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Explore the similarities and differences in women’s and men’s friendships. Women focus on conversation and emotional intimacy, while men bond through shared activities and mutual support. Discover the unique dynamics and functions of male and female friendships.
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FRIENDSHIPS MEN & WOMEN SIMILARITIES & DIFFERENCES
Themes in Women’s Friendships • Women’s Friendships are typically centered on conversation. • Talk is action, not a replacement for action • Women friends cultivate interpersonal intimacy through dialogue
Women’s friendships serve therapeutic functions Women’s friendships are situated in culture, class, life position, and affectional circumstances
Men’s Friendships Closeness in the Doing • Continuity: Shared history, Expectation the relationship will be significant in the future • Perceived Support and Dependability: Reciprocity of assistance • Shared Understandings: Often coded affirmations in place of intimacy • Perceived Compatibility: Awareness of a “good fit” e.g. shared “maleness”
Self-Revelation and Self-Discovery: Even if not “self-disclosing,” still share a much - trust • Having fun together: Focus on activity rather than talk, a closeness in the doing • Intermingled Lives: interdependence, yet independent • Assumed Significance: Less talk, “we do stuff together. He just knows I like him.”