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GenZ&U is a safe space organization that coaches tweens, teens, young adults, and parents on how to revive the lost connection. We're bridging the generational gap, one family at a time. We help teenagers manage their emotions constructively through our three-prong approach.<br>
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Children- our pride possessions? - GenZ&U genzandu.blogspot.com/2022/11/children-our-pride-possessions-genz.html GenZandu Children- our pride possessions? Children are the most cherished individuals in any parent’s life. We create a life and then try and shape them to be who we want them to be. Let us think about this statement. These children are not possessions they are human beings who have their minds and yes want to be guided but not controlled, want to be led but not managed, and want to be loved but not owned. My research as a post-doctoral student is based on Generation Z, the cohort born in the 2000s. These are strong individuals who do not want to follow the crowd but want to create their path. 1/4
As parents a few things we need to consider while raising these young adults to be grounded powerful leaders and parents of tomorrow. To protect them with all good intentions as parents we tend to kill their individuality though putting a label on them “you are a kid” you haven’t seen what life is really about. I agree; however, we need to remember children teach us more than we teach them. It’s about time we as parents made a conscious shift in our thinking. I am listing down a few things that I have learned from my child who is a 14-year-old teenager. I have grasped the ability to move with this new generation and become a part of their lives rather than a parent who is always lecturing and telling them what to do. Yes, I am a parent, but I am also my child’s best friend. 2/4
1. Accept them for who they are, and teach them the difference between bravery and stupidity as this is a generation who will defy you just because they think out of the box. 1. Listen to your child. Do not take things at face value, if he/she is saying something there is a reason behind it, give them the time of day and dig deep to analyze their emotions. 3. Walk the talk- Generation Z will not follow you just because “U said so,” model the behavior. Children learn more by watching than hearing. 4. It's ok to be different- Tell them it is alright to stand out from the crowd and “Be You the world will adjust.” 5. Grades matter- but they do not shape who you are- Yes, their grades will fall at times just like you stumble in life sometimes, but do not judge them, encourage them to focus on the knowledge the grades will come. 3/4
6. Yelling is not an option- When he/she is having a moment take a step back and do not retaliate, be mindful that it's not their personality it's their hormones. There is something behind their meltdown when they calm down, ask them what’s bothering them. 7. Lastly, love them for who they are not for who you want them to be. Love is a very powerful emotion, it changes lives and can turn the world around. I know every parent who is reading this must be thinking, easier said than done. Yes, it’s a tough journey to raise this generation but guess what the fact that you have been given this chance to raise another life is a blessing. A few years from now when they leave and become young adults and heads turn, you will proudly turn around and say “I am the proud parent of this child.” More power to every parent in this world for shaping a life. 4/4
