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Inner Peace : Inner Discipline. Presented by: Meg Gustafson Michael Swett. Teacher Author Public Speaker. Barbara Coloroso. Inner Discipline. Punishment VS Discipline. Win/Win with Consequences. Bullying. Assertive Confrontation. Teacher Types. Brickwall. Jellyfish. Backbone.
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Inner Peace : Inner Discipline Presented by: Meg Gustafson Michael Swett
Teacher • Author • Public Speaker BarbaraColoroso
Inner Discipline Punishment VS Discipline Win/Win with Consequences Bullying Assertive Confrontation
Teacher Types Brickwall Jellyfish Backbone
Consequence: Result or effect of an action
Reasonable • Simple • Valuable • Practical
Consequences: Natural VS Reasonable Natural Reasonable
Punishment VS Discipline What they should have done Ownership of the problem Options for solving Leaves dignity intact • Adult orientated • Imposes power • Focuses on blame and pain
The Three R’s of Discipline • Restitution • Resolution • Reconciliation
Rules of Assertive Confrontation • Speak in a straightforward manner • State your feelings • State your belief • Give direct feedback • State what you ultimately want • Be open • Negotiate
Bullying Imbalance of power Intent to harm Threat of further aggression Terror
The Bullying Cycle • The bully • Followers/henchmen • Supporters (passive bullies) • Passive supporters (possible bullies) • Disengaged onlookers • Possible defenders • Defenders of the target
Cyber Bullying Highly confident in anonymity Removed from the immediate reaction Not accountable for their actions
Cyber Bully Lingo • HHOJ • POS • YRDM • YBS • ASL • LMIRL • F2F • Ha ha only joking • Parent over shoulder • You are dead meat • You’ll be sorry • Age/sex/location • Let’s meet in real life • Face to face
Where Could it Lead??? Worldwide Bullies
The Three P’s Policies Procedures Programs