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Breaking Free. The " Onlys ". "It's just the way I am…". "It's just the way I am…" If our Jesus isn't powerful enough We need a new Jesus. Brokenness causes Brokenness. Brokenness causes Brokenness Wholeness produces Wholeness.
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Breaking Free The "Onlys"
"It's just the way I am…"If our Jesus isn't powerful enoughWe need a new Jesus
Brokenness causes BrokennessWholeness produces WholenessWhen Wholeness touches BrokennessBrokenness is made Whole
She took great care of himSuffering with grace to do soEveryone agreed- "She's a saint!"
Everyone said he was a loving husbandShe was lucky to haveSuch a great "catch"
What dysfunctional behaviorsHave you seen masquerade as love?
What dysfunctional behaviorsHave you seen masquerade as love?- Jealousy- Possessiveness- Controlling- Manipulative- Self-centered
Self-centered:- For what I can get out of it- For as long as I am Interested/benefitting
Self-centered:- For what I can get out of it- For as long as I am Interested/benefitting- Because it makes me happyTo make you happy
Self-centered:- For what I can get out of it- For as long as I am Interested/benefitting- Because it makes me happyTo make you happy- To be seen as loving and giving
We can only loveTo the extentThat we know God's loveWe love because he first loved us- I John 4:19
God's righteousness demands justiceYet he still lovesJesus dies
God shows his lovefor us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us- Romans 5:8
Agape:Unconditional, others-centeredSeeking their best interestsWhen they don't deserve itEven when it costs
Agape:Unconditional, others-centeredSeeking their best interestsWhen they don't deserve itEven when it costsI can't- and won't- outside ofGod's love in me
My dear children, let's not just talk about love; let's practice real love. This is the only way we'll know we're living truly, living in God's reality.
It's also the way to shut down debilitating self-criticism, even when there is something to it.
For God is greater than our worried hearts and knows more about us than we do ourselves. And friends, once that's taken care of and we're no longer accusing or condemning ourselves, we're bold and free before God!- John 3:18-21 (Mssg)
The greatest loveComing from us to othersDoesn't originate with us
- Humility- Gratitude- Grace towards thosewho don't know yet(there was a time when you didn't…)
Problems loving certain people…- Spouse making you mad- Negative towards spiritual family- Whole groups of people
The answer to your problemsLoving PeopleIsn't to do better in loving themBut to drawer closer to God
God isn't into betterGod is into newCreate in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me- Psalm 51:10
The chain of unhealthy loveIs broken by the agape love of God
By this we know love, that he laid down his life for us, and we ought to lay down our lives for the brothers.
But if anyone has the world's goods and sees his brother in need, yet closes his heart against him, how does God's love abide in him? Little children, let us not love in word or talk but in deed and in truth- 1 John 3:16-18
If a brother or sister is poorly clothed and lacking in daily food, and one of you says to them, “Go in peace, be warmed and filled,” without giving them the things needed for the body, what good is that?- James 2:15-16
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