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John Sommers-Flanagan, Ph.D. john.sf@mso.umt johnsommersflanagan

This guide by John Sommers-Flanagan, Ph.D. provides practical steps and strategies for working effectively with students facing emotional, behavioral, and social challenges in the classroom. Learn to cultivate belonging, use rewards and consequences strategically, and employ various forms of power to influence student behavior.

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John Sommers-Flanagan, Ph.D. john.sf@mso.umt johnsommersflanagan

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  1. Working Effectively with Students with Emotional, Behavioral, and Social Challenges in the Classroom. . . In Five Easy Steps John Sommers-Flanagan, Ph.D.john.sf@mso.umt.edujohnsommersflanagan.com

  2. Intro • Let’s Get Straight on Several Things • Screwed up . . . • Support, pay, criticize, class size • If I were running for public office: Econ, Env, Just • Your SCs asked me . . . hahaha • Three days later . . . • But reality is what it is . . . and so we have • One hour

  3. Workshop Overview • Focus in on what it takes to work effectively with challenging students (and parents) • We’ll cover: • Some stories • Two big models that might help • Specific strategies and techniques • What to do when nothing is working • Caveats and excuses

  4. What We Need Today • Openness to Learning • Commitment to being Respectful

  5. And Remember • This is YOUR workshop • Your input and comments are welcome, not mandatory

  6. Step 1 – Use Your Common Wisdom • The Portland VA Hospital – 1984 • Use your personal wisdom and common relationship sense • Avoid backing people into corners • Avoid being too bossy or insulting • Avoid telling people they’re being stupid or silly • Let others be RIGHT sometimes • And do your best to NOT live by the Satanic Golden Rule

  7. Step 2 – Focus on Your Goals • Eight Warts • We must focus LIKE A LASER on our goals and amazing things can happen

  8. Children Need Great Teachers

  9. Yep: Even Angry and Defiant Teens

  10. Why Teens Misbehave • Hungry, tired, sick • Attention • Power and control • Revenge (anger) • To display inadequacy • What Two Things Do Students Need to Mitigate these Problems? • To belong • To feel useful and important

  11. Instant Reflection • What did I do to start our time together today? • How did it feel? • The whole point was to communicate to you that • I VALUE YOU . . . • YOU BELONG HERE . . . • YOU ARE VERY IMPORTANT . . .

  12. Step 3 – Work to Help Your Students Experience Belonging and Usefulness • Find your own way to start every day with a communication to your students • I VALUE YOU . . . • YOU BELONG HERE . . . • YOU ARE VERY IMPORTANT . . . • And repeat this throughout the day • With every bit of genuineness you can muster

  13. Step 4 – Avoid Backward Behavior Modification: Use Passionate Rewards and Boring Consequences • It’s natural—BUT NOT HELPFUL—to pay too much attention to undesirable behaviors • It’s natural—BUT NOT HELPFUL—to ignore desirable or positive behaviors • The Solution • Use passionate rewards and boring consequences • Bulging veins story

  14. Step 5 – Know Strategies to Influence • Direct Power • Indirect Power • Problem-Solving Power • Relationship Power

  15. Direct Power • MBI • Use Grandma’s Rule – “When you, then you” • Use Compassionate or Empathic Limit-Setting (do this calmly) • Give a choice: You can sit down or go see the principal – you choose. • Set the limit – By asking the student: “What will happen if . . .?” • Set the limit – By stating it yourself

  16. Indirect Power • Use radical validation: “Of course you’re angry. This is the kind of situation that could make anyone angry.” And show empathy or acknowledge the feelings: “This situation is clearly very upsetting to you.” • Use character feedback • Use the seven magic Choice Theory words

  17. The Seven Magic CT Words • Sometimes you need to lay down the law • But if you do that too much, or have a strong-willed student, you may elicit resistance • Try using these words: I want you . . . but it’s your choice • You can use way more than seven words • And they’re not really magic, but “I want you” is very powerful

  18. Problem-Solving Power • What do you want? • What are you doing? • How is it working? • Should you make a new plan? • You have to follow the rules, but how can we work this out? • What do you need to do to be successful today? • Encourage positive outcomes: “I think you can succeed with this.”

  19. Relationship Power • Give messages of belonging and being useful and caring • Show yourself as compassionate and committed • Create a respect bubble

  20. Step 6 – Make a Plan • Math book story • Whispering and plans (be proactive)

  21. Summary Step 1: Use your common wisdom Step 2: Focus like a laser on your goals Step 3: Work to help your students experience belonging and usefulness Step 4: Avoid backward behavior modification: use passionate rewards and boring consequences Step 5: Know strategies to influence Step 6: Make a plan

  22. Concluding Comments • And if nothing works?? • “It’s a beautiful day in the neighborhood” • What will you remember? • What strategies could you start using right away?

  23. For Free Tip Sheets and Other Cool Stuff go to: • johnsommersflanagan.com • And be sure to watch (and listen) for the Montana Parenting Podcast Project . . . Which will hit the internet in a couple weeks

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