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WORKING TOGETHER TO ACCOMPLISH OUR GOALS AND BETTER SERVE OUR CUSTOMERS. Dr. Alan Zimmerman, CSP, CPAE Speaker Hall of Fame. TODAY’S OUTLINE. Strategy #1: Follow the rules Strategy #2: Speak their language. TODAY’S OUTLINE. Strategy #1: Follow the rules. THE COOPERATION PRINCIPLE.
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WORKING TOGETHERTO ACCOMPLISH OUR GOALSANDBETTER SERVE OUR CUSTOMERS Dr. Alan Zimmerman, CSP, CPAE Speaker Hall of Fame
TODAY’S OUTLINE Strategy #1: Follow the rules Strategy #2: Speak their language
TODAY’S OUTLINE Strategy #1: Follow the rules
THE COOPERATION PRINCIPLE "To the degree that you give others what they need, they will give you what you need."
2a. Must know what they need. * Know their respect frames.
PERSON “A” PERSON “B” RESPECT FRAMES
2a. Must know what they need. * Know their respect frames. 2b. Then give what they need.
FIVE REASONS PEOPLE DON'T COOPERATE • Don’t know the rules • Don’t like the rules • Don’t trust the players • Don’t care about the game • Don’t see any rewards
TODAY’S OUTLINE Strategy #1: Follow the rules Strategy #2: Speak their language
CHURCH ANNOUNCEMENTS • This afternoon there will be a meeting in the south and north ends of the church. Children will be baptized at both ends.
CHURCH ANNOUNCEMENTS • This being Easter Sunday, we will ask Mrs. Johnson to come forward and lay an egg on the altar.
CHURCH ANNOUNCEMENTS • Tonight’s sermon: “What is hell?” Come early and listen to our choir practice.
CHURCH ANNOUNCEMENTS • Thursday at 5 p.m. there will be a meeting of the Little Mothers Club. All wishing to become Little Mothers will please meet the pastor in his study.
CHURCH ANNOUNCEMENTS • The Low Self-Esteem Group will meet Thursday at 7 p.m. Please use the back door.
CHURCH ANNOUNCEMENTS • Don’t let worry kill you—let the church help.
CHURCH ANNOUNCEMENTS • The sermon this morning: “Jesus Walks on Water.” The sermon tonight: “Searching For Jesus.”
CHURCH ANNOUNCEMENTS • Weight Watchers will meet at 7 p.m. at the First Presbyterian Church. Please, use the large double doors at the side entrance.
CHURCH ANNOUNCEMENTS • The Associate Minister unveiled the church’s new giving campaign slogan last Sunday: ”I Upped My Pledge—Up Yours!”
5 WORK LANGUAGES Respect Belonging Communication Fun Tangibles
RESPECT LANGUAGE Keeping promises
BELONGING LANGUAGE Showing genuine interest
COMMUNICATION LANGUAGE • Keeping the other person informed 8. Full appreciation for work done 9. Feeling “in” on things, being informed 10. Help/coaching when needed
FUN LANGUAGE Demonstrate cheerfulness/playfulness
TANGIBLE LANGUAGE Providing unexpected acts of service
RINGS OF SERVICE Dream Extra Expected Basic
RINGS OF SERVICE Dream Extra Expected Basic
TODAY’S OUTLINE Strategy #1: Follow the rules Strategy #2: Speak their language
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