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ICC marriage

ICC marriage. Who? nontraditionals (little “ingroup” importance) romantics compensators (look for what was lacking): “I must have been Maroccan in another life”- love culture before loving a partner) Rebels Internationals Others. Phases. Honeymoon- novelty

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ICC marriage

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  1. ICC marriage • Who? • nontraditionals (little “ingroup” importance) • romantics • compensators (look for what was lacking): “I must have been Maroccan in another life”- love culture before loving a partner) • Rebels • Internationals • Others

  2. Phases • Honeymoon- novelty • setting-in-phase- cultural differences- reality! • Imamura, A “Husband-Wife Role Misunderstanding: The Case of International Marriage” International Journal of Sociology of the Family (1986) • life pattern phase • solve • ignore • put up with

  3. List of troubles • values • food and drink (where, what, how much) • sex • male/female roles - agreement about the roles • time (informal time system; future, present, past-oriented c.) • place of residence • politics • friends

  4. forts. • finances • in-laws • social class • religion • raising children • the expatriate spouse • stress/conflict • coping with death and divorce

  5. Kultur i kontaktannonser på InternetEller VEM SÖKER VI?

  6. Att söka sin partner på Internet • Olika databaser: • t.ex: • http://www.match.com • http://www.lovecity.com • http://kontakt.passagen.se • http://www.spraydate.se • http://www.cupidjunction.com

  7. Vilka är vi och vem vill vi ha? • Kontaktannonser av kvinnor och män (20-35 år gamla) från följande länder: • Sverige (40 kv/40 m) • Ukraina (40 kv/40 m) • Kamerun (40 kv/40 m) • Singapore (40 kv/40 m)

  8. Svenska kvinnor i egna beskrivningar:Vilka är de? • Aktiva! • I like to travel, listening to music, hang out with my friends, go out to party... Kerstin, 31 • Sportiga! • I like to do different sports such as horsebackriding, skating, skiing, sailing, swimming, aerobics, hiking, playing vollyball and so on… • Linnea, 32

  9. Forts. Svenska kvinnor i egna beskrivningar • Nyfikna! • … to explore new things and new people • Linnea, 34 • Resesugna+tycker om musiga hemmakvällar! • I like travel and I love cosy home evenings with good food … Tina, 30 • Självständiga!

  10. Samt! • Tycker om natur • love the nature and what it can give, winter or summer, spring or fall. I am a social person and likes everything that can give a great day. Pia, 33 • Ärliga • Snälla • Glada • Positiva!

  11. Svenska kvinnors drömpartner:Kriterium 1 • En man som älskar sport!!! • A nice guy who’s into sports… • Sarah, 31

  12. Svenska kvinnors drömpartner:Kriterium 2 • HUMOR!!! • Someone who can make me laugh • Mia, 23

  13. Svenska kvinnors drömpartner:Kriterium 3 • Som har båda fötterna på jorden: • …Who has his feet on the ground • Jess, 28

  14. Svenska kvinnors drömpartner:Kriterium 4 • Modiga? :-) • A man who can handle an independent woman • Anna, 31

  15. Svenska män i sina egna beskrivningar:Vilka är de? • Aktiva och sportiga! • I am a man who prefer an active lifestyle both in free time and holidays. • Hendrik, 35 • Natursugna! • I like to relax and have a good time and be outside in the nature • Leif, 35

  16. Forts. svenska män i sina egna beskrivningar:Vilka är de? • Resesugna! Och söker resekamrater: • I seek a girl that loke to have fun and loves to travel… Im looking for someone that is willing to travel with me • Jonas, 32

  17. Svenska mäns drömpartner:Kriterium 1 • Aktiva kvinnor! SPORT! • She like to have a good time and have an active lifestyle • L 35 • If you also have an active life like me … • nalle 27 • …like to do a lot of workout • mr_zestr_28 • Who …is not totally against sport and outdor activities… bek_31

  18. Svenska mäns drömpartner:Kriterium 2 • Självsäkra kvinnor med båda fötterna på jorden, ambitiösa: • who knows what she wants and gets it lars28 • strong, believs in her self… • Hass1731 • , 31 • A girl who likes herself... • mike_32 • She has a strong confidence…. • magnus_30

  19. Svenska mäns drömpartner:Kriterium 3 • Humor! • Like to have a good laugh… • Lanni_24 • Woman with a lot of humor! • Jacob 31

  20. kvinnor och män i Sverige

  21. UKRAINA

  22. Ukrainska kvinnor i sina egna beskrivningar:Vilka är de? • Romantiska • Where are you, my one and only prince? • Nadya, 27 • I long for simple loving relations, for sitting together and watching a sunset, hanging around and holding hands of each other • Inna, 27

  23. Forts. Ukrainska kvinnor: Vilka är de? • Hängivna till sina partner • I am willing to give everything from my side to him • Irina, 25 • My heart is searching for that special person and full of unspent love and tenderness, which I am ready to give away to my second part • Olesya, 25

  24. Forts. Ukrainska kvinnor:Vilka är de? • Respekterar sin partner: • Marriage for me is a mutual work of two people. I suppose the man should be the head of the family. And the woman duty is to respect his opinion even if it differs • Masha,26

  25. Forts. Ukrainska kvinnor: vilka är de? • Giftemål- och familjinriktade • I like to cook, to make coziness • Nadia, 27

  26. Ukrainska kvinnors drömpartner: Kriterium 1+2 • En make, mannen för livet, att bilda familj • …And spend our life together • Lena, 25 • OCHhan som skulle vilja ha barn och som tycker om barn! • ..who will love and pamper his children • Helen, 30 • I would like to meet a man, who loves children and does want to have a friendly familySasha 26

  27. Forts.Ukrainska kvinnors drömpartner: Kriterium 3 • Målmedveten och ambitiös: • He must clearly know what he wants from life and achieve his goals • Larisa 27

  28. Forts.Ukrainska kvinnors drömpartner: Kriterium 4 Stöd i livet: A real man with strong character and fond heart Olga, 27 Who can provide a srong shoulder for me to lean upon when days seem challenging as they do from time to time in our lives Lusya, 27

  29. Ukrainska kvinnors drömpartner: Kriterium 5 • Äldre män prioriteras: • I am attracted to older, reliable and more exprienced men with more self-confidence • Elena 30 • I am looking for a somewhat older man (within 20 years of my age) • Anna, 28

  30. Ukrainska kvinnors drömpartner: Kriterium 6 • Med bra ekonomi! • a ”well-to-do” man sökes! • He... must be financially secure • Sonya, 24

  31. Ukrainska män i egna beskrivningar: vilka är de? • NO SMOKING /DRINKING! • do not smoke, drink socially and like socializing and meeting new people as well as learning new things. • Igor 21 • My life position is health and sport(not for smocking and drinking.) I'm fond of hand-to-hand fighting, swimming and tennis. • Vladimir 27

  32. Forts. Ukrainska män: vilka är de? • Bara bra killar! • I'am rather a good boy, really good boy!!! • Sergej 27 • GOOD GOOD BOY The cheerful Cheerful Optimist the handsome Man the man!!! • Viktor 29

  33. Forts.Ukrainska män: vilka är de? • Tycker om barn och familj: • Very much I like to communicate with different interesting people to look for children and to be engaged with them… • Slava 25

  34. Ukrainska mäns drömpartner:Kriterium 1 • Bara en bra människa / tjej! • That the person was good this main thing :-) • Oleg 28 • GOOD GOOD GIRLE • Sasha 30 • It's me. I'm looking for girl, fine girl, maybe that's all • Pavel 20

  35. Ukrainska mäns drömpartner:Kriterium 2 • Som är snäll och tycker om barn: • The girl at which kind heart which very much loves children, has sociable, friendly character, can be understanding friend • Slava 25 • Clever and kind women which would like to have real family • Igor 34

  36. Ukrainska mäns drömpartner:Kriterium 3 • Som kan skapa ”hem”: • Attractive, merry, knowing how to create a heat and comfort in house. • Sergij 27

  37. Ukrainska mäns drömpartner:Kriterium 4 • Seriös och ansvarsfull, klok • I want to meet the girl for serious attitudes. Purposeful and reliable • Andrij 32 • … Reliable, ready to share your life with me. • Sviatoslav, 29

  38. Ukrainska mäns drömpartner:Kriterium ? • Inga! • My Ideal Partner...It's you :) • Zak 30

  39. Ukrainska kvinnors och mäns drömpartner

  40. Kamerun

  41. Kamerunska kvinnor i sina egna beskrivningar: Vilka är de? • Känslosamma och snälla: • I am a young, sensible, attractive, caressing an caring lady… • M, 21 • Sincere person, kind, sensible, caressing, loving Claudi 29 • Religiösa: • born a gain in Christ Jesus, attentive understanding intelligent humorous • Ngeh, 24

  42. Kamerunska kvinnors drömpartner:Kriterium1 • Religiös: • Christian and really God fearing • Gloria 22

  43. Kamerunska kvinnors drömpartner:Kriterium 2 • Ärlig! • Do not even think, of replying to this, if you are short of honesty • Lia 26 • …this person must be a honest person • Mary 24

  44. Kamerunska kvinnors drömpartner:Kriterium 3 • Seriös och direkt: • I am a serious and stright forward girl and looking for a serious guy who is also serious • Stella 23

  45. Kamerunska kvinnors drömpartner:Kriterium 4 • Sexig! • charmy,…humble and hot in love • lui 24

  46. Kamerunska män i sina egna beskrivningar: Vilka är de? • Religiös: • goes to church…. • Enoh, 24 • Social: • I am a guy who likes dating and chatting with friends around the world… • Danny 30 • Sexig !!!: Sexy, cool and educated… F, 27

  47. Kamerunska mäns drömpartner:Kriterium 1 • Religiös: • He who finds a soul mate, (WIFE) finds a good thing and obtains favour in God” • F, 22

  48. Kamerunska mäns drömpartner:Kriterium 2 • Ärlig! • A solid woman in her convinctions and honest and natural person… • ciagant 30

  49. Kamerunska män och kvinnor

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