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Body Language. Charles Darwin 1873 “ The expression of the emotions in man and animals”. Desmond Morris 1967 “ The naked ape”. Lie detectors monitor pitch, pauses and pace in speech. Thin slices of behaviour – student/teacher assessments. The shorter the time
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Body Language Charles Darwin 1873 “ The expression of the emotions in man and animals” Desmond Morris 1967 “ The naked ape” Lie detectors monitor pitch, pauses and pace in speech Thin slices of behaviour – student/teacher assessments. The shorter the time the better the assessment – 6 second silent video clip Clothes affect both wearer and observer – get the shoes
CICERO I turn pale at the outset of a speech and quake in every limb and in all my soul Why? The fight or flight response!
WHAT HAPPENS WITH FIGHT OR FLIGHT?
A PALE COMPLEXION • SWEATING • DRYNESS • DIZZINESS • LOSS OF CONCENTRATION
We leak emotions Blushing Sweating Changes in breathing Pupil Dilation Verbal vocal and visual cues – incongruence Best taken together and when the reader is not taking part in the interaction – an observer in a negotiation
Our body language can deceive us Shaky Bridge Dilated Pupils
Embodied Cognition Movement affects the way you feel, look and sound.
OUT BREATH - ORANGE IN BREATH - APPLE
PASSION SPEAKING FROM THE HEART I LOVE YOU
SMILE EYES ARE THE MESSENGERS OF THE SOUL
Be accepting of everything to raise other people’s status Hands at waist height Gentle smile Head slightly tilted
Body Language = Emotional Intelligence > IQ Reading other people’s body language Controlling your own body language Influencing other people’s emotions Winning body language – Mark Bowden