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As The Twig is Bent. Training our children. Gen. 1:28 “...be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth...”. Created us male and female Parental responsibility. "R". US. Proverbs 22:6. “Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.”.
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As The Twig is Bent Training our children
Gen. 1:28 “...be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth...” • Created us male and female • Parental responsibility "R" US
Proverbs 22:6 • “Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.” Children must be taught to go In the right way Pro. 22:15
Children • Do not grow up right by themselves • We have to train them J.D. Go Astray
PROBLEM CHILDREN PARENTS • Ham • Lot’s girls • Jacob’s boys • Absalom = Noah was drunk = Lot lived in Sodom = Jacob - partial = David - Bathsheba “Don’t blame the children” P.D. J.D.
The Solution Triangle Of Training Discipline
Discipline • “He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes” Pr.13:24 • “He who spares his rod hates his son, But he who loves him disciplines him promptly.” NKJV
Discipline • Purpose of discipline • Not to build parents ego • To Build respect for parents • This will be child’s view of authority
Discipline • “Withhold not correction from the child: for if thou beatest him with the rod, he shall not die. Thou shalt beat him with the rod, and shalt deliver his soul from hell.” Prov. 23:13-14
Rules of Discipline • Start Early • Agree as to type and amount • Be consistent • Discipline in love not anger • Fair, Firm, Friendly • Use Variety
Goal of Discipline • Help child learn self-discipline • Pro.29:17 “Correct thy son, and he shall give thee rest; yea, he shall give delight unto thy soul” • Definition
The Solution Triangle Of Training Example Discipline
Example • Children are imitators • Parents who wish to train up children in the way they should go... • Must go in the way which they would have their children go! • Eph. 6:4
Example • Children are like Clay • Easily molded • Follow a good example • Follow a bad example • Read their parents • “A little fellow follows me”
The Solution Triangle Of Training Example Discipline Teaching
Teaching • Teach about God and His Word • Where we came from • Why we are here • Where we are going • Eccl. 12:13
Teaching • Teach them about Marriage • Show a happy marriage • Answer Questions about sex • Makes rules about dating • Marriage / divorce / remarriage • Working / money
The Solution Triangle Of Training Example Discipline Teaching
As The Twig is Bent Training our children Very important work
As the Twig Is Bent • “Lo, children are an heritage of the LORD: and the fruit of the womb is his reward.” - Psalms 127:3
As The Twig is Bent • By Arthur Pigman • Evans Church of Christ • Evans, Georgia • Sunday Morning – 27 February 2005