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Coping With Elder Caregiving. A Carebridge Seminar. Coping with Elder Caregiving. Introduction What is Caregiving? What Should Caregivers Know About Stress? Symptoms and Causes of Caregiver’s Stress Strategies for Stress Management What Resources are Available? Questions / Discussion.
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Coping With Elder Caregiving A Carebridge Seminar
Coping with Elder Caregiving • Introduction • What is Caregiving? • What Should Caregivers Know About Stress? • Symptoms and Causes of Caregiver’s Stress • Strategies for Stress Management • What Resources are Available? • Questions / Discussion
A Caregiver . . . • May be a spouse, son, daughter, neighbor, close friend, or distant relative • Provides care out of love, a sense of obligation, or both
A Caregiver . . . Is a person who is concerned about providing physical, emotional, or financial assistance to an older person
A Caregiver . . . • Makes concessions and personal sacrifices to provide care for another person • May have competing responsibilities for children, spouse, and job
A Caregiver . . . • Often interrupts or postpones personal goals because of caregiving responsibilities • May experience a wide range of emotions and feelings regarding the caregiving situation
What is Stress? • A reaction to a situation that requires a person to respond or adjust
What is Stress? • The release of cortisol – “stress hormone” • A physical reaction – blood pressure rises, heart rate increases • A signal to the body to be “on alert’
What is Stress? • Some stress is beneficial • Prolonged stress can impact on health
Emotional or physical exhaustion Physical problems Sleep disturbances Appetite changes Marital/family problems Conflict among life roles: spouse, employee, parent, caregiver Alcohol or drug misuse Depression Neglect or abuse of older person Symptoms of Prolonged Stress
Avoidance Helplessness Resistance Reactions to Stress Unhealthy Reactions
Rigidity Depression Anxiety Immobility Reactions to Stress Unhealthy Reactions
Flexibility Taking Action Surviving Reactions to Stress Healthy Reactions
Viewing as a challenge Acceptance Reactions to Stress Healthy Reactions • Adaptability • Resourcefulness
Strategies for Preventing Caregiver Burnout • Identify your sources of stress • Set realistic goals and expectations • Establish your limits • Ask for and accept help • Take care of yourself • Involve other people
STRATEGY 1: Identify Your Sources of Stress • Know which stresses you can do something about and which ones are beyond your control • Change your reaction to things beyond your control
STRATEGY 2: Set Realistic Goals and Expectations • Know your individual situation • Try to balance what you think you “should” do to what you can realistically do
STRATEGY 2: Set Realistic Goals and Expectations • Try to be objective when you assess your situation rather then be influenced by your emotions • Set short-term goals that are specific and can be achieved
STRATEGY 3: Establish Your Limits • Learn how to say “no” • Communicate to family members and your ill relative about what your limits are
STRATEGY 4: Ask For and Accept Help • Reach out for assistance, this is a sign of strength • Be specific about your needs • Be positive and flexible
STRATEGY 5: Take Care of Yourself • Express your feelings • Maintain your health • Take time for yourself • Learn stress-coping mechanisms
STRATEGY 6: Involve Other People • Hold a family conference • Involve professional help, if needed • Utilize community resources
Senior Centers Transportation Services Home Health Aides Home-Delivered Meals Personal Emergency Response Systems Adult Day Care Centers Assisted Living Facilities Nursing Homes STRATEGY 6: Involve Other People Community Resources
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