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FRIENDSHIPS. MEN & WOMEN SIMILARITIES & DIFFERENCES. Themes in Women’s Friendships. Women’s Friendships are typically centered on conversation. Talk is action, not a replacement for action Women friends cultivate interpersonal intimacy through dialogue.
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FRIENDSHIPS MEN & WOMEN SIMILARITIES & DIFFERENCES
Themes in Women’s Friendships • Women’s Friendships are typically centered on conversation. • Talk is action, not a replacement for action • Women friends cultivate interpersonal intimacy through dialogue
Women’s friendships serve therapeutic functions Women’s friendships are situated in culture, class, life position, and affectional circumstances
Men’s Friendships Closeness in the Doing • Continuity: Shared history, Expectation the relationship will be significant in the future • Perceived Support and Dependability: Reciprocity of assistance • Shared Understandings: Often coded affirmations in place of intimacy • Perceived Compatibility: Awareness of a “good fit” e.g. shared “maleness”
Self-Revelation and Self-Discovery: Even if not “self-disclosing,” still share a much - trust • Having fun together: Focus on activity rather than talk, a closeness in the doing • Intermingled Lives: interdependence, yet independent • Assumed Significance: Less talk, “we do stuff together. He just knows I like him.”