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What’s Next? Renegotiating Life after Treatment Mindy Gribble RN HNB-BC WINGS Survivorship Program Coordinator Marshfield Clinic. “ Hope is like a road in the country; there wasn’t ever a road, but when many people walk on it, the road comes into existence .” - Lin Yutang. What’s next?.
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What’s Next?Renegotiating Life after TreatmentMindy Gribble RN HNB-BCWINGS Survivorship Program CoordinatorMarshfield Clinic “Hope is like a road in the country; there wasn’t ever a road, but when many people walk on it, the road comes into existence.” - Lin Yutang
What’s next? • Core values and continuity; scholar vs. expert • Survivor wisdom: why renegotiation matters • Controllable vs. not: Organizing our challenges • “Renegotiation” toolbox: research –based Options • Mindfulness: Neuroplasticity and “The Two Wolves” • Cognitive Reframing: Connection and “ The Power of Vulnerability” • Questions and discussion
Core values and continuity; scholar vs. expert • “Cancer is rock your soul experience. • To be effective health care consumers, cancer survivors must first learn to renegotiate life, • to live for the moment.” -Meg Gaines
Psychosocial Effects, Impacts and Realities cognitive familial behavioral financial spiritual logistical social educational
The Nature of Physical Stress It’s up to me which wolf I should feed.” Central and Peripheral Nervous System: • Autonomic N.S. • Parasympathetic branch • Sympathetic branch • “Autonomic Nervous System Imbalance” • Neuroplasticity Research
“The trouble with the rat race is that even if you win, you're still a rat.” - Lily Tomlin
Controllable vs. Not: Organizing our challenges • Take care of these aspects of your life. • Relationships occupy this quadrant. • The past and some of the present and future are here. • Learn from and bring acceptance and forgiveness to this quadrant. • Cost vs. benefit? • Learn to let go if cost exceeds benefit and not meaningful. • Let go of what occupies this quadrant.
“Renegotiation” tool box: research –based options • Mindfulness: neuroplasticity and “The Two Wolves” • Cognitive reframing: connection and “The Power of Vulnerability”
The story of the two wolves: Managing your thoughts, feelings and actions • “In my brain I have two wolves… • It’s up to me which wolf I should feed.” • -Cherokeewisdom
Mindfulness : Dr. Amit Sood “Mindfulness means: paying attention in a particular way; on purpose, in the present moment, and nonjudgmentally.” - Jon Kabat-Zinn
Two Brain Networks Task + Network Default Network Bush G. Neuropsychopharmacology 2010; Raichle, ME. PNAS 2001
Step 1: Savor the world with Joyful Attention Pay attention to novelty Step 1.1: Cultivate aKind AttentionAttend with CALF Compassion Acceptance Love Forgiveness
Compassion Acceptance Love Forgiveness The Bless You Exercise
The healing art of cognitive reframing: Connection and the Power of Vulnerability • Brene Brown is a research professor at the University of Houston. View at TED http://www.ted.com/
“Wholehearted” • Allow ourselves to be seen, really seen. • Love with our whole heart. • Practice gratitude and joy. • Remember always, • “I am enough.”
“Hope is like a road in the country; there wasn’t ever a road, but when many people walk on it, the road comes into existence.” - Lin Yutang
“To be effective health care consumers, cancer survivors must first learn to renegotiate life, to live for the moment.” -Meg Gaines Summary: • Core values and continuity; scholar vs. expert • Survivor wisdom: why renegotiation matters • Controllable vs. not: organizing our challenges • Renegotiation tools: research –based options • Mindfulness: Neuroplasticity and “The Two Wolves” • Feeding joyful attention and kind attention= rewiring • The healing art of cognitive reframing vulnerability • Questions and discussion: renegotiation • Relationship with self/expert commentary ?
“The best and safest thing is to keep a balance in your life, acknowledge the great powers around us and in us. If you can do that, and live that way, you are truly wise.” - Euripides (484 BC - 406 BC)
References • Distress Management. (2010, April). The Journal of the National Comprehensive Cancer Network. 8 (4). Retrieved from http://www.nccn.org/JNCCN/toc/2010april.asp#distress • Cella, D., Mahon, S., Donovan, M. (1990). Cancer Recurrence as a Traumatic Event, Behavioral Medicine, 16, 15-22. • National Cancer Institute. (2011). Post-traumatic Stress Disorder. Retrieved July 25, 2011, from http://www.cancer.gov/cancertopics/pdq/supportivecare/post-traumatic-stress/HealthProfessional/page1
Kabat-Zinn, J. (2005). Wherever you go, there you are: mindfulness meditation for everyday life. New York: Hyperion. • Hanh, T. N. (1993). Love in action: writings on nonviolent social change. Berkeley, CA: Parallax Press. • Sood, A. (2010). Train you brain, engage your heart, transform you life. Rochester, MN: Morning Dew Publications.