London HIV Poz - Guide towards Dating

1. London HIV Poz - Guide towards Dating It is time to face the truth; I have spent most of my adult life single. My loneliness is interrupted only by casual relationships that last from a week to three months. My whole love life has been full of failed relationships, late dreams, and no starts. Now that I'm reaching 30years old, I'm starting to realize how extremely pathetic this all sounds. According to a timeline that I set myself at age 10, I should be married and trying to have my first child now. To be honest, according to my 10 year old daughter, I should be an obstetrician married to an woman with beautiful hair. Needless to say, I was a bit misled then. When I think about my life and try to figure out why I am not married or at least in a long-term committed relationship, I come back to the same conclusion ... because I am positive. Honestly, my positive status is just one of the many confusing variables that have led me to being single. Others include my inability to trust, my mistrust, and the fact that I seem unable to revolve around my own values beyond my sexual ability. Trying to end the cycle of my lonely nights and longing for love, I have developed a series of steps and rules for getting married single. I call them the Poz Guy's socializing guide. This serves as a subdivision of my Dollhouse Diary blog, used erratically, and serves as a chronicle of a life worth sharing. I start this journey with the first rule that every positive man must follow in order to create a deep and meaningful relationship: Accept the things you can't change As a positive person, there are some things that are not completely out of control. Whatever you do, you cannot change the fact that you have an incurable virus. You have HIV It may not be the death sentence it once was, but it is still full of stigma and the rules you need to follow. This virus is not going away anywhere in the near future, so you have to deal with it. You can take all of his antiretroviral drugs, you can bring CD4 to Jesus' level, and his viral load goes unnoticed. However, this does not change the fact that the test was still positive. As much as you want to fight the diagnosis, you have to face the fact that your life has changed and you will never look at people, love, or yourself the same way again. There are Dating Site for HIV people to find love support friendship and more.. sign up and find your partner there.

2. Another thing you can never change is that you can't control the way people handle your positivity. Some people accept you wholeheartedly. They will love you despite your diagnosis and care deeply about you. Then there are others who reject you ... who deny your humanity. Those who refuse to love you and who do not accept your status report. No preparation will give you control over how they see you after disclosure. You have less uncertainty about yourself and you waste less time with men who would never be worth your time in the beginning. There are some new realities that every Newly Diagnosed HIV Positive man must face, and this is certainly the first. Unfortunately, it is also the most difficult. I mean, I've been positive for 6 years and I barely understand this. When you choose to accept things that you cannot change, you open yourself to love in your new truth. I've been doing all of this dating stuff, even though it's been a pinch for a while now. Enough to know that there are definite ways to navigate this new life. Consider these brands, a kind of manual ... guide. It is a poz-man guide to socializing.