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Knowing what to expect from each age group will make it easier to handle the changes in your family. Here are some suggestions that may help ease your older child into being a big brother or big sister.
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Prepare Your Older Children For A New Baby
Anewbabybrings joysandchallenges toafamily. Youmayalsobe nervousabouthow yourolderchildren willreacttothe newborn.
Childrenofdifferent ageswillreact differentlytoanew baby.
Complication Childrenofthisagewillnot understandmuchabout whatitmeanstohavea newbrotherorsister.You havetotellyourkidabout “newborn-baby”
Solution Lookatpicture booksabouta newbaby
Solution Lookatpicture booksabouta newbaby Whenthenewbabyarrives, trytodosomethingspecial foryourolderchild
Solution Lookatpicture booksabouta newbaby Whenthenewbabyarrives, trytodosomethingspecial foryourolderchild Makemajorchangesinyour child'sroutineverycarefully
Solution Setasidespecial timeforyour olderchild Lookatpicture booksabouta newbaby Whenthenewbabyarrives, trytodosomethingspecial foryourolderchild Makemajorchangesinyour child'sroutineverycarefully
Complication Atthisage,yourchildisstillvery attachedtoparentsanddoes notyetunderstandhowtoshare youwithothers.Yourkidmight alsobeexceptionallydelicateto changesandmayfeel compromisedbythe possibilityofanewfamily member.
Solution Involveyourolder babywhen preparingyour homeforthenew baby
Solution Involveyourolder babywhen preparingyour homeforthenew baby Prepareyourchildbeforeyou gotothehospitalfordelivery
Solution Involveyourolder babywhen preparingyour homeforthenew baby Askfamilyandfriendsto spendalittletimewith yourolderchild Prepareyourchildbeforeyou gotothehospitalfordelivery
Solution Haveyourolder childspendtime withdad Involveyourolder babywhen preparingyour homeforthenew baby Askfamilyandfriendsto spendalittletimewith yourolderchild Prepareyourchildbeforeyou gotothehospitalfordelivery
Complication Childrenolderthan5years areusuallynotasthreatened byanewbabyasyounger childrenare.
Solution Tellyourchildwhat ishappeningin languageshe/he canunderstand
Solution Tellyourchildwhat ishappeningin languageshe/he canunderstand Haveyourolderchildhelp getthingsreadyforthenew baby
Solution Tellyourchildwhat ishappeningin languageshe/he canunderstand Haveyourolderchildhelp getthingsreadyforthenew baby Makeyourolderchildfeel thatshe/hehasaroleto playincaringforthebaby.
Solution Donotoverlook yourolderchild's needsand activities Tellyourchildwhat ishappeningin languageshe/he canunderstand Haveyourolderchildhelp getthingsreadyforthenew baby Makeyourolderchildfeel thatshe/hehasaroleto playincaringforthebaby
Makeanefforttospend sometimealonewith her/himeveryday; usethatasachanceto remindher/himhow specialshe/heis.