Breast Cancer Survivor Support_ What Not To Say (1)

1. Breast Cancer Survivor Support: What Not To Say If you know someone recently diagnosed with breast cancer, it can be challenging to know what to say to show breast cancer survivor support. Words carry the power to encourage others, but what you say to a breast cancer patient may do the opposite if not carefully considered. The National Breast Cancer Foundation, Inc. has an excellent resource on the best ways to support your loved one with breast cancer verbally. Here are some guidelines for what you should not say to a woman battling breast cancer. What Not To Say To Those Battling Breast Cancer “Someone I Know Passed Away From Breast Cancer.” Telling your loved one about someone you know who has passed away from breast cancer is not a good idea. As a part of their breast cancer community Oklahoma, you should seek to encourage instead of filling them with fear and uncertainty. Try to steer clear of any mention of poor outcomes related to breast cancer. “Let Me Know If You Need Anything.” This statement may seem harmless, but it leaves your loved one in a tough spot when it comes to asking for assistance. Many women are not comfortable asking for help even when offered, or they may not even know what they need help with. Take the initiative and ask how you can give breast cancer survivor support in specific ways, like taking the kids to school or doing the laundry. “I Have Been Having A Hard Time Lately, Too.” Remember to stay sensitive to what is going on in your loved one’s life. Try not to bombard them with your own problems unprompted. Instead, share when the situation is appropriate or if you are asked directly. Remain focused on giving them support. It is important to pay attention to their needs, whether letting them vent about their struggles with breast cancer and marriage or bringing them a home-cooked meal. “Try To Stay Positive!” Breast cancer is a frightening diagnosis, and women who have been diagnosed may feel a

2. range of emotions. Instead of telling them to stay positive, it is crucial to be respectful of their emotions as they process their diagnosis. A listening ear can provide immense comfort and support during times of stress and pain. Find Encouragement from Project31’s Breast Cancer Community Oklahoma Finding the right words to comfort your loved one may be difficult if you have never been diagnosed with breast cancer. As such, many women enjoy being in a community with fellow survivors, as these women understand entirely what they are going through. At Project31, we are a community built by breast cancer survivors. We host events and support groups, discussing topics such as breast cancer and marriage. Please visit our calendar to view upcoming support group meetings or reach out if you have any questions.