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Leadership Skills. Presented by: Kimberly O’Toole Eckhardt Harris Corporation, Team 1511. Overview. The Four Parts of Leadership Know Yourself Meyers Briggs, Six Pillars of Self Esteem, 7 Habits Be a Good Team Player Being a Team Player, Team Building Communicate Effectively
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Leadership Skills Presented by: Kimberly O’Toole Eckhardt Harris Corporation, Team 1511 2008 FIRST Robotics Conference
Overview The Four Parts of Leadership • Know Yourself • Meyers Briggs, Six Pillars of Self Esteem, 7 Habits • Be a Good Team Player • Being a Team Player, Team Building • Communicate Effectively • Presentation Skills, How to Win Friends & Influence People • Continuous Improvement 2008 FIRST Robotics Conference
Know YourselfMeyers Briggs (slide 1) The first preference has to do with how you're ENERGIZED. 2008 FIRST Robotics Conference
Meyers Briggs (slide 2) These preferences have to do with how you GATHER information... or what you pay attention to. 2008 FIRST Robotics Conference
Myers Briggs (slide 3) This category deals with how we make decisions and reach conclusions... 2008 FIRST Robotics Conference
Meyers Briggs (slide 4) This one has to do with the LIFESTYLE you adopt 2008 FIRST Robotics Conference
Meyers Briggs Summary • Slide 1 • Column A: E Extrovert • Column B: I Introvert • Slide 2 • Column A: S Sensing • Column B: N Intuition • Slide 3 • Column A: T Thinking • Column B: F Feeling • Slide 4 • Column A: J Judging • Column B: P Perceiving http://haleonline.com/psychtest/http://www.doi.gov/octc/scales.html 2008 FIRST Robotics Conference
The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People • Be Proactive • Begin with the End in Mind • Put First things First • Think Win/Win • Seek First to Understand, then to be Understood • Synergize • Sharpen the Saw 2008 FIRST Robotics Conference
1. Be Proactive • The Social Mirror • Between Stimulus & Response • The Freedom to Choose • Taking the Initiative • Act or Be Acted Upon • Circle of Concern/Circle of Influence 2008 FIRST Robotics Conference
Reactive There’s nothing I can do That’s just the way I am He makes me so mad! They won’t allow that I have to do this I can’t I must If only Proactive Lets look at the alternatives I can choose a different approach I control my own feelings I can create an effective presentation I will choose an appropriate response I choose I prefer I will Proactive/Reactive Language 2008 FIRST Robotics Conference
2. Begin with the End in Mind • A Personal Mission Statement • Think about your 80th Birthday • Defining Roles & Goals • Define Your Center 2008 FIRST Robotics Conference
Significant Other Family Money Work Possession Pleasure/Thrill Enemy Church Self Friend **Principle Centered Personal Centers 2008 FIRST Robotics Conference
3. Put First Things First Urgent Not Urgent • Time Management • The Quadrants • The Quadrant II Calendar • Long Term & Weekly Organization Not Important Important 2008 FIRST Robotics Conference
The Quadrant II Calendar 2008 FIRST Robotics Conference
4. Think Win/Win • Win/Win • Win/Lose, Lose/Win • Lose/Lose • Win • Win/Win or No Deal • Emotional Bank Accounts 2008 FIRST Robotics Conference
5. Seek First to Understand, Then to be Understood Principles of Empathic Communication • Empathic Listening (in the other person’s shoes) • Diagnose before you Prescribe • Autobiographical Responses • Understanding & Perception • THEN Seek to be Understood 2008 FIRST Robotics Conference
Be a Good Team Player • The 17 Essential Qualities of a Team Player • Teambuilding • Knowing Your Team 2008 FIRST Robotics Conference
Adaptable Collaborative Committed Communicative Competent Dependable Disciplined Enlarging (adding value) Enthusiastic Intentional Mission Conscious Prepared Relational Self-Improving Selfless Solution Oriented Tenacious (Never Quit!) The 17 Essential Qualities of a Team Player 2008 FIRST Robotics Conference
Getting to Know Your Team • Listen!! • Learn NAMES!! • Try to figure out the “Why’s” • Interact on a personal level • Understand Aptitude & Attitude Problems 2008 FIRST Robotics Conference
Attitude vs. Aptitude What are some Indicators/Differences between the following situations? • Lack of Knowledge or Skill • Aptitude • Something is keeping them from Performing • Enablement • They Just don’t Want To. • Attitude 2008 FIRST Robotics Conference
What Motivates People??? Motivation Positive Incentives Personal Gain Money Food Good Feelings Rewards Fear Negative Incentives Buy-In Recognition Praise Loathing 2008 FIRST Robotics Conference
Communicate Effectively • Good Presentations • How to Win Friends & Influence People • Listening 2008 FIRST Robotics Conference
Fundamental Techniques in Handling PeopleHow to Win Friends & Influence People • “If you want to gather honey, don’t kick over the beehive.” • Don’t Criticize, Condemn or Complain (1) • Try to Understand • Give Honest & Sincere Appreciation (2) • “He who can do this, has the whole world with him, he who cannot walks a lonely way.” • Arouse in the Other Person an Eager Want (3) 2008 FIRST Robotics Conference
Six Ways to Make People Like You • Become Genuinely Interested in Other People • SMILE!! • Remember Names!! • Be a Good Listener. Encourage Others to Talk About Themselves. • Talk in Terms of the Other Person’s Interests • Make the Other Person Feel Important, and Do it Sincerely. 2008 FIRST Robotics Conference
How to Win People to Your Way of Thinking • The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid an argument all together. • Show Respect for the other person’s opinions. Never say “You’re Wrong.” • If you are wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically. • Begin in a friendly way. • Get the other person to say “Yes, Yes.” • Let the other person do a great deal of the talking 2008 FIRST Robotics Conference
How to Win People to Your Way of Thinking (cont) • Let the other person feel the idea is his/hers. • Try to honestly see things from the other person’s point of view • Be sympathetic with the other person’s ideas and desires • Appeal to the Nobler motives • Dramatize your ideas • Throw Down a Challenge! 2008 FIRST Robotics Conference
Listening • Listen Openly • Do NOT think autobiographically • HEAR what the other person is saying • Put yourself in their shoes • Pay attention to names & likes/dislikes • Only speak to note that you are hearing them. • Try to reiterate what they say in different words to make sure you understand. 2008 FIRST Robotics Conference
Continuous Improvement • “Sharpen the Saw” • Read as many books as you can • Set aside Thinking Time • Take time to Organize & Reflect • PRACTICE!! 2008 FIRST Robotics Conference
Q&A! Thanks for coming!! Kim O’Toole Eckhardt Email me at: kotoole@harris.com www.penfieldrobotics.com 2008 FIRST Robotics Conference