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Explore the power of nonverbal communication (NVC) and its impact on conflict resolution. Discover how NVC can transcend language barriers, occur spontaneously, and convey emotions and intentions effectively. Learn about different displays of NVC, from zones of interpersonal distance to gender differences and cultural variations. Gain insights into recognizing threatening and non-threatening NVC cues and the role of NVC in bullying, teasing, and reconciliation. Understand NVC impairments and how education and training can improve communication skills. Dive into research findings and assessments to enhance emotional intelligence and relationship success.
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NONVERBAL COMMUNICATION AND CONFLICT It’s not what you say that counts!
COMMUNICATION WITHOUT WORDS (NVC) • NVC can be universal • NVC can be spontaneous • NVC can occur simultaneously • NVC can be iconic
PIEin the SKY Sending and receiving messages of Power, Involvement, andEmotion: SkillsandKnowledgefor ourYouth
ZONES OF INTERPERSONAL DISTANCE • Intimate distance– 0” to 18” • Personal distance-- 18” to 4’ • Social distance-- 4’ to 12’ • Public distance-- 12’ to 25’
Gender Differences Girls tend to use more eye contact, touch, and proximity
Staring and glaring Invading personal space Touching Pointing Raising voice Smirking Laughing Turning away Puffing up Mocking Patronizing Interrupting Shaking head Rolling eyes THREATENING NVC
NON-THREATENING NVC • Keeping distance • Smiling • Bowed head • Gaze avoidance • Constricted body positions • Soft tone of voice
RECONCILIATION Non-threatening and supportive behavior creates an emotional climate conducive to reconciliation
NVC IMPAIRMENTS • Poor NVC skills may reflect a general learning disability called Dyssemia. • Research indicates that education and training makes a difference
RESEARCH FINDINGS • Expressing and reading emotions related • Women more skilled than men • Most skills improve with age • Personality affects skill • Skills affect relationship success • Family environment affects skill