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Happiness psychology. Prepared by Egl ė Va škelytė, Ps 07-02. Content:. What is happiness psychology? The happy personality Optimists and depression Happiness and friendship Intrinsic goals and happiness Money and happiness Extroverts and happiness Happiness and longer life
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Happiness psychology Prepared by Eglė Vaškelytė, Ps 07-02
Content: • What is happiness psychology? • The happy personality • Optimists and depression • Happiness and friendship • Intrinsic goals and happiness • Money and happiness • Extroverts and happiness • Happiness and longer life • Happiness among older Europeans • Comparing ourselves to others • Counting kindness • Positive illusions
What is happiness psychology? • Happiness psychology is the study of human behavior and happiness. There are secrets to getting and staying happy. • Most people are about as happy as they make up their minds to be. – Abraham Lincoln
The happy personality • Happy people tend to be optimists: they overstate the positive impact of positive events. For example: • They know they can get themselves a second chance. • Most of the time they find themselves asking a positive “How?”. • Their main motto is "Life is not fair, but I’m going to make the best of it and learn to be on the winning side."
Optimists and depression • Both men and women are more likely to be depressed and are less happy around the age of 44. • Optimists are less likely to suffer from depression, but when they do, depression does not last long.
Most people are somewhere in the middle: • at different times of their lives, they move between the two ends of the scale, from being to pessimistic or to optimistic.
Happiness and friendship • A person doesn’t need a large number of friends to be happy – he needs one the best friend.
Intrinsic goals and happiness • Intrinsic goals contribute more to well-being than external goals.
Money and happiness • Why do people want more money if it does not contribute to person’s happiness? • They do not realize more money will not raise their well-being; • People enjoy the goal get higher incomes; • Money produces short-term benefits; • People need to buy things to gain status.
Extroverts and happiness • Extroverts tend to be happier both in short-term and long-term.
Happiness and longer life • Happiness helps you live longer.
Happiness among older Europeans • Older people living alone are more likely to be depressed, lonelyand unhappy; • Those living with a relative or friend were more likely to be lonely than those living with a spouse.
Comparing ourselves to others • In some cases, comparing makes us feel better, but also it can cause sadness, depression or anger.
Counting kindness • People can become happier and more grateful by simply counting acts of kindness for one week.
Positive illusions • Positive, idealized illusions give greater satisfaction than thinking in terms of “reality”.
Conclusions • Happy people tend to be optimists and are less likely to suffer from depression. • Happiness is bigger than: -we have one the best friend; -our goals are intrinsic; -we do not compare ourselves with others; -we count kindness and have positive illusions; -we are living with other people; • Money does not raise our well-being.
References: • Linda L. Davidoff “Introduction to psychology”, PLEASURE, JOY, AND HAPPINESS • http://harvardmagazine.com/2007/01/the-science-of-happiness.html • http://behavioural-psychology.suite101.com/article.cfm/psychology_of_happiness • http://lifehappiness.org/psychologyofhappiness/ • http://happinesspsych.com/
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