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Habit 1

Habit 1. Be Proactive. Proactive vs Reactive. Reactive people make choices based on emotions, feelings, their moods and on impulse Proactive people make choices based on principles/values. Examples of Reactive and Proactive choices. Turn to page 49-50-Read Scene 1

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Habit 1

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  1. Habit 1 Be Proactive

  2. Proactive vs Reactive • Reactive people make choices based on emotions, feelings, their moods and on impulse • Proactive people make choices based on principles/values

  3. Examples of Reactive and Proactive choices • Turn to page 49-50-Read Scene 1 • What are the consequences of the Reactive choices? • What are the consequences of the Proactive choices?

  4. Reactive Language • That’s just the way I am • I can’t • I’ll try • Others (pg 51)

  5. Proactive Language • I’ll do it • I can do better than that • There’s got to be a way • Others listed on pg 51

  6. Reactive people feel like • Victims • Are easily offended • Blame others • Get angry and say things they regret • Whine and complain • Wait for things to happen to them • Change only when they have to

  7. Proactive people feel like • They are NOT easily offended • Take responsibility for their choices • Think before they act • Bounce back when something bad happens • Always find a way to make it happen • Focus on things they can do something about and not about the things they can’t

  8. What can we control? • We can’t control everything • Our skin color • Who our parents are • How others might treat us • Weather • We can control how we respond to what happens to us

  9. Responding to setbacks • We can turn our thinking around to respond to a negative by making it a positive • An accident • Abuse • Our home life

  10. Becoming more Proactive • Take responsibility for your life • Have a CAN-DO attitude

  11. Just Push Pause • When you have a situation you want to respond in some way think… • Just Push Pause • Use your 4 tools in your toolbox • Self- awareness-stand apart from myself and look objectively • Conscience-I listen to my inner voice to know what is right and wrong • Imagination-I can envision new possibilities • Willpower- I have the power to choose

  12. Human tools in action • Use your principles to help make choices • Use your proactive language • Turn negatives into positives • Have a can-do attitude • Use the tools to respond

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