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Conversations at the Crossroads. Helen Emmott , RN, MA Ethics Educator “Without Regrets”. Center for Practical Bioethics April 10,2013 Kansas City MO. Without Regrets:. Life Lessons Regarding Aging Parents. First things First.
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Conversations at the Crossroads • Helen Emmott, RN, MA • Ethics Educator • “Without Regrets” Center for Practical Bioethics April 10,2013 Kansas City MO
Without Regrets: • Life Lessons Regarding Aging Parents
First things First • Or, why I wrote a book about my experiences as a daughter, daughter-in-law, wife, mother, friend, nurse and ethicist as they relate to end-of-life decisions...
Mom, Dad, my sister and me Unbelievable mother of ten children!
Mom and I having a conversation Talking about Mom’s advance directive…
Mom as a 95 year old My hero and inspiration!
Chapter topics • Beliefs and Values • Family Dynamics • Choosing a Surrogate Decision Maker (DPOA) • Communication Issues • Goals of Care • Being a Caregiver • Final Homes • Medical Directives • Grief and Celebration
Chapter One Lessons • Denying death won’t keep it from happening • Don’t die stupidly • Conversations can help us focus on that part of our dying that we can control • Dying is not easy and won’t be the same for everyone • Sometimes we do the most by doing less