward Lewis in Pretty Woman, and a smooth tough guy like Detective Mike Lowrey in Bad Boys II? Well, you can be all of that. That's the best part of having role models. Why should you use role models? Let's face it, you can read a lot of self improvement books, but can they all really help you? The facts may be informative, but your ego may never let you admit that you suck when it comes to impressing women. If you want to know how to be a better man, you need to take chances and learn from others. And what better way than to learn from someone who inspires you, be it a fictional character or a real life hero. It's easier to watch and learn from an inspiration, and be a better man yourself. It's never easy to pick flaws in yourself. And it's frustrating each time you hear a girl say something like, "I'm sorry, I just can't feel that spark with you!"• 18 Readmore… http://getgirlsdating.blogspot.com/

19. It feels even worse because you'd never be able to find the flaws yourself, either because you think you're already perfect or because you're too thick to see that you're not that perfect after all. So instead, just refine yourself to become someone you know all women would kill to have. 19 Readmore… http://getgirlsdating.blogspot.com/