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Why and how to be conclusive. Job of the teachers is not easy. Some of our colleagues are envy Project and experiential learning is great, but people do not know it or they do not accept it Standing on our own ideas is very difficult, if we are the only with them
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Job of the teachers is not easy... • Some of our colleagues are envy • Project and experiential learning is great, but people do not know it or they do not accept it • Standing on our own ideas is very difficult, if we are the only with them • It is difficult to simply describe the progress in our work • What to do with the nervosity? • How to argue effectively? • When is the good time to react and when it is not? • ...
Verbal communication – you should not forget... • AIM – make it clear on the begining of the speach • ORDER – put your ideas into the order, the audience will understand easier and the order will lead you • STYLE – control the lenght of your sentences. Use short ones. Eliminate useless information. • THE WORDS – be aware of using cliché and useless words – of course, in fact, generally... • TUNE – control the melody, rhytm and tune of your speach
Tips for the „verbal suicide“ • TOO CATEGORICAL - sentences of the type „that means...“, „the interpretations of this fact is only...“ – too strict • PHRASE OF THE BANCRUPCY – sentences like „I have not much to offer...“, „what I am talking about is not very important or new...“, „most of this information is not exactly for you...“ • WEAK WORDS – the constructions you want to miss the confrontation – „that could mean...“, „it could be commented as...“ (not personal ideas) • APOLOGY WORDS – maybe, I dare say, likely...
Defects in „paraverbal“ communication • monotonous – abases attention • too fast speach – declines understanding • loud breathing – acts as you are nervous • high voice – difficult to listen • weak voice – the audience must heavily listen, that makes people tired • bad articulation – declines understanding and takes away attention from the content • word „cotton“ – repeating words like „ehm“, „like“, „that“, „of course“, „in fact“ disturbs and makes the feeling the speacher´s skills are not very rich
What people dislike in your non verbal communication • - casualness, comatoses, pounding up with the fingers or legs, rolling • - big guesture • - touching your face • - too big attention on your image • - fixing your image while talking
Concious presentation • While standing, stay still. Burden both your legs equally. Do not be too straddled, might seem agressive. • Do not change your position very often. Shows your impatienty, uncertainity and nervosity. • Crossed hands looks dismissive. • While sitting on the chair, use just a half of the seat. Do not put your legs under the chair and do not round them around chair´s foots. Put your foots on the ground. • While talking to someone look into your partner´s eyes, if you talk to more people, look into eyes of most of them. Do not forget about individually seating people. • If you want to end the interview, avert your eyeview off your partner after your answer. • Attention! Do not be nervous of these suggestions. No not panic doing sometjing „forbidden“. Fast and strange changes makes your words and the whole speach doubtful.
Concious presentation • Start talking after getting to the place of speach and being calm and concentrated • Move in the conformity with the speach • Make people part of your presentation, move towards to them, if it is possible • Smile – anytime it is possible
Argumentations – the discussions topics • The short shirts are better than the longer ones • Patient should know his/her diagnosis, no matter how serious it is • Blue is better than green • People who talk the jokes about the blondes should be punished • People listening heavy metal are fools • Do not allow the ugly people walk on the streets • Double income for the teachers! • Put the computer with internet access to every household for free
Argumentations – the discussions topics • Every marriage should have the pre-marriage contract • Smoking must be forbidden in the restaurants • Restore the death punishment again • Censorship is good, free minds dangerous • Beer is healthier than wine • Let´s legalize the Class B drugs • Let´s allow polygamy • Faithlessness should be punished by imprisonment
Argumentations – the discussions topics • Apple must be eaten completed, with the core • Banana must be eaten from the top • Let´s wear only branded cloth • Being vegetarian is not healthy • Cats are better than dogs • It is more difficult for the girls • Homeless people are poor • Brunettes are smarter than blondes • Life without mobile phone is not life