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Are You a Peach or a Coconut?. Joshua Yardley, MA – English Language Fellow . C4. Are you…. …peach…. …or a coconut?. similarities. peaches. coconuts. Sweet Grow on trees Husks look like hair Excellent if your thirsty. Sweet Grow on trees Covered in fuzz Great if your thirsty.
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Are You a Peach or a Coconut? Joshua Yardley, MA – English Language Fellow C4
Are you… …peach… …or a coconut?
similarities peaches coconuts Sweet Grow on trees Husks look like hair Excellent if your thirsty • Sweet • Grow on trees • Covered in fuzz • Great if your thirsty
differences peaches coconuts Hard Better for cakes The largest seed in the world • Soft • Good for pie • Smaller than coconuts
What’s inside? peaches coconuts
Consider this scenario. • Abang Bryan is traveling for the first time in Indonesia. • The Indonesian man next to him on the plane strikes up a conversation.
Consider this scenario. • The man asks him, “Where are you going?” • Then he asks, “Are you married?” • Then he asks, “Have you eaten?” • Then he asks, “What religion are you?” • Then he asks, “What is your blood type?” • Then he asks, “Have you taken a bath?” (Sudahmandi?)
Consider this scenario. • After they land, the man offers Bang Bryan a ride to his hotel. • Bryan says he has a friend who will pick him up. • Bryan waits until the man has left the airport. • Then he takes a taxi to the hotel.
Speculation • Why did Mas Bryan pay for a taxi? • Why didn’t he accept the free ride?
Public and Private Spheres Public life Private life
When peaches and coconuts interact religion
Are Indonesians peaches? • Communal society • Interests of the family/group are more important • Shared ownership, including information
In my experience • Staring • Neighbors keep track of who visits my house • Guests are required to report to KepalaDesa • Looking over my shoulder to see my laptop • Mystery callers • Neighbors enter my house without knocking • Tapping on my bedroom window
Be careful to avoid generalizations. AllIndonesians? AllAmericans?
Where are you going? • 5: I’m an open book • 4: Brief hesitation • 3: You first • 2: Who’s asking? • 1: My lips are sealed
What’s you blood type? • 5: I’m an open book • 4: Brief hesitation • 3: You first • 2: Who’s asking? • 1: My lips are sealed
When did you lose your virginity? • 5: I’m an open book • 4: Brief hesitation • 3: You first • 2: Who’s asking? • 1: My lips are sealed
Are you happy in your relationship? • 5: I’m an open book • 4: Brief hesitation • 3: You first • 2: Who’s asking? • 1: My lips are sealed
How much money do you make? • 5: I’m an open book • 4: Brief hesitation • 3: You first • 2: Who’s asking? • 1: My lips are sealed
What do your parents do for a living? • 5: I’m an open book • 4: Brief hesitation • 3: You first • 2: Who’s asking? • 1: My lips are sealed
What religion are you? • 5: I’m an open book • 4: Brief hesitation • 3: You first • 2: Who’s asking? • 1: My lips are sealed
How often do you pray? • 5: I’m an open book • 4: Brief hesitation • 3: You first • 2: Who’s asking? • 1: My lips are sealed
What brand are those pants? • 5: I’m an open book • 4: Brief hesitation • 3: You first • 2: Who’s asking? • 1: My lips are sealed
How much do you weigh? • 5: I’m an open book • 4: Brief hesitation • 3: You first • 2: Who’s asking? • 1: My lips are sealed
How old are you? • 5: I’m an open book • 4: Brief hesitation • 3: You first • 2: Who’s asking? • 1: My lips are sealed
What’s your BBM, Twitter or Facebook? • 5: I’m an open book • 4: Brief hesitation • 3: You first • 2: Who’s asking? • 1: My lips are sealed
Are you menstruating? • 5: I’m an open book • 4: Brief hesitation • 3: You first • 2: Who’s asking? • 1: My lips are sealed
What are your parents’ ethnic background? • 5: I’m an open book • 4: Brief hesitation • 3: You first • 2: Who’s asking? • 1: My lips are sealed
What’s your total? 43-70 14--42
What to say to nosy people • “Why do you want to know?” • “What difference does it make?” • “That’s none of your business.” • “It doesn’t concern you.” • “It’s not important.” • “That’s personal.” • “I don’t kiss and tell.”
A small note for teachers. • Should teachers tell students personal info? • We want our students to share their lives. • We may have to meet them halfway.