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Good Morning Goeie more Avuxeni Ndi Matsheloni Sanibonani Sawubona Molweni Dumelang Namaste : I see you !. “To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people just exist, that is all”. Oscar Wilde. "When death finds you, may it find you alive". Malidoma Some from Burkina Faso.
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Good Morning • Goeie more • Avuxeni • Ndi Matsheloni • Sanibonani • Sawubona • Molweni • Dumelang • Namaste : I see you !
“To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people just exist, that is all” Oscar Wilde
"When death finds you, may it find you alive" Malidoma Some from Burkina Faso
“Relationships are all there is” Margaret Wheatley
Relationships Energy Adders Energy Subtracters Energy Dividers Energy Multipliers
wisdom knowledge noise Information Pyramid information data
FINISHED FILES ARE THE RESULT OF YEARS OF SCIENTIFIC STUDY COMBINED WITH THE EXPERIENCE OF MANY YEARS Notice the small issues
Join the 9 dots shown below with FOUR straight lines WITHOUT lifting your pen off the paper. When you’ve done that, the challenge is to join the 9 dots with three lines without lifting your pen off the paper, then to join all 9 dots with one line without lifting your pen off the paper, and then to join all 9 dots with NO line! THINK OUT OF THE BOX Divide the diagram below into five equal and identical parts KEEP IT SIMPLE
Information Energy
Information x Trust = Energy
Energy comes frominformationandtrust E = it² but misinformation and distrust create negative energy
Spirals Up Information x Trust = Energy
“Playing Blue” Information x Trust = Energy
Misinformation x Distrust = Negative Energy Spirals Down
Misinformation x Distrust = Negative Energy “Playing Red”
PARADOX • You can count the number of seeds in every apple, but you can’t count the number of apples in every seed. Think of the REALITIES, but at the same time think of the POSSIBILITIES. • The jigsaw puzzle. Take time to exchange information. Be sure you are all talking the same language and seeing the same picture.
Our BehaviorsHabitsdetermine the BLUE or REDin our Organization How I behave starts with my “Pictures” or “Paradigms” What I “See” Believe or Disbelieve Creating my HABITS Makes me Get or Not Get Do So that I Therefore, to change habits start 1st by Changing the “Pictures” or “Paradigms”
Behaviors in Action Our Current Approach to Change If I do not Get what I want I only change what I am doing Not Get Do Thus no Change in Habit/Behavior NB. Find the “Pictures” or “Paradigms” that create RED behavior
The 6 RED pictures • There is only one version of the truth • The world is a finite (limited) place • The world is an unfriendly place • Some of us are better than others • My success lies in being Independent • Coercive power gets things done
Getting right things done right Together……..
Getting right things done right Together ……. In teams ……. This is managing effectiveness
Energy e E Effectiveness
Energy e Balance E Leadership is finding the balance between effectiveness and energy
BALI WISDOM Whatever you do, Ladies and Gentlemen – whatever you do Don’t lose your EQUILABARIUM. Because if you lose your EQUILABARIUM, Your WHILLS WEBBLE
Finding balance • Balancing 18 nails on the head of 1 nail
Low e Low e Low E High E “creative” people 20% 5% High e High e Low E High E Potential 75% Disengaged
Personal Energy Customer Energy Leadership Energy Organisational Energy Bottom Line
The Disengaged School Principal • A father knocks on his son's door. "Jaime," he says, "wake up!" Jaime answers, "I don't want to get up, Papa." The father shouts, "Get up, you have to go to school." Jaime says, "I don't want to go to school." "Why not?" asks the father. "Three reasons," says Jaime. "First, because it's so dull; second, the kids tease me; and third, I hate school." And the father says, "Well, I am going to give you three reasons why you must go to school. First, because it is your duty; second, because you are forty-five years old, and third, because you are the headmaster."
Yes’s No’s Fractal: 30mins/month
ZIZIPHUS MUCRONATA • Buffalo thorn - English • Blinkblaar-wag-n-bietjie doring boom - Afrikaans • Umphafa - Xhosa Look back along the hooked thorn and learn from your past but don’t get stuck there. Look forward along the straight thorn and plan for your future.
Sharing your Big Yes & Big No Buttons Four Kinds of Relationships Adding Energy Consider: • Sharing something personal about your name • What will give you a Big Yes in your life now • What will give you a Big NO in your life now • People who have a great influence on your energy • What was a great defining moment in your life • What do you think of when you hear the word infinite Subtracting Energy Multiplying Energy Dividing Energy
< Simple arithmetic of Human Energy + Add – Subtract × Multiply ÷ Divide
How do you rate your colleagues? < Key : Subtract Multiply Divide Add
< Key : Subtract Multiply Divide Add How some of your colleagues rate you Me! - hopefully
Sustainable personal energy • Balance • Authentic Relationships • Belong to “a community, family, country, company, school etc.” that has a worthy purpose
Nasrudin was now an old man looking back on his life. He sat with his friends in the tea shop telling his story. “When I was young I was fiery – I wanted to awaken everyone. I prayed to Allah to give me the strength to change the world. In mid-life I awoke one day and realized my life was half over and I had changed no one. So I prayed to Allah to give me the strength to change those close around me who so much needed it. Alas, now I am old and my prayer is simpler. ‘Allah,’ I ask, ‘please give me the strength to at least change myself’
"The ultimate competitive advantage of your enterprise comes down to a single imperative - your ability to grow and develop leaders faster than your competition. Your role is to grow leaders fast and develop a culture of leadership before your competition does". “The Greatness Guide” - Robin Sharma
“Abake babonana bayophinde babonane futhi” ….. those of us who have truly seen one another, will surely see one another again.