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The Examination of Sanctification: Anger/Abuse. Three circles. #1. #2. #3. . . . No .1 Natural Man (self rule). . . . . . . . . No choice but to sin - it is our nature. . . . . . Enemy of God , alive to sin. Self-Centered (selfish heart) Self-Seeking (fear/lust)
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The Examination of Sanctification: Anger/Abuse
Three circles #1 #2 #3
. . No .1 Natural Man (self rule) . . . . . . No choice but to sin - it is our nature. . . . . Enemy of God, alive to sin • Self-Centered (selfish heart) • Self-Seeking (fear/lust) • Self-reliant • Attempts to control • (others, outcomes and circumstances) Chaos
No. 3 Christian walking according to the Spirit (Christ rules) Fruit of the Spirit (Gal. 5:22-23) • God-centered (servant’s heart) • God pleasing (faith) • Dependent on Creator • Surrendered to His lordship and sovereignty Order
. . No. 2 Christian walking according to the flesh (self rule) . . . . . . . . . . Deeds of the Flesh (Gal. 5:19-21) • Self-centered (selfish heart) • Self-seeking (fear/lust) • Self-reliant • Attempts to control • (others, outcomes, and circumstances) Chaos
Christian walking by the flesh Christian walking by the Spirit Natural Man Repentance Fear/Lust Wrath/Death Deeds of the Flesh Fruit of the Spirit
Anger “ … for the anger of man does not produce the righteousness of God.” James 1:20
Many Faces of Anger Passive – sin of omission – withdraw/neglect Aggressive – sin of commission – abuse
Abuse Rejoice not over me, Omy enemy; when I fall, I shall rise;when I sit in darkness, the LORD will be a light to me. Micah 7:8
Satan’s Seduction “You can’t trust God! He does not have your best interest at heart! You can be your own God and it is no big deal!” Gen. 3:4-5
Degrees of Abuse Matt. 5:21-22
Essence of Abuse For from him and through him and to him are all things. To him be glory forever. Amen. Rom. 11:36
God’s heart toward the abused Psa. 10:17-18
Church’s response Compassionate
Church’s response Moving to accountability
Active Heart Model Society Family Heart Body Affected, but not determined. Ultimately, I am determined by what reigns and rules in my heart.
Active Heart Model Society Family Heart Body Heart is an active agent, which produces fruit – for this I am responsible.
Active Heart Model Society Sin/Self-rule Or Christ and His rule Family Heart Body Deeds of the Flesh Or Fruit of the Spirit
“For we do not have a high priestwho is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but one who in every respect has beentempted as we are,yet without sin.” Heb. 4:15
“Althoughhe was a son,he learned obedience through what he suffered.” Heb. 5:8
“For because he himself has sufferedwhen tempted, he is able to help those who are being tempted.” Heb. 5:8
“For because he himself has sufferedwhen tempted, he is able to help those who are being tempted.” Heb. 5:8
God is Sovereign Lam. 3:25-38
God is Sovereign “ … without approving of sin, God governs the sinful acts of men for his own good and wise purposes.” Piper, A Bitter & Sweet Providence (p. 114)
Observations • Responsibilities confused • Development of a “victim mentality”
Observations • Responsibilities confused • Development of a “victim mentality” • • Satan uses the experience of abuse to breed lies.
Satan’s Lies If this didn’t happen to me, I would be OK (I’m good).
Satan’s Lies If this didn’t happen to me, I would be OK (I’m good). Because He allowed this to happen, God is bad.
Satan’s Lies If this didn’t happen to me. I would be OK (I’m good). Because He allowed this to happen, God is bad. Therefore, I’m the only one who can be trusted (be my own God).
Satan’s Lies If this didn’t happen to me, I would be OK (I’m good). Because He allowed this to happen, God is bad. Therefore, I’m the only one who can be trusted (be my own God). It is no big deal (“surely you will not die!”).
Results of Self-rule Keep from the only one who can heal.
Results of Self-rule Keep from the only one who can heal. Cycle of abuse perpetuated.
In Christ we will rise Micah 7:7-10