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Self-Care for Caregivers. Sallie Gentry, LCSW, CCM The Pat Summitt Clinic.
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Self-Care for Caregivers Sallie Gentry, LCSW, CCM The Pat Summitt Clinic
“It’s a difficult challenge to care for someone who is here, but not here—here physically, but gone mentally and psychologically. You feel alone, and in some ways, you are. For many caregivers, it’s as if there’s a stranger in the house.” - Family Caregiver Alliance, National Center on Caregiving
Feelings Among Caregivers • Depression • Anxiety • Worthlessness • Guilt • Anger • Imbalanced care duties • Loneliness • Stress • Resentment • Trapped • Overwhelmed • Frustration • Exhaustion • Reluctance • Grief • Irritation • Fulfillment • Love • Satisfaction
What is Caregiver Stress? • Emotional and physical toll of caregiving • Significantly higher stress level than those who are not caregivers • Feeling “on call” • Unable to do what you enjoy • Role reversal
Risk Factors • Women • Living with the person you are caring for • Not having a choice • Financial strain • Depression • Isolation • Number of hours spent caregiving • Challenging family members
Signs of Caregiving Stress • Weight fluctuation • Sadness and depression • Unusual sleep patterns • Alcohol/Drug abuse • Bodily pain • Exhaustion • Overwhelmed • Loss of interest • Inability to make decisions
It’s okay to feel the way you do!
Responsibilities • Personal • Husband/wife, kids, friends, church, etc. • Work • Caregiving • Daily tasks
Statistics from the CDC • More than 34 million unpaid caregivers provide care to someone age 18 and older who is ill or has a disability (AARP, 2008). • Half (53%) of caregivers who said their health had gotten worse due to caregiving also said the decline in their health has affected their ability to provide care (NAC, 2006). • Caregivers said they do not go to the doctor because they put their family’s needs first (67% said that is a major reason), or they put the care recipient’s needs over their own (57%). • More than half (51%) said they do not have time to take care of themselves and almost half (49%) said they are too tired to do so (NAC, 2004).
Preventing Burnout Respite Care Adult Day Facilities In-home Assistance Meditation ASKING FOR HELP! • Caring for yourself (MD appts, dentist, etc.) • Get away • Stepping back • Support Groups • Talking with friends • Hobbies • Religion
Preparing for the Holidays • Plan ahead • Self-care • Prepare your loved one • Prepare you family • Involve everyone in activities • Communicate • Smart gift giving • Safe home environment • Travel wisely • Find sources of support • When your loved one lives in a facility Provided by the Alzheimer's Association- 10 Holiday Survival Tips
Managing Difficult Behaviors • Wandering • Reduce stimuli • Curtains or signs on the doorways • Locks that are difficult to reach or open • Exercise • Seek medical attention
Managing Difficult Behaviors • Aggressive Behaviors • Redirect the conversation • Routines • Stay grounded • Keep a calm tone • Positive/non-threatening body language • Limit distractions • Seek medical attention • DON’T ARGUE
Planning Ahead • Have Power of Attorney and Living Will documents readily available and completed • Who will care for your loved one if something happens to you? • Make sure your family is involved and informed • Elder Law Attorneys
For Final Consideration If you don’t take care of yourself, who will be there to take care of your loved one?
Resources and Support • Alzheimer’s Tennessee • www.alztennessee.org • Alzheimer’s Association • www.alz.org/altn • National Institute on Health • www.nih.org • Support Groups • Counseling Services • Purple Cities • www.purplecities.org
References • 10 Holiday Survival Tips Alzheimer's Association (2017). Retrieved October 5, 2017, from https://www.alz.org/flgulfcoast/alzheimers_disease_62487.asp • Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. (2011, September 7). Healthy aging. Retrieved September 3, 2016, from Centers for Disease Control and Prevention: http://www.cdc.gov/aging/caregiving/facts.htm • Family Caregiver Alliance, National Center on Caregiving . (n.d.). Caregiving and Ambiguous Loss. Retrieved September 1 2016, 2016, from Family caregiver alliance : https://www.caregiver.org/caregiving-and-ambiguous-loss • Holidays and Alzheimer's, Families Caregiver Center, Alzheimer’s Association (2017). Retrieved October 5, 2017, from https://www.alz.org/care/alzheimers-dementia-holidays.asp • Mayo Foundation for Medical Education and Research. (2016, March 07). Stress management . Retrieved September 1, 2016, from Mayo Clinic: http://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/stress-management/in-depth/caregiver-stress/art-20044784 • Office on Women's Health, U.S. Dept. of Health and Human Services. (2015, August 17). Caregiver stress. Retrieved September 2, 2016, from Office on Women's Health : http://www.womenshealth.gov/publications/our-publications/fact-sheet/caregiver-stress.html