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Just a Cup of Coffee

Just a Cup of Coffee. Just a Cup of Coffee?. Women who regularly drink coffee -- the fully caffeinated kind -- have a 20 percent lower risk of depression than non-coffee drinkers . . Just a Cup of Coffee?.

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Just a Cup of Coffee

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  1. Just a Cup of Coffee LWML HOPE Committee - 2012

  2. Just a Cup of Coffee? • Women who regularly drink coffee -- the fully caffeinated kind -- have a 20 percent lower risk of depression than non-coffee drinkers.

  3. Just a Cup of Coffee? • Up to 25 percent of all women will experience depression at some point, usually between the ages of 25-44.

  4. Just a Cup of Coffee? • Americans have fewer friends than they had two decades ago. The number of people who reported having no one to discuss matters with has nearly doubled to 25%.

  5. Just a Cup of Coffee! • Make a list of women from your congregation that you would like to get to know better.

  6. Who to Leave on or Add to Your List • Women who have joined your church in the past three months; • Inactive members of your congregation or LWML;

  7. Who to Leave on or Add to Your List Women who may be struggling with a life change; Women with young children; Older women who may enjoy an outing;

  8. Who to Leave on or Add to Your List • Women whose interests are different than yours; • Women of other cultures; • Your pastor’s wife.

  9. The key is to make a list of people that you would like to get to know better, NOT women with whom you are already comfortable.STEP OUT IN FAITH!

  10. Time to Practice • Find a partner. • Introduce yourself. • Practice asking a new friend to coffee.

  11. Choose a date, time, and place for your cup of coffee!

  12. It is more likely about timing than about “liking” you. • Nothing ventured, nothing gained. What If “No” is the Answer?

  13. Move on to the next person. That is why you have a list.

  14. The First Cup • Ask questions. • Listen actively. Restate and relate. • Ask if she has any prayer concerns. • Thank her for finding time to get to know you. • Find commonality and schedule more time together …

  15. … in other words,make another coffee date!

  16. Time to Practice • Talk about the weather. • Ask questions about family and interests. • Ask about church.

  17. Time to Practice • Talk about last Sunday’s sermon. • Offer to pray for her and her needs. • Plan another cup together.

  18. You are the light of the world. A town can’t be hidden when it’s built on a hill… And you don’t light a lamp and put it under a bucket but on alamp stand, where it gives light to everyone in the house… So let your light shine before people that they may see the good you do and praise your Father in Heaven. (Matthew 5:14-16 Beck) Talk About Jesus at Coffee

  19. Greet your sister in Christ warmly. • Recall and ask how it is going. • Plan to “do something” together. • Find ways to insert your faith into the conversation. Practice Another Cup of Coffee

  20. Follow Up and Be a Friend • Call, email, or text her occasionally “just to check-in.” • Send a card or note.

  21. How This Promotes LWML • When we leave our comfort zone and step out in faith, we meet new people who need to be encouraged and served. • God knows what each of you needs, and He will give the benefit.

  22. Once trust is built, the chance to share how wonderful your LWML experience has been will emerge. • Be patient. Building trust takes time.

  23. The LWML is a sisterhood. We need to focus on relationships instead of memberships. • Be a friend.

  24. Remember the LWML Mission Statement: The mission of the Lutheran Women's Missionary League is to assist each woman of The Lutheran Church—Missouri Synod in affirming her relationship with the Triune God so that she is enabled to use her gifts in ministry to the people of the world.

  25. Just a Cup of Coffee LWML HOPE Committee - 2012

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