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Social Relations. How do we relate to others?. Attraction. Conflict and Prejudice. Altruism and Peacemaking. Aggression. Prejudice. An unjustifiable attitude towards a group of people. Usually involves stereotyped beliefs (a generalized belief about a group of people). Overt. Subtle.
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Social Relations How do we relate to others? Attraction Conflict and Prejudice Altruism and Peacemaking Aggression
Prejudice • An unjustifiable attitude towards a group of people. • Usually involves stereotyped beliefs (a generalized belief about a group of people). Overt Subtle
Is it just race? NO • Palestinians and Jews • Towners and Lakers • Men and Women But women have some things going for them like……
Which person would you want to have a long term relationship with?
Social Inequalities(A principle reason behind prejudice) • Ingroup: “us”- people with whom one shares a common identity. • Outgroup: “them”- those perceived as different than one’s ingroup. • Ingroup bias: the tendency to favor one’s own group.
Scapegoat Theory • The theory that prejudice provides an outlet for anger by providing someone to blame.
Why is their prejudice? • Categorization • Vivid Cases (Availability Heuristic) • The Just-World Phenomenon
Aggression • Any physical or verbal behavior intended to hurt or destroy. • In the U.S. we are MUCH more likely to be murdered compared to most other developed nations.
The Biology of Aggression • Genetics • Neural Influences (is aggression in the brain) • Biochemical
The Psychology of Aggression Frustration-Aggressive Principle: • the blocking of an attempt to achieve some goal • Creates anger which generates aggression. • Goals can be: • Sports or work • Relationship • Body Condition etc…
Can we learn to be aggressive or gentle? They can be learned but…. Once learned they are difficult to change.
Aggression and TV = Watches • By the time you are 18, you spend more time in front of TV than in school • 2/3 of all homes have 3 or more sets average 51 hours a week. • By the time a child finishes elementary school they have witnessed 8000 murders and 100,000 other acts of violence on TV • Over half of all deaths do NOT show the victim's pain • As TV watching has grown exponentially, as does violent behavior- a strong positive correlation. • How do you think TV has effected sexual aggression?
Conflict • A perceived incompatibility of actions, goals or ideas. • Social trap or prisoner's dilemma.
Attraction 5 Factors of Attraction….
Proximity • Geographic nearness Mere exposure effect: • Repeated exposure to something breeds liking. • Taiwanese Letters • Mirror image concept
Reciprocal Liking • You are more likely to like someone who likes you. • Why? • Except in elementary school!!!!
Similarity • Paula Abdul was wrong- opposites do NOT attract. • Birds of the same feather do flock together. • Similarity breeds content.
Liking through Association • Classical Conditioning can play a pert in attraction. • I love Theo’s Wings. If I see the same waitress every time I go there, I may begin to associate that waitress with the good feelings I get from Theo's.
The Hotty Factor • Physically attractiveness predicts dating frequency (they date more). • They are perceived as healthier, happier, more honest and successful than less attractive counterparts.
What is beauty? • Some people say beauty is facial symmetry.
LOVE • Passionate Love: an aroused state of INTENSE positive absorption of another. • Compassionate Love: the deep affectionate attachment we feel for those with whom our lives are intertwined.
What makes compassionate love work? • Equity • Self-disclosure
Altruism • Unselfish regard for the welfare of others. • Kitty Genovese case. • Bystander Effect (bystanders less willing to help if there are other bystanders around).
Social Exchange Theory • The idea that our social behavior is an exchange process, which we maximize benefits and minimize costs.
Peacemaking • Give people superordinate (shared) goals that can only be achieved through cooperation. • Win Win situations through mediation. • GRIT (Graduated and Reciprocated Initiatives in Tension Reduction).