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The Pursuit of Happiness for All. Marion Aslan www.crazydiamond.org.uk. Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions Dalai Lama . 20’s University Teacher Travel 30’s Married Running own business Mother.
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The Pursuit of Happiness for All Marion Aslan www.crazydiamond.org.uk
Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions Dalai Lama
20’s University Teacher Travel 30’s Married Running own business Mother
“… severely and enduringly mentally ill. You must realise you won’t be able to work again; you will need to be on medication for the rest of your life”
“You are to give up working and cancel your holiday – you’re just running away from your problems!” Oh, and by the way send me your driving licence, I’ll return it to the licensing authority”
Is it any wonder that people get stuck? At the Mental Health Center of Denver (MHCD) we know recovery is possible because we see it happen every day.
Recovery “What are the 3 most important things in Recovery? Hope, hope and even more hope!” Aslan 2008 “The Purpose of our lives is to be happy” Dalai Lama … happiness, contentment, self actualisation, contribution, inclusion
Resilience and Tenacity “I had to assess and then reject everything I was being told by “the experts” and become my own “Expert by Experience” Anger at what I’d experienced and fear of going back made me look at - • “reframing” the experience • giving up a sick role • learning how to emancipate myself Recovery is hard work!! Others can’t “cure” you – but they can help (or hinder!)
Time Healing Resilience Interdependence Vivacity Emancipation
THRIVING “The concept of thriving is to go beyond mere recovery to a place of restoration. Recovery may take you back to where you were prior to becoming distressed but to thrive means so much more… A place of ; • Renewal, new optimism and joy • Broken in order to become whole again – “weller than well” having learned from the experience
Happiness & Thriving as a Journey • Turning point • Identify • Explore • Understand • Move on • Reforming your experience into a more helpful one • symptoms going or • changing cognitions and understanding, e.gvoices
“If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion” “An old day passes, a new day arrives. The important thing is to make it meaningful” Dalai Lama
“We can live without religion and meditation, but we cannot survive without human affection” Dalai Lama
Faith / Spirituality • Belief in something • Purpose • Hope • Connectedness
“We can never obtain peace in the outer world until we make peace with ourselves”
Our mission: Enriching lives and minds by focusing on strengths and recovery MHCD