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“Defective Teens – NOT!!!” Based on: “The Seven Habits of Highly Effective Teens" by Sean Covey Presented by Mr Shelov. Habit 1: React. Habit 2: Begin with No End in Mind. Habit 3: Put First Things Last. Habit 4: Think Win-Lose. Habit 5: Seek First to Talk, Then Pretend to Listen.
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“Defective Teens – NOT!!!” Based on: “The Seven Habits of Highly Effective Teens" by Sean Covey Presented by Mr Shelov
Habit 1: React. Habit 2: Begin with No End in Mind. Habit 3: Put First Things Last. Habit 4: Think Win-Lose. Habit 5: Seek First to Talk, Then Pretend to Listen. Habit 6: Don't Cooperate Habit 7: Wear Yourself Out. The 7 Habits of HighlyDefectiveTeens:
“As you can see, the habits listed above are recipes for disaster. Yet many of us indulge in them...regularly (me included). And, given this, it's no wonder that life in this world can really stink at times.”--Sean Covey DefectiveTeens
Habit 1: Be Proactive. Take responsibility for your life. Habit 2: Begin with the End in Mind. Define your mission and goals in life. Habit 3: Put First Things First. Prioritize, and do the most important things first. Habit 4: Think Win-Win. Have an everyone-can-win attitude. Habit 5: Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood. Listen to people sincerely. Habit 6: Synergize. Work together to achieve more. Habit 7: Sharpen the Saw. Renew yourself regularly. What are the 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens?
Habit 1: Be Proactive • Listen to your language • Victimitius virus • Proactive pays • Circle of control • Setbacks to triumphs reactive proactive
Be Proactive • Rise above • Change agent • Proactive muscles • Can-do • Push pause • Tools in action
Habit 2: Begin With the End In Mind • Crossroads • Who’s leading? • Personal mission statement • Your talents • Three watch outs • Labels • All over syndrome • Wrong wall
Begin With the End In Mind • Go for goal • Count the cost • Put it in pen • Just do it! • Use momentous moments • Rope up • Goals in action • Weakness to strengths
Habit 3: Put First Things First • Pack more into life • Procrastinator • Prioritizer • Yes-man • Slacker • Use a planner (agenda!) • Rocks story Procrastinator Prioritizer Slacker Yes-Man
Put First Things First • Courage zone • Vrs. Comfort zone • Fear and decisions • Rising after falling • Hard moments • Peer pressure • Ingredient of success
Relationship Bank Account • Keeping promises • Small acts of kindness • Be loyal • Listen • Say you are sorry • Set clear expectations
Habit 4: Think Win-Win • Win-lose, • totem pole • Lose-win, • doormat • Lose-lose, • downward spiral • Win-win, • all you can eat buffet
Think Win-Win • Private victory • Avoid tumor twins • Competing • Comparing • Fruits of win-win spirit
Habit 5: Seek First to Understand , Then to Be Understood • 5 poor listening styles: • Space out • Pretender • Selective • Word • Self-centered • Judge • probe
Seek First to Understand , Then to Be Understood • Genuine listening • Talk with parents
Habit 6: Synergize • Synergy is everywhere • Celebrate differences • All a minority of one • Roadblocks • Stick up for diversity
Synergize • Getting into synergy • Define problem (or better – OPPORTUNITY!) • Their way • My way • Brainstorm • High way • Teamwork and synergy
Habit 7: Sharpen the Saw • Balance is better • Take time for a time-out
Sharpen the Saw • Care for your body • You are what you eat • Use it or lose it • All about how you feel • Quit whenever you want • The refusal skill
Sharpen the Saw • Care for your brain • Sharpen your mind • Find your niche • School in way of education • Post high school • Mental barriers • You gotta wanna
Sharpen the Saw • Care for your heart • Sex and relationships • Laugh or you’ll cry
Sharpen the Saw • Care for your soul • Back to nature • Teen’s best friend • Spiritual diet • Disturbing my sleep • Fried frogs • Get real
Hope So be sure when you step Step with care and great tact And remember that life’s A great Balancing Act. And will you succeed? (98 and ¾ percent guaranteed) Kid, you’ll move mountains ~Dr. Seuss We've been warned against offering the people of this nation false hope. But in the unlikely story that is America, there has never been anything false about hope ~President Obama