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Get fueled up with Men’s Life . Breakfast @Men’s Life Men’s Life Tuesdays 5:45 AM - 6:15 AM Fellowship Hall. Welcome to. Making the Break with Mom Week 6. Mothers and Sons Further Clarification
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Get fueled up with Men’s Life Breakfast @Men’s Life Men’s Life Tuesdays 5:45 AM - 6:15 AM Fellowship Hall
Making the Break with Mom Week 6 • Mothers and Sons • Further Clarification Definition: An unhealthy emotional intimacy with mother, not purposefully inflicted that stunts or inhibits a healthy masculine identity for a son
Two significant breaks between mother and son • Physical bondedness and postpartum blues • Emotional bondedness and post-power blues • Jesus and His mom • Luke 2:43-50
John 2:1-4 • Matthew 12:46-50 • John 19:23-27 • Two Wrong Responses to the Wound • Passive • Overly dominant
Suggestions for Healing the Wound Need a new design – a form of manly leadership that is neither dominant nor abusive, but noble to men and endearing to women • Begin with a clear understanding of who you are accountable to • Begin to use the sword of the Spirit • Get encouragement and support from other men
If married and you’ve decided this is an issue, tell your wife YOU will take responsibility for addressing it • Ask for your wife’s support in prayer – not her involvement • Ask, “What is God calling me to be at home?”
Questions For Your Small Group • What insights have you gained about yourself and/or others in this discussion of the mother wound? Explain • Do you suffer from this wound? What steps from this session could you employ to begin to address it right now? • How could the other men in the group be of help to you?