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The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens Habits 1-7 Mind Mapping. Habit 1 – Be Proactive 1. Why does Habit 1 come first? p. 48 2. What 5 statements does Habit 1 make? 3. What is the first step to achieving the private victory ? Mind Mapping Concepts Reactive Choices p. 49
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The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens Habits 1-7 Mind Mapping
Habit 1 – Be Proactive 1. Why does Habit 1 come first? p. 48 2. What 5 statements does Habit 1 make? 3. What is the first step to achieving the private victory? Mind Mapping Concepts Reactive Choices p. 49 Proactive Choices Reactive Language p. 51 Proactive Language Inner and Outer Circle p. 54-55 Change Agent p. 59-61 Can-do People p. 63 Pause Button p. 65-66 4 Power Tools p. 66
Habit 2 – Begin with the End in Mind What does begin with the end in mind mean? p. 74. Mind Mapping Concepts End in Mind – define, good reasons p. 74-76 Visualize Your Future p. 75 Crossroads - What decisions that will affect your future are you facing right now? p. 76-79 Who controls your destiny? p. 80 Uncovering Your Talents – The Great Discovery 1-10 p. 83-91 Personal Mission Statement Use p. 81-82 and p. 90-91 for inspiration and methods. Watch Outs #1, #2, #3 p. 92-94 5 Keys to Goal Setting p. 94-102 Make Your Life Extraordinary p. 102-103
Habit 3 – Put First Things First Will and Won’t Power Mind Mapping Concepts Time Quadrants 1,2,3,4 Plan Weekly – Step 1,2,3 – Big Rocks Adapt Daily Comfort Zone – Courage Zone Never let your fears make your decisions Winning means rising each time you fall Be strong in the hard moments Overcoming peer pressure Common ingredient of success
Habit 4 – Think Win-Win Mind Mapping Concepts Win-Lose – The Totem Pole Lose-Win – The Doormat Lose-Lose – The Downward Spiral Win-Win – The All You Can Eat Buffet Win the Private Victory First Tumor Twins – Competing and Comparing Fruits of the Win-Win Spirit – No Deal Habit 5 – Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood Deepest Need of the Human Heart 5 Poor Listening Styles- Spacing, Pretend ,Selective , Word, Self-centered, Judging, Advising, Probing Genuine Listening – Step 1,2,3 – Mirroring/Desire Communicating with Parents Seek to Be Understood – Feedback – I/You Message
Habit 6 – Synergize Synergy Celebrating Differences - Shunner, Tolerator, Celebrator Minority of One – Learn, See, Traits My Learning Style – pick 1 p. 186 My Fruit Type – pick 1 p. 187-188 Roadblocks – Ignorance, Cliques, Prejudice, Finding the “High” Way Getting to Synergy – Action Plan steps 1-5 Teamwork – Plodders, Followers, Innovators, Harmonizers, Show-offs Habit 7 – Sharpen the Saw 4 Key Dimensions Body – You Are What You Eat, Use It Or Lose It, How You Feel Not Look, Real Life or Art, Quit Whenever, Refusal Skill Brain– Pay the Price, Educated Mind, Sharpen/Expand Your Mind Find Your Niche, Obstacles to Education, Mental Barriers, GottaWanna Heart – Building Relationships, OK To Wait, You’re Gonna Make It, Laughter Soul – Feed Your Soul, Back to Nature, Journal, Spiritual Diet, Addictions Balance Is Better – Take Time For Time Out