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Air Force Space Command Guardians of the High Frontier. Sexual Assault Prevention and Response Training. I n t e g r i t y - S e r v i c e - E x c e l l e n c e. UNCLASSIFIED. Healthy Sexuality. information developed by Mervyn Davies, MA,LPC CACIII, FAPA. Elements for Consent:.
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Air Force Space Command Guardians of the High Frontier Sexual Assault Prevention and Response Training I n t e g r i t y - S e r v i c e - E x c e l l e n c e UNCLASSIFIED
Healthy Sexuality information developed by Mervyn Davies, MA,LPC CACIII, FAPA
Elements for Consent: • Equal Power base • Must know to what one is consenting • Must understand the repercussions of behavior • Must comprehend societal standards of behavior • Must be sober
3 types of behavior • Consent • Cooperation • Coercive
Creating psychological safety in relationships • Focused attention (seeing reading cues of the other person) • Nonjudgmental – “I care about you even though I don’t like what you’re doing” • Owning feelings • Recognition of diversity – “I’m allowed to be different than you” • Empathy • Trustworthiness
Universal goals for healthy sexual development • Communication – being able to ask for consent (Listening for a yes) • Empathy • Accountability – taking responsibility for yourself
What is intimacy? • Intimacy is communication • Intimacy is not sex • Sex offenders yearn for intimacy; they are just clueless about how to achieve it • Sex is about taking, love making is about sharing • Asking for consent eliminates confusion • Each behavior receives consent
Air Force Space Command Guardians of the High Frontier Questions?