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Giving and receiving feedback. By A.V. Vedpuriswar. July 9, 2011. What is feedback?. Feedback is simply the sharing of observations about job performance or work-related behaviors . Feedback is not a judgment about another person.
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Giving and receiving feedback By A.V. Vedpuriswar July 9, 2011
What is feedback? • Feedback is simply • the sharing of observations about job performance or • work-related behaviors. • Feedback is not a judgment about another person. • Feedback is meant to be an objective message about behavior and its consequences. • Feedback is to • recognize a job well done • or to suggest how to improve performance. • Feedback should encourage the recipient to learn, grow and change in a positive direction.
How feedback helps • Awareness: We can improve our understanding of the impact of our own behavior and actions on others. • Work process: We can get new perspectives on the ways we can get work done. • Relationships: By listening and being open during feedback sessions, we can improve our relationships with team members. • Results: We can achieve better results.
Feedback during Performance appraisal • What needs to be achieved • Contribution • How it needs to be achieved • Competency
Inherent Conflicts • Manager - Judge - Coach • Employee - Wants feedback - Senstitive to negative comments • Manager vs Employee • So feedback must be delinked from performance appraisal as far as possible. • Feedback is best given in small doses through the year.
Steps in giving feedback • Establish clarity on the work expectations and objectives • Have all the necessary details. • Begin in a positive way. • Describe the behavior and its impact . • Listen carefully to each response. • Check for understanding • Agree on next steps.
The S B I D Framework • Situation • Behaviour • Impact • Desirable behaviour
Approaches to giving feedback • Tell and sell • Tell and listen • Problem solving
Avoiding pitfalls • Do homework • Have facts & figures at finger tips • Recall Critical incidents • Avoid general comments • Avoid sweeping remarks • Focus on behaviour • Comment on specific situations
Tips for giving better feedback • Reduce power distance • Make it a two way process • Separate development from appraisal • Start with positive acknowledgement • Come up with specific action plans • Do not get emotional
Barriers to giving feedback • Belief that feedback is negative and unhelpful. • Feeling that the other person will not be able to take it. • Thinking the relationship may get spoiled. • In the past, the receiver didn’t change or was hostile to feedback. • The feedback is just not worth the risk.
Steps for receiving feedback • Visualise how you will receive the feedback. • Stay open to the feedback given. • Seek clarifications wherever appropriate. • Say thank you to the person giving feedback. • Reflect • Identify what you can learn from the feedback. • Set up an action plan with milestones and time lines. • Be clear about what you believe you cannot accomplish.
Barriers to receiving feedback • I have the urge to rationalize, since the criticism makes me uncomfortable . • My self-worth will be diminished by suggestions for improvement . • In the past, feedback was unhelpful or unjustified.
Overcoming the fear of feedback • Recognise your responses and emotions. • Get support. • Reframe the feedback • Break the task.
Useful Tips for receiving feedback. • Listen actively. • Paraphrase what you hear. • Ask questions when you don’t understand. • Be attentive to suggestions you can act on.
Responding to vague feedback • Ask questions to clarify feedback. For example, “What specifically made my presentation ineffective?” • Don’t let your frustration show. • Keep your voice even and calm. • Use appropriate body language. • Persist politely until you have the details that you need.
Situation 1 • Hari is a sales manager. His boss has told him that he is not sociable enough with his customers. The criticism has hurt Ravi badly. How should he respond?
Action Plan • Introspect and Reflect • Am I unsociable? • Am I willing to change? • Should I take up a new role?
Situation 2 • Sheela has been told by her manager that her work is good. But her presentations are boring. Sheila accepts the feedback. How should she frame her development plan?
Action plan • Work on content • Improve delivery • Understand the audience • Work on the opening remarks • Understand where to emphasise • Think of stories to tell • Observe other good speakers