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Ephesians 6:4

Week 19. Biblical Parenting … provoke not your children to wrath …. Ephesians 6:4. Faith Baptist Church of Palm Bay. Biblical Counseling Basics 2012 - 2013. Biblical Counseling Basics Set #3 MARCH / MAY 2013. 3/27/2013 – Biblical Principles of Sex

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Ephesians 6:4

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  1. Week 19 Biblical Parenting … provoke not your children to wrath … Ephesians 6:4

  2. Faith Baptist Church of Palm Bay Biblical Counseling Basics2012 - 2013

  3. Biblical Counseling Basics Set #3 MARCH / MAY 2013 • 3/27/2013 – Biblical Principles of Sex • 4/3/2013 –Comparing Counsel Philosophies • 4/17/2013 - Parenting: Do not provoke Anger • 4/24/2013 – … But Bring Them Up … • 5/1/2013 – … In the Discipline of the Lord … • 5/8/2013 – … In the Instruction of the Lord • 5/15/2013 – Guilt and Repentance • 5/22/2013 – Worry and Fear

  4. Week 19 Biblical Parenting Introduction • 1. The challenges of parenting in today's culture (2 Timothy 3:1-5a) Parenting 1

  5. 2 Timothy 3:1-5 1 - This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come. 2 - For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, Parenting 1

  6. 2 Timothy 3:1-5 3 - Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good, 4 - Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God; 5 - Having a form of godliness, but denying the power Parenting 1

  7. Week 19 Biblical Parenting Introduction • 1. The challenges of parenting in today's culture (2 Timothy 3:1-5a) • Encouragement for parents (2 Timothy 3: 14-15, 16-17) • Timothy was raised in a single parent home (godly mother and grandmother) Parenting 1

  8. 2 Timothy 3:14-17 14 - But continue thou in the things which thou hast learned and hast been assured of, knowing of whom thou hast learned them; 15 - And that from a child thou hast known the holy scriptures, which are able to make thee wise unto salvation through faith which is in Christ Jesus. Parenting 1

  9. 2 Timothy 3:14-17 16 - All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness: 17 -That the man of God may be perfect, throughly furnished unto all good works. Parenting 1

  10. 2 Timothy 3:16 • 16 - All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness • Teaching doctrine: (pre-kids) • Reproof: (change wrong thinking) • Correction: (to stand up again that which has been knocked down) • Righteousness: (handle children differently in the future) • What is Right, Not Right, Get Right, Stay Right Parenting 1

  11. Week 19 Biblical Parenting Introduction • 1. The challenges of parenting in today's culture (2 Timothy 3:1-5a) • 2. Encouragement for parents (2 Timothy 3: 14-15, 16-17) • 3. Ephesians 6:4 is the single most important verse in the New Testament on the subject of parenting. Parenting 1

  12. Ephesians 6:4 And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord Parenting 1

  13. Week 19 Biblical Parenting Fathers The children are primarily Dad's responsibility Headship of the husband is a key Bible doctrine (Eph 5:22-25) Parenting 1

  14. Ephesians 5:22-25 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. 23-For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. 24-Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing. 25-Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; Parenting 1

  15. Week 19 Biblical Parenting Fathers The children are primarily Dad's responsibility Headship of the husband is a key Bible doctrine God hold father’s primarily responsible (1 Sam 2:12; 3:11-13) Parenting 1

  16. 1 Samuel 2:12 Now the sons of Eli -were- sons of Belial; they knew not the LORD. Parenting 1

  17. 1 Samuel 3:11-13 11 - And the LORD said to Samuel, Behold, I will do a thing in Israel, at which both the ears of every one that heareth it shall tingle. 12 - In that day I will perform against Eli all things which I have spoken concerning his house: when I begin, I will also make an end. Parenting 1

  18. 1 Samuel 3:11-13 13 - For I have told him that I will judge his house for ever for the iniquity which he knoweth; because his sons made themselves vile, and he restrained them not. Parenting 1

  19. Week 19 Biblical Parenting Fathers • The children are primarily Dad's responsibility • Headship of the husband is a key Bible doctrine • God hold father’s primarily responsible (1 Sam 2:12; 3:11-13) • All others are your assistants (mom, grandparents, teacher, pastor, coach, etc.) • You cannot blame others for the failures of your children. (CEO Dad) Parenting 1

  20. Week 19 Biblical Parenting Fathers A qualification for spiritual leadership is whether or not a man manageswell his own children and household (1 Timothy 3:4,12). Parenting 1

  21. 1 Timothy 3:4,12 4 - One that ruleth well his own house, having his children in subjection with all gravity 12 - Let the deacons be the husbands of one wife, ruling their children and their own houses well. Parenting 1

  22. Week 19 Biblical Parenting Fathers A qualification for spiritual leadership is whether or not a man manageswell his own children and household (1 Timothy 3:4,12). Doesn’t mean perfect kids Parenting 1

  23. Week 19 Biblical Parenting Fathers • A qualification for spiritual leadership is whether or not a man manages well his own children and household (1 Timothy 3:4,12). • A primary principle of fathering is to be there. • Physically • Mentally • Emotionally Parenting 1

  24. Week 19 Biblical Parenting Fathers A qualification for spiritual leadership is whether or not a man manages well his own children and household (1 Timothy 3:4,12). A primary principle of fathering is to be there. Mothers are to be involved (Exodus 20:12; Prov. 1:8, 9; 1 Tim. 5:10; Ephesians 6:1-3) Parenting 1

  25. Exodus 20:12 Honour thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the LORD thy God giveth thee. Parenting 1

  26. Proverbs 1:8, 9 8 - My son, hear the instruction of thy father, and forsake not the law of thy mother: 9 - For they shall be an ornament of grace unto thy head, and chains about thy neck. Parenting 1

  27. 1 Timothy 5:10 Well reported of for good works; if she have brought up children, if she have lodged strangers, if she have washed the saints’ feet, if she have relieved the afflicted, if she have diligently followed every good work. Parenting 1

  28. Ephesians 6:1-3 1 - Children, obey your parents in the Lord: for this is right. 2 - Honour thy father and mother; (which is the first commandment with promise;) 3 - That it may be well with thee, and thou mayest live long on the earth. Parenting 1

  29. Top 10 Things Fathers will Never Say Let’s read the instructions first. As a matter of fact, let’s both go get nose rings! Go ahead take my car, here’s 20 bucks for gas Oh no kids! This bike is too fast! Can’t finish your peas? Sure, go ahead and throw them away Here! You take remote control. Waiter, more ice cream for the little ones Wanna watch some synchronized swimming? Honey, you sit this one out, I can’t wait to change that diaper Kids, Please turn up that music, it really calls calm nerves Parenting 1

  30. Week 19 Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger This does not mean never upsetannoy, oppose, anger, displease or cross a child (1 Samuel 3:11-13; Proverbs 22:15; Hebrews 12:5-11) Parenting 1

  31. 1 Samuel 3:11-13 11 - And the LORD said to Samuel, Behold, I will do a thing in Israel, at which both the ears of every one that heareth it shall tingle. 12 - In that day I will perform against Eli all things which I have spoken concerning his house: when I begin, I will also make an end. 13 - For I have told him that I will judge his house for ever for the iniquity which he knoweth; because his sons made themselves vile, and he restrained them not. Parenting 1

  32. Proverbs 22:15 Foolishness is bound in the heart of a child; but the rod of correction shall drive it far from him. Parenting 1

  33. Hebrews 12:5-11 5 - And ye haveforgotten the exhortation which speaketh unto you as unto children, My son, despise not thou the chastening of the Lord, nor faint when thou art rebuked of him: 6 - For whom the Lord loveth he chasteneth, and scourgeth every son whom he receiveth. 7 - If ye endure chastening, God dealeth with you as with sons; for what son is he whom the father chasteneth not? 8 - But if ye be without chastisement, whereof all are partakers, then are ye bastards, and not sons. Parenting 1

  34. Hebrews 12:5-11 9 - Furthermore we have had fathers of our flesh which corrected us, and we gave them reverence: shall we not much rather be in subjection unto the Father of spirits, and live? 10 - For they verily for a few days chastened us after their own pleasure; but he for our profit, that we might be partakers of his holiness. 11 - Now no chastening for the present seemeth to be joyous, but grievous: nevertheless afterward it yieldeth the peaceable fruit of righteousness unto them which are exercised hereby Parenting 1

  35. Week 19 Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger This does not mean never upset annoy, oppose, anger, displease or cross a child (1 Samuel 3:11-13; Proverbs 22:15; Hebrews 12:5-11) It does mean we should NOT handle them in such a way that they will be incited to a wrathful kind of living and become angry young men and women. Parenting 1

  36. Ephesians 6:4 A. “Fathers, do not irritate and provoke your children to anger; do not exasperate them to resentment" - Amplified Bible Parenting 1

  37. Ephesians 6:4 B. Parents "are not to excite the bad passions of their children nor by his own ill conduct nurture evil in the heart of his child."- Hodges Parenting 1

  38. Ephesians 6:4 C. “Do not exasperate or embitter your children; do not provoke your children to an angry mood." - Hendrickson Parenting 1

  39. Colossians 3:21 Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they be discouraged. (KJV) Parenting 1

  40. Colossians 3:21 D. “Fathers, do not provoke or irritate or fret your children –do not be hard on them or harass them; lest they become discouraged and sullen and morose and feel inferior and frustrated; do not break their spirit.” – Amplified Bible Parenting 1

  41. Week 19 Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger • This does not mean never upset a child • It does mean we should NOT incite wrath. • Ephesians 6:4 Amplified • Ephesians 6:4 Hodges • Ephesians 6:4 Hendrickson • Colossians 3:21 Amplified • The warning is not about an incident of anger, but about a lifestyle of anger. • The challenge is to avoid raising a child to be like the person spoken of in Proverbs 19:19; 25:28 Parenting 1

  42. Proverbs 19:19 A man of great wrath shall suffer punishment: for if thou deliver him, yet thou must do it again. Parenting 1

  43. Proverbs 25:28 He that hath no rule over his own spirit is like a city that is broken down, and without walls Parenting 1

  44. Week 19 Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger This does not mean never upset a child It does mean we should NOT incite wrath. The Bible speaks of at least two kinds of anger (1 Samuel 15:23; Ephesians 4:31). Parenting 1

  45. 1 Samuel 15:23 For rebellion (blowing up) is as the sin of witchcraft, and stubbornness (clamming up) is as iniquity and idolatry. Because thou hast rejected the word of the LORD, he hath also rejected thee from being king. Parenting 1

  46. Ephesians 4:31 Let all bitterness(clamming up), and wrath (blowing up), and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice: Parenting 1

  47. Week 19 Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger • This does not mean never upset a child • It does mean we should NOT incite wrath. • The Bible speaks of at least two kinds of anger • Flaring outbursts of rage; open rebellion; hostility • (Proverbs 14:17; 15:18; 19:19; 22:24; Ephesians 4:31) Blowing Up Parenting 1

  48. Proverbs 14:17 He that is soon angry dealeth foolishly and a man of wicked devices is hated. Blowing Up Parenting 1

  49. Proverbs 15:18 A wrathful man stirreth up strife: but he that is slow to anger appeaseth strife. Blowing Up Parenting 1

  50. Proverbs 19:19 A man of great wrath shall suffer punishment: for if thou deliver him, yet thou must do it again. Blowing Up Parenting 1

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