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FIQH OF LOVE 2. Ml Muaadth Allie LESSON 1 Thursday 29 August 2013. BACK TO THE BASICS. A marriage is placed at risk of breakup when a couple fails to:. 1. Identify and pay the basic currency of marriage =. CONNECTION. CONNECTION. HER. HIM. When loved and insecurities allayed.
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FIQH OF LOVE 2 Ml Muaadth Allie LESSON 1 Thursday 29 August 2013
A marriage is placed at risk of breakup when a couple fails to: 1 Identify and pay the basic currency of marriage = CONNECTION
CONNECTION HER HIM • When loved and insecurities allayed. • Not made to suffer fear or pain especially that of loneliness and abandonment • When respected and efforts appreciated. • Not made to feel shame.
A marriage is placed at risk of breakup when a couple fails to: 2 Perform consistently and under pressure COMMITMENT
COMMITMENT = • Honourable, loving and respectful treatment of the other: • Day in, Day out. • When under pressure.
A marriage is placed at risk of breakup when a couple fails to: 3 Respect differences such as gender bias UNITY IN DIVERSITY
CHALLENGE or OPPORTUNITY
A marriage is placed at risk of breakup when a couple fails to: 4 Work together as a team TEAM WORK
GOAL ORIENTATION VS ROLE ORIENTATION