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Learn everything about flirting via text messages. Avoid these 7 mistakes and drive every woman crazy.
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1 Mistake#1 Confusing Responses foRAttRACtion B eforeyou’vehadyourfirstdatewithagirl,shewon’t feelmuchofaconnectiontoyou.Asunfortunateas itmaybe,you’reprobablynottheonlyguytexting her. See, a common mistake most guys make whenthey’re tex- tingagirlisthattheymistakeresponsesforattraction.Often whenaguyisgettingaresponsefromagirl,hebelievesthat he’sgettingclosertogettingheronadateortoseducingher. Theexactoppositeistrue! The more texts you send before meeting up with girl means thelessofachanceyouhaveofactuallymeetingupwithher! That’sright:evenifagirlisRESPONDINGtoyourtexts,you’re notgettingyourselfANYclosertoactuallygettingherouton 3
Mistake#1 Welcome to PhoneGame • adate. • Instead,saymorewithless. • Wheneveryou’reconsideringwhattotextagirl,seeifyousay itsimpler,withlesstextingbackandforth. • Most guys send pointless texts to women like, “How’s your day?”or“Enjoyingthewarmweather?” • ThesetextsDONOTbringyouANYclosertoawoman!They justbegforaresponse(whichdoesn’tmeananything). • TomakesureyouNEVERagainwastetextsonpointlesschat- ter,askyourselfthisgoldenquestion: • HowisthistextbringingthisgirlandIclosertoadate? • Ifyouranswerissimply“togethertoknowherbetter,”erase thetext.It’snotgoingtohelpyou. 4 4
2 Mistake#2 not Conveying“fun” HAnduntilitseemsFUNforher…she’sprobably ere is the simple truth. When a woman givesyou hernumbersheisNOTsigningasocialcontractto gooutwithyou… notgoingtobothermeetingupwithyou. • Sowhenyousendboringtextsthatdon’tdisplayanyperson- ality or don’t elicit any emotions in her… in her mind you’re notworththetroubleofmeetingupwith. • Herearesomesignsyou’reNOTbeingfun: • AmIbeingstiffandformal“Hi.Itwasnicemeetingyou friday”….(toostiff.tooformal) • AmIputtingpressureonhertokeeptheconvogoing? • AmIbaderingherwithquestion? 5
Mistake#2 Welcome to PhoneGame Remember, every text you send should make you seem like the FUN OPTION. You should appear to be the escape from her boringday. Howdoyoudothis? Start choosing words that convey FUN. Be slightly exagger- ated in your texts. Everything you’re doing or about to do should be“EPIC”. 6 6
3 Mistake#3 not HAving A textingstyle I fyou’retextinganattractivewomanchancesareyouare NOTtheonlyguysheisgettingatextfromtoday. Hatetobreakittoyou. Butbetweenotherguyspursuingher,ex-boyfriends,co-work- ers, classmates,andsoon…she’sgotalotofguysvyingfor herattention. So if you want to stand out- your texts need to display your unique style andpersonality. Sheshouldbeabletoknowit’satextfromyoujustbyreading it(evenifthenamewasblocked.) Whatwords,phrases,punctuation,oremoticonsareuniquely yours? 7
Mistake#3 Welcome to PhoneGame Example: I have a friend Danny who begins every text the sameway. Dan:yoyoyoNYcityiscallingournametonight…let’s go gogo IwouldnotneedtolookatthattexttoknowitwasDanwho sent.Healwaystextsinthatsamehighenergy,excitedstyle. Andmostofhistextsbeginwiththeyoyoyointro… 8 8
4 Mistake#4 HAving long textConveRsAtions Tnormalconversations. ext conversations are NOT the same as actualcon- versations. Texting should be the “Super cool” cliff notes ofa Meaningleaveouttheformalities. SKIP THE SMALLTALK. Thelongertheconversationthemorechancestomessthings uporrunintoawkwardconfusion. Everytimeyoupickupthephone…jumprightintothegood stuff. Startwithafunanecdote.Startwithateasingnickname.Find 9
Mistake#4 Welcome to PhoneGame a way to quickly spark an emotion and get her payingfull at- tention toyou. Youalwayshavetobemovingtheconversationforward. Thinkofitlikethereisastaircase.Andatthetopofthatstair caseisthegirlsittingnakedwaitingforyou. Every text you send should be climbing you one step higher on that staircase. 10 10
5 Mistake#5 going foR tHeMeetup witHout spARkingeMotion HWhy? ereisanotherhard,coldfact.Ifyouaskawoman tohangout,withoutfirstsparkingandemotion... shewillalmostalwaysturnyoudown. Because all of the positive emotions she felt when she was with you hasdwindled. And the thought of getting dressed up, and going to meeta guyshebarelyknows(andthepotentialyou’llturnouttobe acreeporjustawkward)isnotworththeeffort. Logicallyshecaneasilytalkherselfoutofit. WhichiswhyyouMUSTengageheronanemotionallevelfirst. 11
Mistake#5 Welcome to PhoneGame ItisMUCHeasiertogeta“yes”outofawomanonceyou’ve sparked a positiveemotion. ThetwobestwaystodothisarewithFLIRTINGorHUMOR. Here’sanimportantconcept:SheisNOTgoingtoremember allyourgoodqualities.Soit’syourJOBtoremindher. 12 12
6 Mistake#6 BeCoMing too“pRediCtABle” Lyourgirls. et’s say that you’ve now succeeded in getting upa datewithagirl.Youmaythinkyou’rehomefreewhen it comes to texting, but there’s still some things you needtokeepinmindtoensureyouCONTINUEtosee First,youneverwanttofallintopredictablepatterns.Lotsof guysusethesamejokes,samequestions,andsametextsover and over. While it may be easier to fall into “complacency” withawomanyou’redating,don’tdoit! Instead,breakthingsupwithsomespicyeveryonceinawhile. Tellheryouhavea“surprise”toshowherlater.Tellhersome- thing reminded you of her, but don’t tell her what it is right away. 13
Mistake#6 Welcome to PhoneGame Askhertosendyouafunnypictureofsomething(orsendher afunnypictureofsomething). Keepherguessingwhatyournexttextwillbeandyou’llkeep herinterestedinyou.Moreover,keepingthe“spark”ofare- lationshipaliveisveryimportantwhenitcomestocreatinga great sexlife. As long as you don’t become ultra-predictable, you should haveyourgirltextingYOUaskingYOUwhenyou’reavailable to hangout. 14 14
Mistake#7 Thinking She’SDifferenT Iastoryabouthowtheyconfessedtheirfeelingstoagirl have stressed over and over again “Never tell a girlhow youfeelaboutherovertext”… Yet, day after day I get emails from students tellingme overtext… Andeverytime-theyscarethegirlaway. Inyourmind,you’regoingtotrytoconvinceyourselfthat“She isdifferent.” Orthat“Itwon’tworkonher” But the minute you tell yourself ‘she’s different’ you are on theroadtolosingher… 15
Mistake#7 Welcome to PhoneGame • Guyscontinuallydothingslike: • Texting her toomuch • Payinghergushingcomplimentsovertext • Notaskinghertohangoutbecauseyou’rescared… • And time and time again they’ll face the sameconsequences asalltheotherguyshave… • She’s NOTdifferent. • Andifanytimeyoustartthinkingsheispulloutthisemailand re-readit. • Ok… • Sonowthatyouknowthebigmistakesyouneedtoavoidits timeformulateasolidgameplan. 16 16
theGaMeplan 8 tHe key-loCksequenCe • Inthisvideoyou’regoingtolearnhowtoturnyourphoneinto a magnet… by using a specific sequence of texts called:The Key LockSequence. • Youwilllearnhowtousethreesimpletextmessagestoturna womanon,andgetheroutonadate. • Watch the VideoNOW • Someofthethingsyou’lllearn: • Howtocapitalizeonattractionbeforeitfades • Thesinglebiggestingredientforcapturingherattention • 3 specific types of texts you need to send (in order)to turnheronandgetheranxioustomeetup. • Watch the videonow: