Good manners

1. Good manners Warming up , listening & speaking

2. “Manners make the man.” The way you speak and the way you behave lead people to believe that you have a good education or not.

3. Good manners or not?! Picking up flowers is a bad manner.

4. Knocking at the door before entering a room is a good manner.

5. Answering questions actively in class is a good manner.

6. Jumping over the fence is a bad manner.

7. Stepping on a chair with bare foot is a bad manner.

8. Helping each other is a good manner

9. Picture 1: A teacher is giving a lesson to her students when a student comes into the classroom. Excuse me --- ____________. Can I come in? --- ____________. We’ve already started. --- ____________. I missed the bus. --- ____________. We’re on page 47. Sure I’m sorry That’s OK

10. Picture2: Two teachers are talking together about sth. A student comes to talk with them. Excuse me --- __________. May I interrupt you for a moment? --- __________, Jordan? --- __________, Mr Baker. I put my homework on your desk. What is it I’m sorry

11. Picture3: There are a boy and a girl with an umbrella in a supermarket. They are in the queue. Suddenly the girl hurts the boy with her umbrella. be careful --- Hey, ________________! --- Oh, _________________. --- That’s all right. I’m sorry

12. Picture 4: There are many people in an airport or railway station. Someone seems to get pushed by one behind him. --- Ouch! _______________________?! --- ____________________. What are you doing I’m terribly sorry

13. How to say sorry to sb: --- Forgive me. I’m sorry. --- I apologize to you for…… --- I’m sorry. I didn’t mean to ….. --- Oops. Say sorry about that. --- I’m very / terribly sorry. --- I really have to apologize to you. --- I’m really sorry about your bike/pen/book/DVD player…

14. How to response to somebody’s apology --- Oh, that’s all right. --- Oh, that’s OK. --- Oh, well, that’s life. --- It’s OK. --- No problem. --- That’s OK. Forget it. --- Never mind. --- It doesn’t matter.

15. Speaking: Situation 1: You are at a school party. Your friend tells you that the man you are going to work with tomorrow has also come to the party. You have never met the man before, but your friend does not know. You ask him to introduce you to the man. --- Can you ______________ to him, please? --- ___________, I didn’t know that you hadn’t _____ before. David,____________. --- __________,John. Nice ___________. introduce me I’m sorry met this is John Hi to meet you

16. Situation 2: Many students and teachers come to the party. You are looking for two seats to sit down with your friend, but there are none. You see two seats, but there are bags on them. You go over to ask the girl sitting beside the bags. free --- _______________. Are these seats ______? --- ___________________. My friend is sitting here. --- _________________. Excuse me I’m really sorry That’s all right

17. Situation 3: Many people are drinking at the party and there are many glasses on the table. You take the wrong one. What will you say and what will you do? --- Oh, was that your glass? --- _______. --- __________________. I took it by _________. Can I give you another one? --- _________________________, ______. Yes I’m terribly sorry mistake That sounds / would be nice thanks

18. listening

19. Listening: --- Hi, Cliff, I’m here about ________ your bike. --- So, it was you ____ ______it. --- Yeah, we’re _______, so I thought it would be OK. --- Well, ______ here. I want you to ___________. --- Oh, ________. I only _____ it to get to school because I was late. --- That’s OK. Just ask me ________,OK? --- Yes, well, there is ______________. --- What is it? --- I _____________________.It’s about your bike. --- What is it about my bike? Where is it? returning who took friends ask me first listen I’m sorry used next time a bit of problem really have to apologise

20. really very sorry — That’s the problem. I’m ________________,but ___________ while I was at school. — ______? Didn’t you ______ it? — Of course I _________. Here’s the key. But when I came back it was gone. I’m _______________. I suppose I should __________. — Oh, ______________. I ______ it wasn’t really _________, was it? — ___________, Bill. I’m _______________________. — _________. ________. It was an old bike ________. it was stolen Stolen lock locked it really very sorry pay for it guess that’s all right your fault Thanks a lot really sorry about the bike anyway That’s OK Forget it

21. Listen to the tape and answer the questions. • What are the problems that Bill and Cliff talk about ? • 1. ____________________________. 2. _____________ • 2.What does Bill say to apologize for taking the bike without telling Cliff ? • oh, _________. I only used it to get to school because I was late. • 3. What does Cliff say ? • _________. Just ask me next time , will you ? • 4. What does Bill say to apologize for losing the bike ? • I really __________________. It’s about your bike . • 5. What does Cliff say ? • Oh, _____________. I guess it wasn’t really your fault, was it ? • That’s _____. ________. It was an old bike anyway . • 6. Bill took Cliff’s bike without asking him. He also lost Cliff’s bike. He • apologize for losing it by saying ___________________________. Taking the bike without asking Losing the bike I’m sorry That’s OK have to apologize That’s all right Forget it OK I am really sorry about the bike

22. Think what are good table manners.

23. Thank you !