The REAL Way to Find Epic Love - Healthy You Healthy Love

1. THE REAL WAY TO FIND EPIC LOVE Sometimes, the hardest thing to fathom is that love is EVERYWHERE. Especially when we’ve been through heartache after heartache, it’s not always easy to remain optimistic when it comes to finding love love. Often it seems much easier to feel a sense of doom, which is sure to see you feeling as though love will never happen and that relationships outright suck. finding true true But the beautiful truth is, love can show up at the most unsuspected times, love, could even be right in front of you, but you just don’t know it yet. Now, I’m sure you’re thinking, that’s not true, love doesn’t just show up for me. There Is no man in my life right now that I like or that loves me. Perhaps this is true, perhaps not… What What I I do do know know is is that that you you would would be be shocked shocked to to know know how how often often we we walk walk away away from from true true compatible compatible love love. . How does this happen? Healthy You Healthy Love © 2017. All rights reserved.

2. Well, you asked for it… one of the biggest blocks to love is not knowing what you truly want. In a world of internet dating and apps you would think that it would be easier, but when you don’t know what you want, you either end up with nothing at all because you just can’t make a decision, or you choose someone who’s wrong for you in almost every way. If you want to find love fast and easily, then fine tune your core values and learn to recognize the qualities of a man who’s going to be good for you, and not scared of it. You read that right, I said ‘scared’. More often than not people are scared of experiencing true love. They want it, yet they fear it. Fearing the commitment you seek can see you running away from epic love, rather than running towards it. I know this because over the years I have mastered the art of running away from compatible compatible love love. If you meet a guy who you find really sexy and he’s interested in what you do, though he’s unreliable, is dating dating othe other r women women and can’t hold a job, then perhaps, he’s not what you want. Maybe you meet a guy who doesn’t want any more kids. He’s clear on that, but you want children. While there may be many things about him that are really good, he’s still not the man for you. If you meet a man from a different culture and he’s explained he can only marry a woman of the same culture, if you’re not willing to change your religion (if that is even an option as religion and culture can be rather different requirements), then he’s probably not someone you could be with forever (if at all). Of course, within each one of the above scenarios, there are exceptions, however, what I’m saying is that when it comes to your heart and you living the life you want to live, you cannot be hoping you’re the exception, the benefit of the doubt only has so many lives. So, no one person will be able to satisfy you completely in every way. Yet, when the man is right for you, whether you want to admit it or not, deep down you know when you’ve found your “home”, your true love. So today I encourage you to be courageous enough to walk away from something that does not fit your puzzle so that you can free yourself to find the piece that does fit. Here Here are are some some tips tips to to finding finding out out if if love love to to closer closer to to you you than than you you believe: believe: 1.FEEL FEEL –How do you feel or want to feel when you’re around true love? Do you want to feel uplifted, safe, secure, desired, and giddy? Or do you prefer to invest in someone that has you feeling insecure, confused, mistreated, uncomfortable and maybe blasé? 2.Recogn Recognition and focuses on what kind of character traits you’re looking for. Is he thoughtful and kind? Even when he’s busy does he treat you well? ition – You have to know the traits of a man that you admire. Forget what he looks like for now Healthy You Healthy Love © 2017. All rights reserved.

3. 3.Reflect Reflect on evaluating your past relationships. Create a list of qualities and things you liked about your past relationships and things you never want to experience again. While I’m not saying to compare your future guy to your exes, what I am saying is learn from your exes what you want to have and appreciate in your new man. on past past relation relationships ships – –You can get a good gauge on what you want and don’t want in a man by 4.Consider Consider your something casual, or are you at a point in your life where you’re ready to settle down? Depending on your answer, you want to meet a guy that is in the same headspace as you are when it comes to relationship status and what they’re looking for. A man will let this be known directly or indirectly. your goals goals – – What are your relationship goals at this point in your life? Are you looking for 5.Date Date without dating guys with qualities you’re attracted to can help you to figure out what other things you might want in a man. In the process of dating, you may end up finding true love, but the idea is to just get to know the guy, see what he’s about and sees if his personality, traits, goals, and values align with yours. without strings strings – – Instead of jumping into a full on relationship, why not try dating? Getting out and It’s It’s Time Time to to Get Get Real Real If you’ve sat down and really evaluated what you want in a guy, have been out dating, and somehow still feel as if you can’t find true love, you may need to get honest with yourself and your expectations. Often times we have this laundry list of requirements a guy must have and do in order to be Mr. Right. If we are honest, a lot of it is what we think we want, rather than need. It’s quite possible that the right man hasn’t come along because your blueprint of what the right man should be like is a bit off the mark. While you’re supposed to be cautious of who you give your heart to, being overly cautious could leave you single and without intimate intimate love love. I have Private Facebook Group for my VIP members and one of the ladies in the group met a guy who she was scared to get romantically involved with. Even though he was perfect in almost every way, he was a little older than she preferred in a man, so she held back and avoided touching him or kissing him, because once she did she knew that it could be serious, and because of her uncertainty and her fear to commit she did not want to mislead him… As we collectively worked through her blocks, she realized that she was scared to progress things because she knew he was the real deal and she was also worried about being judged by the age difference (btw –it’s not huge, though over 10 years). In the end, she faced her fear, took a plunge and is extremely happy when typically she would have balked and ended it. She’s ridiculously happy that she pushed through because she’s found a great man and a very great match. Healthy You Healthy Love © 2017. All rights reserved.

4. So this is why it’s important to sit down and really rule out your high or even unrealistic expectations of what your dream guy should look like, be, and do. When you eliminate the unnecessary expectations you’ve placed on the ideal guy, you may find that the perfect one is not far off (and you may even know him). True love is easier to find than you think. Once you make peace with your past, fears, and doubts, then you open the door to finding true love, and voila, he arrives and sweeps you off your feet like no other man can. About Nadine About Nadine True love, you know, is not always a picnic but picnics should have their place in it. Don’t be lazy in love. Make the effort to cement these 6 guidelines for lasting desire. The distance between an unhappy or a happy relationship is generally not huge! All it takes are a few changes and you can find yourself in a relationship that stands the test of time, a relationship that has you waking up every day feeling loved and appreciated. Welcome, I’m Nadine Piat the creator of 'Healthy You Healthy Love' and my mission is to inspire women to break free from the shackles of painful love and to love wholeheartedly with ease. Through my blog, newsletters and online programs I empower women to effortlessly captivate the very best men, cultivate soulful love, experience bonding and healing physical intimacy, and live a life filled with inner joy and unshakeable confidence. Healthy You Healthy Love © 2017. All rights reserved.