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CORE QUALITIES Rob Bakx InfoMil – Twinning Advisor. CORE QUALITIES. Core qualities Pitfalls Challenge s Allergies. CORE QUALITIES. Too much of a good thing. Pitfall. Core quality. Positive opposite. Positive opposite. Allergy. Challenge. Too much of a good thing.
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CORE QUALITIES • Core qualities • Pitfalls • Challenges • Allergies
CORE QUALITIES Too much of a good thing Pitfall Core quality Positive opposite Positive opposite Allergy Challenge Too much of a good thing
CORE QUALITIES • Someone’s strong points, characteristics • Always potentially present • Qualities come from inside, skills from outside • Identify on basis of self-knowledge • Light and dark side
PITFALLS • Distortion: over-developed core quality • Too much of a good thing • Behind distortions are core qualities
WHICH ARE YOUR CORE QUALITIES? • Others say: “Don’t be such a …..” or “Don’t • be so …….” • Of which positive quality is this an excess • Spotting core qualities easifies seeing through • unpleasant behavior • Separate person and behavior
CORE QUALITIES Core quality Pitfall Too much of a good thing Inconsistency Flexibility - + Positive opposite Positive opposite - + Rigidity Orderliness Too much of a good thing Allergy Challenge
CHALLENGES (1) • Positive quality diametrically opposite to the • pitfall • Core quality and challenge arecomplementary • qualities • Balance by ‘and-and’, not ‘either-or’
CHALLENGES (2) • Conflicts, irritation, mutual tension come from own • and others core qualities and pitfalls • To prevent your pitfall, develop your challenge
ALLERGIES • Allergic to an excess of your own challenge • The more confrontation with allergy, the more • chance you fall into your pitfall • Allergy makes people vulnerable, not their pitfall • Resembling characters respect each other, • contrasting ones look down on each other • Looking down makes you vulnarable, you may fall • into your pitfall
WHO AM I ? • Write down 2 types of behavior you are allergic for • Write down 2 things that people regularly tell you • not to do • Which would you consider 2 of your core qualities?
MY CORE QUALITY Core quality Pitfall Too much of a good thing - + Positive opposite Positive opposite - + Too much of a good thing Allergy Challenge